Wife sucking...

smithers22

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So lately I have noticed more and more often when my wife and I are in the middle of sex, as she starts getting close to cumming she has started putting her fingers in her mouth.

At first I only noticed it while I was fucking her from behind, often while pulling her hair I'd see her stick her fingers in, and thought she was trying to be quieter as she got close since she always came right after. She has continued to do I though, and I admit that I always get turned on by the fantasy that she's thinking about sucking on another guys cock.

Anyway the other night we had a particularly good round going and ended up with her on her back, while I fucked her and played with her hard nipples, and again as she got close she did it. But this time I had a much better view of it, and I swear it looked like she was giving her two fingers a blowjob...

So I guess I'm wondering what people think. Ladies is she just trying to stay quiet or is she thinking about giving head to her fingers? And guys what are your thoughts?
 
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It sounds to me like that is what is going on her mind. I agree, you should ask her what that is all about. If that is what she is fantasizing on, and it gets her off, great! If you are able to get more pleasure out of that fantasy by sharing it with her, even better! But, if that is the case, it is probably best left as a fantasy for both of you. I recommend you not try to push a reality on her.
 
It could be that she is trying to give very subtle hints that she wants to share a fantasy with you and is waiting to see what your reaction to her finger sucking is.
 
Yeah obviously asking her would give me a fairly definitive answer. But for now I'm kind of enjoying the not knowing/fantasizing.
 
Yeah obviously asking her would give me a fairly definitive answer. But for now I'm kind of enjoying the not knowing/fantasizing.

I would suggest that for now, you just sort of play along. When she does it, maybe sort of moan a bit or something. Then maybe the next time she does it, whisper to her "mmm, you like sucking your fingers, huh?" or something like that. Just something hot and encouraging, but just small baby steps for now. If she is thinking about sucking a cock, she is most likely trying to figure out how you feel about it, how to tell you. You need to just gently feel each other out a bit. Its part of the excitement I think.
 
Bring something into the play like a dildo..you might be surprised at her reaction and she may begin sucking it like a 2nd man in bed. From a female point of view, most likely she is at the very least fantasizing about it.
 
With my woman there's a certain look and I know she needs to suck while I fuck. So most often I feed her my thumb, or a couple of fingers, and I know I judged right by the intensity of the clench: both her mouth tugging, and more subtly but deliciously, her love tunnel tensing differently on me.

When she's really close and needs it, I'll smack my lips on hers and plunge in with my tongue; and wow will she hoover!

She's such a totally faithful wife I've never asked her if she imagines it sometimes as another guy's cock ... I'll choose my moment to do that ...
 
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Get her a realistic dong to suck on while you fuck her. I did that for my wife and she loves it. Sometimes she will suck my cock while I fuck her with the dildo.
We've talked about having a threeway with another guy so she can experience it for real, but she just doesn't want to do that. Maybe someday she will change her mind.

In the meantime, she can get the pleasure of the experience by closing her eyes and enjoying two cocks, one real, the other fake. The dildo has a suction cup on it so I can stick it on the wall. She will get on her hands and knees and suck it while I fuck her from behind. Always a hot experience for both of us, and safe!

Communication is the key here, too! Be sure to let her know that the idea of her sucking while you are fucking her is a huge turn on for you!
 
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She has a vibrator that we play with sometimes, she loves when I use it on her while I'm licking her clit, but I've never really seen her suck it. She has gotten me to suck it a couple of times though.

Tonight could be an interesting tell though, the kids are gone for slepovers so there's no need to be quiet, so I think if it happens that she starts sucking on her fingers this time, maybe I'll have a little better idea.
 
so why not asker her...she may want to share an oral experience with you
 
Bring something into the play like a dildo..you might be surprised at her reaction and she may begin sucking it like a 2nd man in bed. From a female point of view, most likely she is at the very least fantasizing about it.

That's great advice.

I remember going over to an old gf's house for dinner one night and catching her in bed playing with a dildo. She scolded me for showing up "so early" but actually I was about 15 minutes late.

It was a Friday and I hadn't seen her all week so of course seeing her all worked up made me rip off my clothes and jump on her. I fucked her really hard and deep in her nice wet pussy, then flipped her over on her belly and squeezed my raging hard-on in her tight little ass. She dug her nails into the sheets and squealed with delight as she turned her head around to watch me and stroked the side of my face with her free hand.

When I started sawing in and out of her, she grabbed the dildo that was laying next to her on the bed, swallowed as much of it as she could until she was gasping and gagging on it.

After I filled her little asshole with a huge load of cum, I collapsed next to her on the bed. She spooned her body against me and started licking the dildo provocatively as she talked about how glad she was that I "caught" her.

About a month later we were checking into a cheap motel room in Culver City so two guys we found on Craigslist could pretend to deliver pizza to our room and we could pretend we didn't have any money to pay for it.

You can probably guess what happened after that.
 
That's great advice.

I remember going over to an old gf's house for dinner one night and catching her in bed playing with a dildo. She scolded me for showing up "so early" but actually I was about 15 minutes late.

It was a Friday and I hadn't seen her all week so of course seeing her all worked up made me rip off my clothes and jump on her. I fucked her really hard and deep in her nice wet pussy, then flipped her over on her belly and squeezed my raging hard-on in her tight little ass. She dug her nails into the sheets and squealed with delight as she turned her head around to watch me and stroked the side of my face with her free hand.

When I started sawing in and out of her, she grabbed the dildo that was laying next to her on the bed, swallowed as much of it as she could until she was gasping and gagging on it.

After I filled her little asshole with a huge load of cum, I collapsed next to her on the bed. She spooned her body against me and started licking the dildo provocatively as she talked about how glad she was that I "caught" her.

About a month later we were checking into a cheap motel room in Culver City so two guys we found on Craigslist could pretend to deliver pizza to our room and we could pretend we didn't have any money to pay for it.

You can probably guess what happened after that.

I'm sure we could, but what's the fun in that?
 
So I still haven't asked her about it, but in the last while it's gotten that much more intense.
Whereas before I couldn't tell 100% for sure if she was in fact sucking them sexually or just muffling herself, I am now certain. It's always while I'm fucking her from behind, after a bit she'll start sucking two fingers, lately it's gotten much clearer that she's giving these two fingers a blowjob. I've seen her licking the tip in a very oral sexual way, and last night she jerked her finger off while blowing them... Needless to say I absolutely exploded.
 
So I still haven't asked her about it, but in the last while it's gotten that much more intense.
Whereas before I couldn't tell 100% for sure if she was in fact sucking them sexually or just muffling herself, I am now certain. It's always while I'm fucking her from behind, after a bit she'll start sucking two fingers, lately it's gotten much clearer that she's giving these two fingers a blowjob. I've seen her licking the tip in a very oral sexual way, and last night she jerked her finger off while blowing them... Needless to say I absolutely exploded.

sounds like a 69'er is in order :)
 
It could be that she is trying to give very subtle hints that she wants to share a fantasy with you and is waiting to see what your reaction to her finger sucking is.
and that's she needs a black guy lol could not help myself lol
 
You need your best buddy to come over when you going to pump her from behind and have your wife suck him to completion as you shoot your load in her. We did it and then I let him fuck her as she sucked me off, she was in extasy sucking us both and had multiple major orgasms. After once, it has become a weekly affair and she is asking for bigger cocks more and more, so I have been getting her large black and she is getting really into it and fucks all them very great and makes sure no guy I bring home, goes home disappointed....she is 38, i hinted about getting pregnant, she told me she already stopped her BC and wants to see which one pops in her....great wife, I am all for it.
 
Sound like to me that she being pleasing herself and when has reached her glory that she been having a taste of her fingers.
 
You need your best buddy to come over when you going to pump her from behind and have your wife suck him to completion as you shoot your load in her. We did it and then I let him fuck her as she sucked me off, she was in extasy sucking us both and had multiple major orgasms. After once, it has become a weekly affair and she is asking for bigger cocks more and more, so I have been getting her large black and she is getting really into it and fucks all them very great and makes sure no guy I bring home, goes home disappointed....she is 38, i hinted about getting pregnant, she told me she already stopped her BC and wants to see which one pops in her....great wife, I am all for it.

Another satisfied white couple compliments of a another black guy lol
 
I do this sometimes and I never really thought about it until now lol! I will say that I normally suck/wet my fingers before I reach down to play with my clit, but sometimes I get distracted or realize I don't need the extra stimulation and forget what I'm doing with my fingers haha! So no I'm not thinking about sucking someone else's dick. Not saying your wife isn't though
 
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