Woman who Cheat

anniebaby10

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I am a mid 40s female and have been faithful to my husband all our marriage. We love sex and have done pretty much anything you can think of so I have had no reason to wander. In the past year it seems like all my female friends have started fucking around behind their husbands back. They always want to tell me about how great the sex is and how much more they orgasm. So I have some questions for everyone especially the ladies. One, if the sex is so much better why? Two, how do you handle it when a friend tells you something like this? Are you supposed to be happy for them? I never judge anyone but just try and ask what is so great about it? If you want oral sex or anal sex or whatever it is that this outside relationship brings you why not ask at home? I sure as hell would never rat them out but eventually they are gonna get caught. And guys, is it more exciting to fuck a married woman? Are they doing things you cannot get at home as well? thanks
 
Posting history suggests OP is just another Que alt trying to relive past experiences. :rolleyes:
 
I am a mid 40s female and have been faithful to my husband all our marriage. We love sex and have done pretty much anything you can think of so I have had no reason to wander. In the past year it seems like all my female friends have started fucking around behind their husbands back. They always want to tell me about how great the sex is and how much more they orgasm. So I have some questions for everyone especially the ladies. One, if the sex is so much better why? Two, how do you handle it when a friend tells you something like this? Are you supposed to be happy for them? I never judge anyone but just try and ask what is so great about it? If you want oral sex or anal sex or whatever it is that this outside relationship brings you why not ask at home? I sure as hell would never rat them out but eventually they are gonna get caught. And guys, is it more exciting to fuck a married woman? Are they doing things you cannot get at home as well? thanks


You may be a bit old for his tastes, but there's always this guy:


https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=1501212


;):):rose:
 
the attraction of married women as cheating partners for me is simply because they are easier to seduce, more grateful for the attention, and less likely to he looking for a permanent hook up.
 
Y'all gonna fuck around and get shot.

This kinda shit never ends well.

I have never understood cheating, like, as a concept. If you're willing to lie to your partner about whole-ass relationships, you don't love them, at all. There's exactly 0 trust or connection. So just break up and then date the person you actually wanna date. It's not rocket science. There's no reason for that nonsense. It's a bunch of complicated bullshit for no reason.
 
I don't fuck with monogamy. It doesn't mean I don't live my partners. However, I also don't lie to my partners.

A long time ago I cheated regularly. It was because I'm not good with monogamy.
 
I don't fuck with monogamy. It doesn't mean I don't live my partners. However, I also don't lie to my partners.

A long time ago I cheated regularly. It was because I'm not good with monogamy.

I mean, I'm also polyamorous, but I'd never cheat on somebody. To cheat there has to be deception. And if you're willing to lie to someone, you don't love them.
 
I am a mid 40s female and have been faithful to my husband all our marriage. We love sex and have done pretty much anything you can think of so I have had no reason to wander. In the past year it seems like all my female friends have started fucking around behind their husbands back. They always want to tell me about how great the sex is and how much more they orgasm. So I have some questions for everyone especially the ladies. One, if the sex is so much better why? Two, how do you handle it when a friend tells you something like this? Are you supposed to be happy for them? I never judge anyone but just try and ask what is so great about it? If you want oral sex or anal sex or whatever it is that this outside relationship brings you why not ask at home? I sure as hell would never rat them out but eventually they are gonna get caught. And guys, is it more exciting to fuck a married woman? Are they doing things you cannot get at home as well? thanks

There is the fun of something new and the thrill of what one is doing. I think those add to it.

As someone who writes about cheating those seem like the hot inspiration.
 
I cheated on my first husband with many men, one of whom is my now current husband. Since marrying him I have had no need to cheat. We're swingers, both of us bi.

S xx
 
I mean, I'm also polyamorous, but I'd never cheat on somebody. To cheat there has to be deception. And if you're willing to lie to someone, you don't love them.

A lot of lovers lie to their partners simply because they love them.
Not necessarily about cheating, but to the "Does my ass look big in these jeans?" type questions and a whole range of other stuff across all aspects of the relationship. Telling lies is an integral part of being in love.
The problems really start when one or other or both can't be bothered lying any more.
 
My angle

I'm banging a married woman right now. It's because her relationship with her husband isn't emotionally or socially fulfilling to her and they really don't like each other but they're together for financial reasons as well as having two kids.

She's having her needs met emotionally, because I pay attention to her, I trust her, I ask her about her day and she's a great person who's being benignly ignored at home. That attention and trust and joy she finds with me is leading to really good sex. She's comfortable and happy around me so she can enjoy the physical process.

That's her motivation. I can't speak for the rest of it from her standpoint.
 
hey ...

I mean, I'm also polyamorous, but I'd never cheat on somebody. To cheat there has to be deception. And if you're willing to lie to someone, you don't love them.

you are obviously very comfortable with YOUR meanings of words and how they are supposed to be defined but I'm sure somehwere in there--, in all the jumble of your mind you actually believe what you are saying is true ... but it isn't.
Your whole thing here depends on your definition of cheating and the way that you tie it to lying.
To cheat, you HAVE to deceive and to deceive you HAVE to lie.
Well you have attempted to deceive us by telling us that since you don't "cheat" you don't deceive and you don't lie--, which is a lie in and of itself.
You have, you are and you will again in the future--, LIE.
But go on, you sound like you are 'murican, you free baby--, go on be you.
 
I have met many married women online. They never justify themselves at the time and I never want to talk about men in any case. They often tell me about intimate parts of their lives, often to explain why they can only talk at night, not during the day, etc.
A few got found out by husbands and contacted me to say they had to say goodbye bc they promised they'd end things. Always apologize. Always say they wish things were different.
A lot of time devoted to sex, but often they just wanted someone to talj to and flirt with and joke around with.
 
I have met many married women online. They never justify themselves at the time and I never want to talk about men in any case. They often tell me about intimate parts of their lives, often to explain why they can only talk at night, not during the day, etc.
A few got found out by husbands and contacted me to say they had to say goodbye bc they promised they'd end things. Always apologize. Always say they wish things were different.
A lot of time devoted to sex, but often they just wanted someone to talj to and flirt with and joke around with.

They were probably all dudes.
 
You don't have to follow the minds and deeds of others. If you love your husband, I don't see why you should destroy your family with something like that. I went through cheating. Only my husband did it behind my back. He behaved for a very long time, although we were together for 15 years, I did not know what I did so cold he acted with me. Once, a friend advised me to call them https://www.familyorbit.com/blog/iphone-tracker/ to check their messages. Maybe she has problems at work and doesn't want to tell me or something. It never occurred to me that writing with his co-worker for two years was a blow to me.
 
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I always found it to be a grass is always greener on the other side type of thing. I could be with someone great and then someone would come along and it was like I wanted to have sex with them as well. Nothing wrong with the current lover but I wanted it all. There also is a bit of excitement when cheating and being naughty but hated the drama that followed.
 
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