Wife

[cowboyup0930]

How do I get my wife to do other men? I can get her to talk about it when we are having sex . I think she really wants it but I think she might feel I don't .What do I do?

 

[peachykeen]

Here we go again.



OK look. I've said this before and I will say it again, and no doubt many of my fellow litsters will have their say as well:

THERE IS A HUGE DIFFERENCE BETWEEEN FANTASY AND REALITY.


It may be very exciting for you and your wife to FANTASIZE for about her being with other men. Go ahead and indulge the fantasy. Do some role playing, whatever.

REALITY is an altogether messier thing. Diseases, pregnancy, hurt feelings, disappointment. Not inevitable results of course, but all too possible. And, if you push her into it, highly likely that it will irreperably damage your marriage, quite probably to the point of no return.

Back off. Enjoy the fantasy. If she ever wants to take it further, she'll let you know.

 

[rich987652]

You DON'T want her to do other men. Just enjoy your sex with her and don't worry about ruining it by including others in your sex.

Just my opinion...wouldn't want you to lose her

 

[bobsgirl]

THERE IS A HUGE DIFFERENCE BETWEEEN FANTASY AND REALITY.


It may be very exciting for you and your wife to FANTASIZE for about her being with other men. Go ahead and indulge the fantasy. Do some role playing, whatever.

REALITY is an altogether messier thing. Diseases, pregnancy, hurt feelings, disappointment. Not inevitable results of course, but all too possible. And, if you push her into it, highly likely that it will irreperably damage your marriage, quite probably to the point of no return.

Back off. Enjoy the fantasy. If she ever wants to take it further, she'll let you know.

This deserves to be repeated over and over again.

I wish someone would explain to me this fascination with bringing other people into a marriage. Maybe I am being narrow minded, but I love my husband and it would about kill me to see him with another woman.

 

[Bobmi357]

I wish someone would explain to me this fascination with bringing other people into a marriage. Maybe I am being narrow minded, but I love my husband and it would about kill me to see him with another woman.

Agreed. I think I'd probably kill someone making it with my wife. I don't get it at all.

 

[Sh0t]

quite the contrary i have a huge cuckold fetish myself.

 

[much2much]

How do I get my wife to do other men? I can get her to talk about it when we are having sex . I think she really wants it but I think she might feel I don't .What do I do?

I know a couple who really enjoy this. He gets turned on by it which in turn is exciting for her. You should just talk about it and if it is exciting to you but not to her, it's better left alone. Do you feel like you'd like to see other women too?

 

[Etoile]

Have you discussed it while you're not fucking?