wives of bi husbands

[wild175133]

This is a tough one for the ladies. Ladies how did you find out your husband is bi? What was your reaction when you found out?How did it affect your relationship with him?

 

[CJontherocks]

Oh, this I gotta see! Post away, girls...

 

[catsr2wild]

This is a tough one for the ladies. Ladies how did you find out your husband is bi? What was your reaction when you found out?How did it affect your relationship with him?

Good idea....my hubby isn't bi...but I think its hot to watch 2 guys....especially if I get to be involved...

 

[wild175133]

Re: Re: wives of bi husbands

Good idea....my hubby isn't bi...but I think its hot to watch 2 guys....especially if I get to be involved...

have you talked to him about this ?

 

[College_geek]

This doesn't really count because I'm not married and he told me before we were actually dating, as a friend to friend thing, but when my now boyfriend told me he was bi, part of me was a little shocked, only because he dropped it so casually into the conversation, but I was mainly happy because it explained why he had a crush on Legolas. I'm quite happy about it, though, because we can both oggle guys and then make out.

 

[superman_cock]

yeah my future wife is going to have to enjoy 2 guys fucking, sucking, or whatever, because I will want to do it ALOT. and yeah, it turns me on a TON to perform gay acts to get a girl turned on. just some thoughts

 

[wild175133]

yeah my future wife is going to have to enjoy 2 guys fucking, sucking, or whatever, because I will want to do it ALOT. and yeah, it turns me on a TON to perform gay acts to get a girl turned on. just some thoughts

have you talked to her about this? if you have what was her reaction and what did she say? has she watched you with a guy yet? if she has what did she watch you do with him and what did she think of it

 

[superman_cock]

have you talked to her about this? if you have what was her reaction and what did she say? has she watched you with a guy yet? if she has what did she watch you do with him and what did she think of it

Well I am not in a relationship right now, I am just saying that when i do meet someone, I am going to have to be open with it and I hope she is cool with it. It will surely mean promising things for our sex life!

 

[anne27]

This is a tough one for the ladies. Ladies how did you find out your husband is bi? What was your reaction when you found out?How did it affect your relationship with him?

Oh boy, let me try and not make this a mini novel . My hubby and have both have opened up to each other and explored our sexuality this year. At my friends request, I confessed to him about an online/phone "affair" I had been having with a female friend of mine and we sat down one night, both drinking a little and discussed our sexuality until dawn. I knew he had some bi-sexual thoughts and feelings during our long marriage, but wasn't exactly sure how far they went. We decided that night we wanted to explore fully our bi-sexual feelings.

We both would up having sex not long afer that with a couple who have been our friends for years. I had my first bi experience with the female and his with the male. This happened a few times and we enjoyed it throughly. We have since then had a very fun threesome with a male friend. I feel like we have just began on our new journey in this brand spanking new life together.

I won't lie and say that everything has been a bowl of cherries. Marriage seldom is easy and love should never be taken for granted, but if you can be open and honest and loving and do things together.... Well, I think that is where the key to keeping things sane is.

He accepts me for who I am. I accept him for who he is and we love one another. What more can anyone ask for?

Hope this made some sense!

 

[DirkPryde]

I'll tell my wife about this thread and she can answer the questions asked

 

[TennesseeMe]

Re: Re: wives of bi husbands

Oh boy, let me try and not make this a mini novel . My hubby and have both have opened up to each other and explored our sexuality this year. At my friends request, I confessed to him about an online/phone "affair" I had been having with a female friend of mine and we sat down one night, both drinking a little and discussed our sexuality until dawn. I knew he had some bi-sexual thoughts and feelings during our long marriage, but wasn't exactly sure how far they went. We decided that night we wanted to explore fully our bi-sexual feelings.

We both would up having sex not long afer that with a couple who have been our friends for years. I had my first bi experience with the female and his with the male. This happened a few times and we enjoyed it throughly. We have since then had a very fun threesome with a male friend. I feel like we have just began on our new journey in this brand spanking new life together.

I won't lie and say that everything has been a bowl of cherries. Marriage seldom is easy and love should never be taken for granted, but if you can be open and honest and loving and do things together.... Well, I think that is where the key to keeping things sane is.

He accepts me for who I am. I accept him for who he is and we love one another. What more can anyone ask for?

Hope this made some sense!

Accidently stumbling across my wifes post. Thanking her for being able to be honest and open about her feelings, so that I could be honest and open about mine. We have shared many years together not knowing or understanding things within ourselves and learning more of each other through the insight we have gained.

 

[au_man]

Great thread!!!

I told her while we were dating... We both had similar experences. She has never wished to repeat her experences, though I have always been interested in continuing my male to male fun.

Unfortunatly, she is against involving any others in our relationship.

She had a threesome with two males that had been best friends, until after their shared experence. The best friends were no longer friends and she blames herself for consenting to the threesome.

Her mind is closed on the issue...

The closest I will get to contuning my adventures with other men is with her strap-on.... Not a bad compromise I guess.

She loves being my "top" and for someone who enjoys being a "bottom", it works for us.

Hey, TennesseeMe and Ann... Great pics! I enjoyed your first time thread... Hope to see more, though one can only have one "first"!!! You help me to dream about the future and live through your experiences....

Thanks!

 

[anne27]

Re: Great thread!!!

Hey, TennesseeMe and Ann... Great pics! I enjoyed your first time thread... Hope to see more, though one can only have one "first"!!! You help me to dream about the future and live through your experiences....

Thanks!

Aww, thanks hon . We recently had another experience and I've just started putting the pics up from it. It's still on the same thread, though I probably should have started a "Hubby's 2nd Bi Taste" one .

 

[aarons_goddess2003]

My CD fiance

When I first started dating my boyfriend, it was a long distance relationship online...he lived in san diego, and I lived in Napa, CA. He finally came to live with me and my parents house. I had no idea that he liked men as well. Until about the third or fourth night of his stay at my house. Me and him were out in the garage (where he stayed cuz dad wouldnt allow us to sleep in the same room) he told me to close my eyes. When he told me to open them he had put on my bra and underwear....at first he just wanted to see my reaction, whether I thought it was disgusting or I liked it, so he wouldnt feel as imbarrased and would just pass it off as him being silly if I foung it to be revolting. But I didnt. I loved it. I have always loved it when guys dressed up as women...and especially when men have sex with other men. When I told him I loved it, we started to have mad passionate sex right then and there...he started to feel really comfortable around me ever since....but he does like dick. But not just any dick, it has to be only when other men dress like women...it gives him such a hard on, he jacks off right then and there...which actually bothers me...I dont mind him dressing up, but when I see him getting a woody looking at other men in dresses it kills me inside, only because in order for me to get him hard, we have to have foreplay...and I cant visually stimulate him...I cry sometimes...so it is a bit of a conflict with me...sometimes I wish I had a dick so he would get a turned on more around me. Though he swears he doesnt want me to have a sex change, it just makes me feel like shit when he's sitting there jacking off looking at CD pics online. I dunno if any of you women have experienced the same thing as me, but I know it sux...it feels like I am constantly competing with these other men, needing to look better and stuff. Its a headache sometimes.

 

[geishaGirl]

aarons_goddess That sounds difficult It makes me feel like my time with things hasn't been so bad!

My husband told me he was bi I think about 4 months into our relationship. (We've been married for just over a year and together for 3 years). I certainly didn't take it well at first! I felt very insecure and misinterpreted it to mean he wanted to leave me and be with men only. I didn't understand the concept of what he was talking about at all

Since then I have come to understand that aspect of him...I really like the idea of him being with a man although to date, I haven't had the pleasure of witnessing sex I've seen him kiss a guy, go down on a guy, seen a guy go down on him, seen them touch etc. It turns me on

It has affected my relationship with my husband in a major way. I guess I could say I wasn't aware of bisexuality that much at all before my husband told me he was bi. After I got over my initial negative, and very hurtful, reaction and we started to talk calmly I "remembered" having my first kiss with a girl, not a boy, and I started to wonder about my own sexuality. Basically it has prompted a whole re-examination of alot of my ideas on relationships, marriage, sex, love etc. and in many ways I am glad for that. I feel that I have grown in ways I wouldn't have had he not told me he was bi or had he not been bi at all.

It has been very hard at times because of my upbringing being fairly traditional and not having had bisexuality discussed, even in school when I was growing up. My belief in monogamy has been put to the test, I have felt confused at times, but this confusion and my beliefs being tested have also related to finding out where I stand with my own sexuality as much as it relates to my husband's.

I think that answers the questions.........if not ask some more and I'll be happy to share - it's a topic I actually have experience in!

 

[horndognslutpup]

Mine has only told me, so far, that's he's curious. Does that count? lol It began w/him telling me that as a teenager he tried to suck his own cock, but never got farther than just the tip. He could shoot a load in his mouth and loved it. After 12 years of marriage we started checking out swinging. At first he said "NO!" to doing anything with another man, but after months of doing my tongue/fingers and assorted toys in his ass, he's now at the point that he's wondering how much better the real thing would feel! I'm in absolute heaven thinking about this! I can't wait for him to suck and be sucked, to fuck and be fucked by another hard cock. We're trying VERY hard to find bi couples to play with! I hope his first experience is WONDERFUL, and the first of hundreds! I will gladly clean another man's cum from his mouth or ass, if given the chance! Damn, now I need to go toy myself to death till he gets home!

 

[rl_dylan]

Re: Re: wives of bi husbands

Good idea....my hubby isn't bi...but I think its hot to watch 2 guys....especially if I get to be involved...

Just stopped by, soooooooooooo
wild thing - - - has that ever happened? My "male" fantasy also

 

[Mary Hall]

My boyfriend is bi, it was me who helped him discover it

 

[au_man]

Re: Great thread!!!

I told her while we were dating... We both had similar experences. She has never wished to repeat her experences, though I have always been interested in continuing my male to male fun.

Unfortunatly, she is against involving any others in our relationship.

She had a threesome with two males that had been best friends, until after their shared experence. The best friends were no longer friends and she blames herself for consenting to the threesome.

Her mind is closed on the issue...

The closest I will get to contuning my adventures with other men is with her strap-on.... Not a bad compromise I guess.

She loves being my "top" and for someone who enjoys being a "bottom", it works for us.

Hey, TennesseeMe and Ann... Great pics! I enjoyed your first time thread... Hope to see more, though one can only have one "first"!!! You help me to dream about the future and live through your experiences....

Thanks!

Hey all... I did get my wife to join our group and while she is shy about posting... She is game!

Please look for smokeygirl6 on some of the other threads....

She posted on the "Magical Mystery Strap on" thread..

I an trying to get her to post our stap on fun pics, so any encouragment would be appreciated. I hope you will reach out and add some welcome posts to make her feel at home... She is new to posting and rather shy on line...

Thanks for the effort!

au_man

You can find her post here,
https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?s=&postid=10278031#post10278031

 

[chromefreak]

I waited until my girlfriend and I were watching porn and masturbating together and we were exchanging fantasies. I mentioned us and another couple, told her how much I wanted to see her coming while another woman went down on her, and mentioned that I'd love it if she kneeled mehind me with her hands on my hips and gave me pointers while i tried sucking his cock.

No double standards here.

 

[CJontherocks]

It was very very hot being watched by a woman! I'd do that again.

 

[wild175133]

the post has kind of fizzled i gues not many woman who are married to bi men know about their hubbies other side so to take this in to a new direction the question turns to the men

to the married bi men does your wife know if not what is keeping you from telling her about your desires and are you comfortable hiding this side of you from her and what would she do if she found out

 

[wild175133]

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no body wants to talk anymore

 

[horndognslutpup]

Wives of Bi Husbands

When it comes to bi men, I always want to talk! My hubby is stll classified as "curious" at the moment, but I hope future experiences really help him enjoy being with a man. Our fantasies have made us screw like demons, and hopefully reality will make it even better! I WANT my husband to be bi, and want that cock in his mouth and his ass!

 

[Bshaven]

nice thread

I am a single guy. So i am not a husband. I do hope i find that fun open woman so i can someday be her bi husband and we can suck together.