wife swapping

[a_zx2003]

Hi,
We are interested in wife swapping.But we would like it to be discreet and SAFE.Any suggestions ??

 

[bethanyman]

www.adultfriendfinder.com
www.baycouples.com

there are thousands of good ones out there

 

[drdlove]

my opinion

I'd love to try it. I've written numerous stories about it but my wife looks at the whole sex thing as a forbidden thing. Something between two people only ...the whole exclusive thing. I don't begrudge her for that, probably 90% of the population would agre with her. But I think she has a beautiful body and is incredible in the sack and ...well I could go on but the point is its a shame that I can't share that. Besides I'd love to watch her in action...I've never ever done that because I'm always involved. Then of course there's the challenging of giving someone else such pleasures that I give her. It all sounds like fun to me, but where do you start?

 

[JOHNDEER44]

i dont have a wife to share but i have been in on quite a few mfm at the swing lcub i go to. it is awesome

 

[drdlove]

yeah

se that's the sort of thing I mean, I don't need another woman, mine's all I need, but you, see you need a woman who can really get you off, and I'm willing to share. Now I have no interest on male on male, but we could both participate in her pleasure and I'm fine with that.

So these club trysts you speek of, how do those begin?

 

[JOHNDEER44]

awesome dr. i usually go to the club and I just be myself. friendly and if theres a connection between us good if not so be it. I've always done well just talking then if they want we get a room there or a few times have done stuff right out in the open in front of others.

 

[drdlove]

and

now would you approach a couple or do the couple approach you? Is this in a community where you are known and do you keep in touch after ?

 

[JOHNDEER44]

i let them approach me. it is by a community i live in. yes i do keep in touch.

 

[drdlove]

so

are there any others out there that are turned on by these sorts of things? Am I wrong for wanting to do this?

 

[cosmiccupl]

similiar fantasy

My wife and I are not into swapping ,but we have a recuring fantasy that we would would love to make a reality when the opportunity presents itself. We both think it would be very hot to put on a show for another couple or single guy. She would like for me to have her waiting in a hotel room , fully dressed in a skirt , waiting on her hands and knees in the middle of the bed. I would then open the door and invite our guest or guests in to witness her in this submissive pose. I would walk up beside the bed and pull the skirt up over her hips to expose her glorious full rearend in thong panties ... then parting her ass cheeks to allow our guest to have a closer look into her most private places. She would then have me attach a leash to her neck and parade her around the room on her hands and knees. She wants to be spanked and whipped and forced to masturbate in front of our appreciative stranger. We have a suction cup mounted dildo, that she would be forced to squat over and ride for our viewing pleasure. Then back up on the bed with her for some pussy and anal fingering until she is forced to ejaculate all over my hand and arm. Our guest would be free to come and take a closer look and of course get his cock out and masturbate to the scene of peversity in front of him. This scene would end with me penetrating her anally and pulling out to dump a load of cream on her face or in her mouth. I have left out some details , but i think you get the idea . The thought of actually doing this turns us on very much, and we have no doubt that we will make it a reality someday

 

[mike2382]

i would love a front row seat at that show. have u thought about trying that out on webcam before actaully going through it with a person there with u?

 

[drdlove]

that's a great point

try it out in a safe environment first where either one of you can retract if you don't like the way it evolves. But if you do, and we allgive thunbs up to the video, then you'llfeel more confident going ahead with it.

 

[a_zx2003]

try it out in a safe environment first where either one of you can retract if you don't like the way it evolves. But if you do, and we allgive thunbs up to the video, then you'llfeel more confident going ahead with it.

The thing that bothers me is that ..umm..well comparisons of the new partner with the husband / wife is inevitable . This could turn this thing into a kinda testing ground (..read bed haha) for the marraige relationship.Or some emotional attachments may also develop .This could mean problems in the long run.

 

[WhiteTigerNipples]

Consider this

Hi,
We are interested in wife swapping.But we would like it to be discreet and SAFE.Any suggestions ??

Some swinger groups have what is known as "soft swinging" where couples only get involved sexually with each other , but in front of others who may like to watch. You might try to find a scenario like that and see how comfortable you are with having sex in front of others first. Then as you meet other people and get a feel for what they are like, you may find a couple who you feel comfortable enough with to move it to the next step.

 

[cosmiccupl]

i would love a front row seat at that show. have u thought about trying that out on webcam before actaully going through it with a person there with u?

yes.... we have done that and it was good, but we don't feel that it compares to the sheer naughtiness of being in front of a "live" audience.

 

[JOHNDEER44]

live audience is the only way to go. I love doing stuff in front of a crowd.

 

[bethanyman]

cosmiccupl , I would love to volunteer

 

[JOHNDEER44]

I'd Wait In Line.

 

[cosmiccupl]

Its great to know that we will have a few options.... LOL but for now a preview pic of my wife ready for her spanking will do

 

[johnph22]

I'd love to try it. I've written numerous stories about it but my wife looks at the whole sex thing as a forbidden thing. Something between two people only ...the whole exclusive thing. I don't begrudge her for that, probably 90% of the population would agre with her. But I think she has a beautiful body and is incredible in the sack and ...well I could go on but the point is its a shame that I can't share that. Besides I'd love to watch her in action...I've never ever done that because I'm always involved. Then of course there's the challenging of giving someone else such pleasures that I give her. It all sounds like fun to me, but where do you start?

My bride is the same way. I would love to see her with another man, but she says she is only for me or Tim McGraw. Guess it will always remain a fantasy.

 

[a_zx2003]

wife pic

Its great to know that we will have a few options.... LOL but for now a preview pic of my wife ready for her spanking will do

uummm...nice , soft , rounded buttocks. I would love it if the spanking is on cam...

Kisses to your wife (hope u don't mind)...

 

[Ravendale7]

Hi,
We are interested in wife swapping.But we would like it to be discreet and SAFE.Any suggestions ??

Does your wife agree with this request?

 

[darknite2]

My Opinion

I have to add my two cents...I have been extremely lucky and been invited to share a wife on two seperate occasions. It takes a strong marriage to take the extra step of inviting others to share your bed and wife. It also takes a man who isnt pushy,easy going and doesnt expect to do anything more than to enjoy thier company. Like i said i was very lucky..I was the 3rd in a 3sum..both couples were and are still very close and i thank them for including me. It was an experience we all enjoyed and if i hadnt been transferred away..im sure we would still get together.

 

[fnnyworld]

"drdlove
Experienced

and
now would you approach a couple or do the couple approach you? Is this in a community where you are known and do you keep in touch after ?"


My "date" would be the likely one to ask someone to join us. I am in the habit of being a terrible tease, so when I meet a man, I usually just want him.

I have participated in the "group" way, but never as a "swapped wife".

I don't like that terminology, kinda cave man.

It is one thing to bring a new "toy" to the bedroom, but marriage puts alot of other feelings into the mix for me.

While I found my wild side kinda late in life (I think) I can't imagine being the "other woman" in a married couple's room.

 

[Ravendale7]

"drdlove
Experienced

and
now would you approach a couple or do the couple approach you? Is this in a community where you are known and do you keep in touch after ?"


My "date" would be the likely one to ask someone to join us. I am in the habit of being a terrible tease, so when I meet a man, I usually just want him.

I have participated in the "group" way, but never as a "swapped wife".

I don't like that terminology, kinda cave man.

It is one thing to bring a new "toy" to the bedroom, but marriage puts alot of other feelings into the mix for me.

While I found my wild side kinda late in life (I think) I can't imagine being the "other woman" in a married couple's room.

But can you imagine having two men in the room?