Woman Seeking Long Term Relationship

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Hello There Literotica,

I have been a lurker for quite some time. BDSM has always held an interest for me. In a world where feminism has always been highly praised, I have long considered myself somewhat anti that idea. That is not to say that I have anything against women who value their independence above all else. I simply have always had a longing for something quite different from what they have wished for. I have never seen myself as your typical 'strong independent woman'. I have always wished to find someone worth submitting to.

That being said, I am not simply a slut who has no brains or wishes of her own. I am a person. And anyone who does not value people for who they are should not contact me by any means. I am not looking to be toyed with. I want to meet real people, who share the same goal as I. Which - what is that goal? I suppose I should move onto that before I completely lose your interest. Online dating is rather terrible. Let alone this sort of thing. There are so many people out there solely looking to take advantage of others.

I would like to find a long term relationship with someone who would be willing to explore my own submissiveness with me. But I don't simply want a dom. I would like to meet someone whom I could spend a great deal of time with - whether we're horny or simply want to have a conversation about each others day. Simply put I want a real relationship on top of a pleasure based one. Someone whom I could spend the rest of my days with. I would like to meet a caring individual who will remind me to take care of myself, and allow me to do the same for him. That being said I would prefer not to be contacted by anyone in a relationship outside of Lit. I want that someday. I don't want to tear apart someone elses or be a secret whore.

As for myself, I am a college student. I like to think of myself as a very empathetic person. I tried vegetarianism at one point due to my love of animals, but I found that it was hard to keep up with given how my family differs in my opinions. I live at home over the summers, and attend university during the year. I enjoy cooking, and cleaning - I would love to find someone for whom I could be the perfect homemaker someday on top of everything else. I love children, in the long term I would love to have them someday.

I'm not looking for someone to take care of my every need. I don't want to be overly coddled. I have my own mind, with which I am currently working to secure a degree in a pretty successful field. My interests outside of school include movies, books, and gaming. I would love to talk about any of the following.

As far as age range goes, I would prefer to find someone between the ages of 18 and 27 if at all possible. If you're curious of my own experience, it's rather limited. I have been in online relationships in the past and have had only one sexual partner in my lifetime. My fetishes include Daddy/daughter play (I am not interested in the age part of this. I am not a fan of diapers, or scat play. No offense to those that are), bondage, and light pain. I am not interested in anyone drawing blood.

Small talk holds no candle to me. If you wish to speak, please message me about yourself and what you would want out of a relationship. I don't have the time to reply to people who simply wish to go through the entire 'hi, how are you?' scenario.

As far as looks go, I am about 5'6. Probably closer to 5'5.5 hah. My hair is a dark brown color, of a medium length. Though I have been known to grow it quite long. Eyes are a green-grey. I would call myself 'curvy' or on the thicker side of things. I fancy myself a bit of a romantic type. I can share images of myself if you're curious and willing to share yourself.

Thank you for taking the time to read my post. I hope to hear from you.

All the best,

Kate
 
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Bump, as this is a well written and deserving personal.
I wish you success in your quest;)
 
Good luck with your search. I wish I had the time that you would like to have devoted to you. You sound like a woundeful women and a truely devoted sub
 
You sound like a lovely girl with a good head on your shoulders. Take your time and find a man that proves his worth through actions, not words.
 
I appreciate all the kind comments. Though I must admit I have gotten very few correspondence :( It's pretty disheartening.
 
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