Will a tranny penetrate me?

[elims]

I really want to seriously look for a relationship with a tranny, and I'll mostly top. But I would like to be fucked in the ass once in a while too. Will trannies out here or those who have some info in this area, are you willing to penetrate your lover sometimes too, or do you mostly want to be a bottom. I've never had the pleasure of being with a tranny, but am so turned on by the idea. Even a long-term relationship would be nice.

 

[Bramblethorn]

I really want to seriously look for a relationship with a tranny, and I'll mostly top. But I would like to be fucked in the ass once in a while too. Will trannies out here or those who have some info in this area, are you willing to penetrate your lover sometimes too, or do you mostly want to be a bottom. I've never had the pleasure of being with a tranny, but am so turned on by the idea. Even a long-term relationship would be nice.

Be aware that "tranny" is offensive to a lot of trans people. It has a bad history. If you want a long-term relationship with a trans woman, you might want to do a bit of reading first to be aware of issues like that.

Re. your question: it varies from person to person. Some trans folk have severe dysphoria and don't even want to look at their genitals, let alone fuck anybody with them. Others might be okay with it BUT many trans women will have difficulty getting an erection because of hormone replacement therapy. As with any sexual partner but especially with trans people, it's important to ask them what they like in bed. The Internet can't give you a definitive answer.

Be aware, also, that many trans people will be very uneasy about getting into a relationship with somebody who's looking for one specific sex act.

 

[dacoach44]

Bramble, U got it right

Be aware that "tranny" is offensive to a lot of trans people. It has a bad history. If you want a long-term relationship with a trans woman, you might want to do a bit of reading first to be aware of issues like that.

Re. your question: it varies from person to person. Some trans folk have severe dysphoria and don't even want to look at their genitals, let alone fuck anybody with them. Others might be okay with it BUT many trans women will have difficulty getting an erection because of hormone replacement therapy. As with any sexual partner but especially with trans people, it's important to ask them what they like in bed. The Internet can't give you a definitive answer.

Be aware, also, that many trans people will be very uneasy about getting into a relationship with somebody who's looking for one specific sex act.

Yes, go slow.

 

[yukonnights]

I think that by your question you are relatively new to this desire. And I don't mean that to be in any way derogatory, it just puts my comment in the proper context of my thoughts. It is important to realize that the desire/need to be feminine has a great range of expressions. The scale might begin at the curious bisexual male who wears panties once in awhile...to Transvestites (cross-dressers) who go from mild to wild with their expression of femininity...and the Transgender who is in fact a female in the wrong body. In my opinion, each one of these has some degree of inner female needing to get out.

It is important for you to determine what level of "Trans" you are drawn to. But just remember, that the Transgender mtf is more likely to be more like a person born female (cis-gendered) than some wild and wanton sex animal. Many of them really do want to be the wife of their perfect man just like any other woman. Just from the question you asked, I would think you're more into a person toward the other end of the spectrum (Transvestite/casual CD, etc). Some of these people may in fact be aroused by your use of the term Tranny...but you need to know what/who you're looking for in the first place. But to answer your question; yes, you can find those who will be into what you are...just don't think it's going to be easy finding her unless you live in a very progressive urban setting..

And just a suggestion that might further help; I think you would gain a lot of insight in reading some non-porn information about the psychology/physiology/history of transgendered humans. These folks are just like us all in that they have dreams, hopes for love, talents and weaknesses. Dig into how other cultures past and present have included them into their societies.

I hope you find the love you seek and bring joy into their life