with what are you developing a fascination right now?

[silverwhisper]

OK, i'm a little buzzed still and was awoken a few hours ago for sex. i can't go back to sleep just yet...which is of course the best time of all to come up w/ a new thread. :>

i'm realizing that i'm developing a bit of an obsession w/ anal sex lately. it was always just another color on my sexual palette, but it's a color i've been using a whole lot lately.

now, i know i can't be the only person who's been developing fascinations that might be new. so what about you? sexual, non-sexual: it's all good.

ed

 

[Athenea]

Sexually, my two current fascinations are anal sex and giving oral sex.

I've never tried anal sex, my last bf said he "respected me too much to do that" and I haven't gotten a chance to try it after breaking up with him, so yeah, it really does fascinate me. I can't say I haven't played with that area by myself, but I guess if I enjoy it that way having a man do it to me has to be just amazing.

As for being on the giving end of oral sex, I've always loved it, but lately I've been reading on it like crazy and I think my new lifetime want is to give a guy his best bj ever

Now, if I only had the guy to practice with..

 

[silverwhisper]

"respected you too much"? what a schmuck! he obviously didn't know what he was missing out on!

ed

 

[viosh]

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[Athenea]

"respected you too much"? what a schmuck! he obviously didn't know what he was missing out on!

ed

And making me miss out on! I think his exact words were "I could never be with a girl who's had a dick up her ass" And that was the beginning of the end for us

 

[Athenea]

pick me pick me

Any chance you're near Spain?

 

[silverwhisper]

nevermind! :>

 

[M's girl]

And making me miss out on! I think his exact words were "I could never be with a girl who's had a dick up her ass" And that was the beginning of the end for us

That's called sexual preferences or likes/dislikes. There is a line that one should not cross for everyone. His was, obviously, anal sex. If that is really what you NEED from a relationship, you were right to finish it.

 

[Athenea]

That's called sexual preferences or likes/dislikes. There is a line that one should not cross for everyone. His was, obviously, anal sex. If that is really what you NEED from a relationship, you were right to finish it.

The problem was he didn't have a problem with giving anal sex, he just had a problem with giving it to his girlfriend. He said he wouldn't mind doing it with a one night stand, but would never do it with his gf He actually had many problems with experimentation in any form, specially if I was the one with the ideas

 

[silverwhisper]

he sounds like a bit of a control freak, if you ask me. :>

ed

 

[wicked woman]

The problem was he didn't have a problem with giving anal sex, he just had a problem with giving it to his girlfriend. He said he wouldn't mind doing it with a one night stand, but would never do it with his gf He actually had many problems with experimentation in any form, specially if I was the one with the ideas

Right...why would you want to give your gf mind-blowing orgasms.

 

[M's girl]

The problem was he didn't have a problem with giving anal sex he just had a problem with giving it to his girlfriend. He said he wouldn't mind doing it with a one night stand, but would never do it with his gf

Sounds like a guy I had a one night stand with at one time. He was actually also persueing another girl and I knew that. This was in my somewhat 'wilder' days and I had the excuse of being on holiday in Lloret de Mar (Spain) where every single person goes to get laid, so to speak. Anyway....

We had sex but he also spent the night with the other girl. When he was gone the other girl and I became friends ( ) and she said he did not want to have sex (the European way, I guess) with her because she was 'special' .... Of course neither she or me heard from loverboy again after he had left. We sent him a postcard though.... together (That actually might have helped, I dunno)

 

[silverwhisper]

i'm also finding that i'm developing a fascination w/ dom/sub play.

ed

 

[M's girl]

i'm also finding that i'm developing a fascination w/ dom/sub play.

ed

Just out of curiousity.... do you think that has anything to do with the whole anal fascination-thing? Because it could, in my opinion. Of course I'm nowhere near an expert in that area (both areas to be honest...)

 

[silverwhisper]

possibly: there's certainly some overlap. not sure, to be honest.

ed

 

[bobsgirl]

i'm also finding that i'm developing a fascination w/ dom/sub play.

ed

I am too, ed. I've been doing some reading on the subject.

Oh. And spanking. But this fascination is not new.

 

[poppy1963]

i'm also finding that i'm developing a fascination w/ dom/sub play.

ed

I, too, have a growing interest in the whole D/s thing...not so much as wanting to put it into practice really as learn about it. I have many misconceptions about the dynamics and all the mind-blowing paradoxes that the personalities & relationships embody. I'm just reading and asking some questions on that forum and watching some of the practitioners. Fascinating...and compelling.

This is a very good thread...to put the ideas out there!

 

[vanelane]

Lately, sex with two men at the same time, and bondage. Perhaps a combination of my two fascinations? Hmmm...

 

[Kowalski2]

I've always had a bit of a fascination with sub/dom sex, but I always tended to err on the side of submission, guess I was a bit too polite... but now I'm definitely heading towards domination.... I still wouldn't mind being put over someone's knee and spanked, but the thought of doing it to a nice big bottomed woman is an increasingly pleasant thought. I also have a bit of a thing about anal, so my current facination is about plucking up the courage to try it with my current partner... who does happen to have a lovely big bottom I don't know why I'm nervous about suggesting it, she had two fingers up mine a couple of weeks ago... I think I'll just head down there with my fingers and tongue and work from there...... Phew, yes, that's a facination right now !

 

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[Nightbird]

Your a guy right Scaly?

 

[emap]

Oh thanks Scaly, I so didn't need that image.

For me it's getting my guy into a gay affair, I would of course get to watch.

Sadly he won't go for that, he has a similar though stronger aversion to anal. Well at least it seems that way, we had talked about sex in general and after I told him my aversion to anal he said he didn't care for it, who knows though, maybe he just isn't into guys and doesn't want to and is using the anal aversion as a cop out. Either way I'll keep teasing him with the idea.

 

[silverwhisper]

scaly: i'm envious. :>

ed

 

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