Woman seeking same-sex fun in Indiana

[Sianne]

I don't know if this will elicit any response, so I'll just be direct and get on with it.

I'm a 20-year-old white gay female from Indianapolis, IN. I am looking for a woman to have some fun with and maybe from there we'll see where it goes.

To be honest, this is all new to me (coming to terms with my sexuality) and I don't really know if I want anything long-term, but I would certainly be willing to look at that as a possibility.

I am looking for a woman who is a real woman and not someone who is desperately trying to escape their gender by hacking off ALL of their hair and wearing strictly men's clothes. I am assertive and I can stand up for myself, but to look at I am five feet nine inches tall with past-shoulder-legnth blonde hair and green eyes. There has NEVER been a question about my gender!

Well, if you are interested, drop me a line and I promise I'll get back to you.

Sorry this is so blunt and direct, but I'm just sick of mind games and playing around. I hope to hear from you soon!

 

[Sianne]

Just checking in and wanting to keep this thread current. I am looking for same-sex fun in Indiana... so write me and we'll work something out. I look forward to hearing from you.... so write soon, okay? Sianne

 

[x_eve_x]

I'm a 23/bi/f in NW Indiana!

Kimberly

 

[ordiva62]

same sex fun

Hi, Live in IL but very interested in sharing experiences. Have had none to this point but very experienced with men. Am exploring my bisexuality. Wanna help? Drop me a line. Diva

 

[x_eve_x]

I'm about 1/2 hour from Chicago...and you?

 

[Sianne]

Ordiva62,

What part of IL are you from? I am from Indianapolis, but I would be willing to try to make it work if you were. I think we're in the same situation, experience wise... but I DEFINITELY want to explore with a woman... or several women... or... Ooops! There goes my dirty mind wandering...

Sianne

 

[Sianne]

xEvex,

I live in Indianapolis -- central Indiana... I would estimate about two hours away from Chicago... where in Indiana are you?

Sianne

 

[Mr Jones69]

BiCurious Wife

Hello I would like to know if you would consider a trial encounter with my wife and myself? Please let us know

 

[Sianne]

Re: BiCurious Wife

Hello I would like to know if you would consider a trial encounter with my wife and myself? Please let us know

Mr. Jones69,

I prefer women and women only, to be honest... furthermore, you live in Florida, correct? (So your icon says, at least.) I am up to just about anything once, so if you're seeing an angle I'm not, please tell me.

Sianne

 

[EROTICFUN]

Looking for bi

My girlfriend has been looking for her first bi encounter. She told me she wanted to take things easy and just see how it goes. Would you be interested in meeting an older and very sexy women?

Anyway we are both from Indy.

 

[ordiva62]

Same Sex Encounter...mmmm

If anyone would like to get together with me please feel free to PM or email me. I am never quite sure who is talking to who...lol And I definitely do not want to assume anything.

Sianne...Honey, I live near Peoria IL and i would definitely be interested in making this work out.....PM or email me...we'll talk!


Erotic Fun...I too am an older woman and it sounds as if your Girlfriend and I are not so very different. If she is interested let me know.

x_eve_x...I am making the same offer to you that I made to Sianne...PM or email me...we'll talk!


Diva

 

[Sianne]

Re: Looking for bi

My girlfriend has been looking for her first bi encounter. She told me she wanted to take things easy and just see how it goes. Would you be interested in meeting an older and very sexy women?

Anyway we are both from Indy.

Indy is definitely close enough! How old is "older," in this case? Just curious... Thanks for writing... keep me posted, okay?

 

[Sianne]

Re: Same Sex Encounter...mmmm

If anyone would like to get together with me please feel free to PM or email me. I am never quite sure who is talking to who...lol And I definitely do not want to assume anything.

Sianne...Honey, I live near Peoria IL and i would definitely be interested in making this work out.....PM or email me...we'll talk!


Erotic Fun...I too am an older woman and it sounds as if your Girlfriend and I are not so very different. If she is interested let me know.

x_eve_x...I am making the same offer to you that I made to Sianne...PM or email me...we'll talk!


Diva

Do you have an email I could reach you at? I would love to talk!

 

[x_eve_x]

Just wanted to say hi to everyone that sent me a message on this board...hoping to meet one (or all, but I'm not greedy) of the lovely women here

 

[plesmone]

I don't know if this will elicit any response, so I'll just be direct and get on with it.


To be honest, this is all new to me (coming to terms with my sexuality) and I don't really know if I want anything long-term, but I would certainly be willing to look at that as a possibility.

When did you start to come to terms with your sexuality? Recent events make you start thinking or over period of time?

 

[Sianne]

Re: Re: Woman seeking same-sex fun in Indiana

When did you start to come to terms with your sexuality? Recent events make you start thinking or over period of time?

There have been things over the course of the last year and a half that have really opened my eyes to things that have always been there, but that I was programmed not to see. I have always been attracted to women, but I was raised to think that was wrong and bad and... yadda yadda yadda. I have no experience with a woman, as of yet (well, except kissing), but I am more than "curious," I know who I am, and I am looking to have some experience in that area. I hope this answers your question, darling. Feel free to keep them coming.

Sianne

 

[waverlysgirl]

This is a rhetorical question but, where the h*** were all you women when I was in military school at Ft. Ben Harrison 13 years ago??!!

 

[Sianne]

Always seems that way...

This is a rhetorical question but, where the h*** were all you women when I was in military school at Ft. Ben Harrison 13 years ago??!!

I totally understand. It seems like all of the good looking lesbians/bisexuals always are hiding under a rock somewhere, and they only come out after you've gone. No fun for us, apparently, 'eh? Oh, well... I know I'll find the right respondant, here, eventually!

Sianne

 

[Sianne]

*Bump!*

Just bumping this post up so it doesn't get lost in the shuffle. It's a busy sight and things get lost easily.

Sianne

 

[plesmone]

How do you know a night with another woman will satisfy?

 

[Sianne]

Interesting question...

I must say that's an interesting, if not somewhat rude question. That's not really the point of this post, but I suppose I'll answer. How do we really know anything about ourselves? We listen, we know what we DON'T want, and we combine that we how we feel and how we've always felt. I've always known, on some level or another that this is how I feel, and now I just have the opportunity to act upon it. It's what I know I want. And whether it "satisfies" me or not (one night won't be enough forever), it's my perogative to find out, I feel.

Sianne

 

[plesmone]

Re: Interesting question...

I must say that's an interesting, if not somewhat rude question. That's not really the point of this post, but I suppose I'll answer. How do we really know anything about ourselves? We listen, we know what we DON'T want, and we combine that we how we feel and how we've always felt. I've always known, on some level or another that this is how I feel, and now I just have the opportunity to act upon it. It's what I know I want. And whether it "satisfies" me or not (one night won't be enough forever), it's my perogative to find out, I feel.

Sianne

I did not mean to be rude or question your prerogative. I ask because I’m also searching, but perhaps not quite as bold. Unlike you, I don’t have the opportunity to act without much risk. So in questioning your expectations, I reflect on mine. In the beginning of your thread you indicated:

I'm a 20-year-old white gay female from Indianapolis, IN. I am looking for a woman to have some fun with and maybe from there we'll see where it goes.
To be honest, this is all new to me (coming to terms with my sexuality) and I don't really know if I want anything long-term, but I would certainly be willing to look at that as a possibility

I suppose I’m trying to understand your resolve and boldness. To keep within the boundaries of the thread: does you offer maintain some kind of discretion?

 

[Sianne]

I didn't mean to bite....

Plesmone,

Hello, again. I just got done reading your last post. I am sorry if my reply to your original was a little biting, I didn't mean to be rude, either. I suppose I am just a little defensive about the whole topic. I, too, am "new" at this -- having only recently accepted my sexuality. I have never had a same-sex experience and I guess I felt I had to defend myself. I am not the "bi-curious" type that just wants one night of something forever and then I'm done... I've satisfied my curiosity. However, Indy isn't exactly the best place to pick up women and I don't get out much, so I'm just getting kind of restless and I want to "play." If I met someone who I really enjoy talking to and being with, I would be delighted if it would turn into something. If it's just one night of playing to build experience, then so be it.

I hate to sound ignorant, but I don't quite understand exactly how you mean "does your offer maintain some kind ofdiscretion?"
I suppose I hesistate to answer because there are so many ways this question could be interpreted. I am very discreet, if that is what you mean. I would respect that your life is your life, and I have no real part in it should we choose to keep it that way. However, I would need some proof you are "clean," do you understand? I apologize for lacking the forsight to interpret your question... please explain and I will gladly answer.

Until then,
Sianne

 

[plesmone]

Re: I didn't mean to bite....

Plesmone,

Hello, again. I just got done reading your last post. I am sorry if my reply to your original was a little biting, I didn't mean to be rude, either. I suppose I am just a little defensive about the whole topic. I, too, am "new" at this -- having only recently accepted my sexuality. I have never had a same-sex experience and I guess I felt I had to defend myself. I am not the "bi-curious" type that just wants one night of something forever and then I'm done... I've satisfied my curiosity. However, Indy isn't exactly the best place to pick up women and I don't get out much, so I'm just getting kind of restless and I want to "play." If I met someone who I really enjoy talking to and being with, I would be delighted if it would turn into something. If it's just one night of playing to build experience, then so be it.

I hate to sound ignorant, but I don't quite understand exactly how you mean "does your offer maintain some kind ofdiscretion?"
I suppose I hesistate to answer because there are so many ways this question could be interpreted. I am very discreet, if that is what you mean. I would respect that your life is your life, and I have no real part in it should we choose to keep it that way. However, I would need some proof you are "clean," do you understand? I apologize for lacking the forsight to interpret your question... please explain and I will gladly answer.

Until then,
Sianne

It's strange to talk so openly about what stays so guarded inside.

I agree that proof of being ‘clean’ is absolutely necessary. The discretion that I am referring to would be keeping any relationship confined to a place and time regardless of how one felt, unless both were in agreement to break the confidentiality of the relationship.

I'll try to explain where I'm coming from. I have not satisfied my curiosity. I have a strong bi-sexual drive. I want to be with a woman to experience lovemaking, but not willing to give up being with a man. Part of the complication is that I have a man (and a pretty good one) who is not aware of my bi-sexual feelings. I think I would loose him if he found out I was having sex with anyone, man or woman. So my dilemma is how to satisfy my urge without ruining my life. Even though I have not fully experienced lovemaking with a woman, I realize that I may come to the same conclusion sexually as you have, but I want that to be my choice not one that is forced by circumstances.

 

[EROTICFUN]

I apologize to the post for not replying sooner, but both of our computers have been screw around and not in the fun sense.

My girlfriend is 48, but looks about ten years younger. She is bi-curious and is looking for a no pressure situation. Her username is sxylegs and she has submitted some stories. There are pics availble too.

Take a look and go from there.