With the chance of flames....Mushy thread

[Xander]

For those of you who have a loved one, and you cant see him/her at times where you most want it. Cant hold them in your arms and tell them how you feel.

personally I get the feeling of loneliness, feeling completely alone in a room full of people, empty and a need to see her so strong that its not even remotely funny.

How do you guys deal with that??

Myst, how do you deal with the fact that Juspar is so far away.?

Angel how about you, knowing that BadKarma is in the opposite part of the country??

Last month I used more money on Phonecards than my car payment........

Yeah so sue me. I'm being mushy....


I just miss her so fucking much!!!!

 

[Always]

i'm only fourty miles away from my love and i still miss her gods i know what you mean...

 

[Xander]

I hear you Always

And I'm a little over 600 miles away from my love.............

 

[sexy-girl]

i had this problem too ... her in toronto canada me in london uk the time zone was a killer too


one way we use to deal with it was doing things together sometimes ... listening to a cd together at the sametime ... telling her i'd be out in the garden at midnight looking up searching for "our star" ... posting eachother lots of silly gifts ... i sent her my front door key because wanted her to have it ... write love letters too they are better then emails ... theres a million other things we did but to be honest i cant say it was ever easy ... i missed her tons everyday


spending a fortune on a phone bill helps obviously is scary how much money i spent in a year my gf had to send me money to pay for it meeting online helps too but im sure you do that


ahh i forgot one of the fav ones ... to masturbate at the same time *blush* ... i think it basically really helps when you can share stuff your doing with the person thats so far away so you can make the distance seem shorter and make yourself feel closer to them

 

[bluntforcemama]

Ah, Xan.... I'm sorry you're hurting. I know it sucks. I'm something of a free spirit, so I don't like to feel tied down, if you know what I mean. I miss Juspar, but at the same time, I really like having my freedom at this point in my life. I get to talk to him on MSN almost every night, though. That makes it easier, but I'm always aware of when I haven't talked with him for a while. I start to get this empty feeling.

 

[Xander]

SG yeah I know exactly what you mean about that.

Myst, well I dont think there is any doubt about the fact that I am a free spirit myself.....BUT..and ask anyone here that knows me IRL, ask the Frat House Members.
The only time I truely smile now, is either when I'm on the phone with her, or sitting in my own little world thinkingnabout her...better yet. Val and Ravenloft ahve seen how I look when I am close to her...and both of them swear, that they have never seen me so happy before.

Call me mushy. Call me a hopeless romantic...I just miss her...and I find it harder and harder to deal with the distance.

 

[Angel]

Phonecards help. $10 gets me cards between 650 and 1000 minutes depending on which store I go to.

Knowing that by the end of this year that I'll be with him permanantly usually gets me through the tougher moments.

In short, it sucks. After so many relationships gone wrong, after being cheated on, and hurt and so many other problems - and then finding the person who is FINALLY everything you are looking for only to have to be away from them for so long is so bittersweet.

 

[Xander]

Bittersweet indeed Angel.

Though on the tougher moments I kinda feel like someone has emptied a M16 clip in my stomach.......
Leaving me feeling empty, alone and sometimes dead.

 

[Angel]

Nicotine helps alot too.

 

[Xander]

Nicotine helps alot too.

yeah dont even get me started on that one Angel...I'm sucking down too many ciggys again.......

 

[Angel]

I quit today. Hopefully it lasts.

 

[lobito]

going to bed alone...

is the lonliest feeling I've ever experienced, knowing my fiance is over 1000 miles away, a few times a year.

We're soulmates who've known each other for 20+ years, and when she's gone I can't wait to call her, and tell her how much I love her & miss her. If we have the luxury, we spend hours on end chatting on the computer, (does wonders for saving on international long distance calls). The days or nights when she comes back home, it's like we were apart for a lifetime.

Words truely can't describe the emotions we have for each other, it goes without saying between the two of us.

Some of the ways I get by, are the simplest things I can do. Listen to our favorite music, watch our favortie movies, especially home movies, or looking at my favourite photo of us together. Knowing that she'll be back soon.

 

[Xander]

I quit today. Hopefully it lasts.

Hope it'll last too Angel...though for me I have no intention nor need to quit...I love it too much.
But I still ahve to get away from the pack a day routine again.

 

[Demian]

Thank god You Have That Hurtness...

Because when your Heart no longer feels that, it's like not being excited for Christmas Morning...And when you're not Excited for Christmas Morning...That hurtness iz the next thing to go...Good Luck

 

[Mistress]

Awwww

I miss you too baby!

kisses your nose

At least we have the computer, if we didn't I think there would be a bad problem

I'll talk to you later tonight Min Smukke Dansker. AND I'll see you Sunday when you, NS and NSW come by for dinner

MUAH!


Jeg elsker dig, min smukke dansker!
Indtil i aften,jeg vil savne dig rigtigt meget!

 

[Cheyenne]

I quit today. Hopefully it lasts.

Cool! Another one quits! Think Lit will ever be a non-smoking board? Nah, probably not. Good luck though- seems to be lots of people here in the same boat right now to give you support.

Next topic- where do you get phone cards so cheap, or did you slip a digit in your post? 1,000 minutes for $10 is only 1 cent per minute- I'd take that in a heartbeat if I could find it. Did you mean $100?

 

[Mistress]

If I go to the right places I can get almost 1000 minutes for $10.00, for $20.00 I can get almost 2000. It comes in handy when you call places around the world. So yes its a penny a minute just about.......

 

[Angel]

Yup Cheyenne 1000 for $10. Just gotta look til you find em.

I found them quite by accident - the store I get them 650 for $10 happened to have run out one night so I had to search around for another store. I found one, bought the card and took it home. It had 1000 minutes on it. I went back, and checked and it wasn't a mistake. I was thrilled and now go out there whenever I am able.

 

[sexy-girl]

i had a £300 phone bill in a month (was about that most months) ... shame didnt have these sort of cards then

 

[Xander]

Mistress min solstraale. I cannot stress how much I am looking forward to seeing you on Sunday I'll probaly be speeding in NS' nice car on the way down
jeg savner dig min solstraale, og du betyder alt for mig!

As for Phonecards.
Well I have been fucked over once when buying a 20 dollar phonecard with 2000 minutes on it....so I aint doing that anymore.
I went down a scale and buy 20 dollar wphone cards with close to 7 hours on them....I also go through about 2 of these per week.

 

[Xander]

i had a £300 phone bill in a month (was about that most months) ... shame didnt have these sort of cards then

When I lived in Denmark I tried to get a 1200 dollar phone bill......Holy jesus christ...That one hurt to pay.

This is roughly calculated from the Danish currency.

 

[Xander]

Awwww

I miss you too baby!

kisses your nose

At least we have the computer, if we didn't I think there would be a bad problem

I'll talk to you later tonight Min Smukke Dansker. AND I'll see you Sunday when you, NS and NSW come by for dinner

MUAH!


Jeg elsker dig, min smukke dansker!
Indtil i aften,jeg vil savne dig rigtigt meget!

Uhm baby we'll be there by noon...perhaps even 11 am, all depending on Traffic, AND NS and NSW is looking so much forward to all of us being together.

 

[LadyDarkFire]

7-11 has 2.9 cents a min phone cards, but you might want to consider talking for long periods at a time (I know that will be suck a stretch) because the connection cost is 69 cents. Another thing that helps is getting a cheap web cam, and then using AIM or another service to connect through net meeting, so you can actually see them in semi real time. If you can get to a fast enough connection, voice chat cuts down on phone card costs. Another thing is exchanging something like a sweatshirt that they have worn once or twice. The scent is a comfort.

 

[Juspar Emvan]

Ah, Xan.... I'm sorry you're hurting. I know it sucks. I'm something of a free spirit, so I don't like to feel tied down, if you know what I mean. I miss Juspar, but at the same time, I really like having my freedom at this point in my life. I get to talk to him on MSN almost every night, though. That makes it easier, but I'm always aware of when I haven't talked with him for a while. I start to get this empty feeling.

*sigh*

1000 miles away. We started to prove that we can be free and yet together at the same time, lord knows it made me happier than I've been in too long being with her. It helps that we seem to think of each other at the same time often, and thank god(s) for the internet. One more month and I see her again.

Thank you baby *muah*, a night for warm fuzzies apparently.

 

[Simply Me]

Yes, a night for warm fuzzies

23 hours and Dragon will be here. *Happy Sigh*