wives that date other men

[TnHubby]

Very new to this- but I was wondering if there are other married men out the that have or would like it if there wife dated other men. Not a one night stand but a relationship over time. The dangers of such a thing seems to add to the excitment of it. We may or may not have done it. Do you think we have ?

 

[The Dipsomaniac]

mmm i'm thinking that is an unusual question to ask a complete stranger - as i would have NO idea whether you have or not?

Maybe you need to enlighten us some more?!

 

[Ladybird]

We may or may not have done it. Do you think we have ?

I really don't care if you have or not.... that's your business, not mine.

Your post does puzzle me though...

 

[sirhugs]

TnHubby- I agree that its an od question- but a situation I am in, if you need to chat.
If you read my story , you'll see that it works for me

and watch for the sequels

none however will touch on her longterm relationship- thats hers

 

[dickE]

If she's just plain cheating on you...forget it! Personal foul!

But, if it's something you two are doing TOGETHER to enhance your own sexual experiences?....as the most intense foreplay imaginable? By all means enjoy.

 

[knightstalker]

Guess I am old fashioned because if I am married to someone then I don't think I would be real cool about her dating other men..

 

[dickE]

Guess I am old fashioned because if I am married to someone then I don't think I would be real cool about her dating other men..

It's certainly NOT for everyone. Especially those who tend to be possessive {ever notice that most guys who 'cat around' are terribly possessive at home? Hmmmm.}, those who tend to be jealous or those without a strong marriage with good sex to begin with should find some other form of recreation.......maybe square dancing?

 

[sirhugs]

I prefer swing dancing...

it ain't cheatin' if you are honest about it
in my case, after 15 years, variety and freedom helps us appreciate each other more
and my wife's bf is totally unlike me, so he satisfies interests I never could