I've never done this before so I don't know quite what to say. I can say that my marriage is fine in all respects except in the bedroom. It's not my wife's fault nor mine... she's just wired a little less hot than I am, I guess. Sex is not interesting to her. I have had many fantasies and desires left unfulfilled and this has led to an empty space in my life. Am I a dog? A lying, cheating bastard? Yes, to some I am, and worse, I suppose. I do know myself well enough to be true to basic desires such as this. So, what I'd really like is to be with someone who is just as interested in fulfilling fantasies and exploring their sexuality as I am but who can't in their current arrangement, who doesn't like to go to bars or sleep around with just anybody. I want to be with someone who is just as scared as I am about doing something like this; someone who is substantial enough to explore what they really want to know for themselves, not what the world tries to tell them. I welcome all inquiries from females where a relationship is desired. Thanks for your time and good luck with your searches. ~