Trying to. Can't get her liquored up cause she's allergic to alcohol.
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Trying to. Can't get her liquored up cause she's allergic to alcohol.
LizVegas79
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I'm a widower and recently enjoyed a threesome with some friends... known them for years and didn't know they liked to shared until 18 months ago!
Best advice from me for MMF is the lady has to be the centre of attention and trust both males. They told me that some guys view it as a competition to fuck her the hardest when all she wants is 'good sex'.
They helped me with other couples in our area and now I have a fulfilling sex life again
It's worth the effort to get the right person involved.
Absolutely. That's the tricky part. Having someone we can both trust to be and remain discreet is extremely important to us because we have kids and because of our jobs. (we both have morality clauses in our employment agreements!
)I think that might be at the bottom of my husband's reluctance too - although he won't admit it (I know because I already asked). But maybe we should talk about it a little more.
Thanks for suggesting what might be at the heart of the his real reason for being hesitant!
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I understand it is difficult to broach a subject like this but FFS, you've been together for 25 years, surely you've had intensely intimate conversations before? Time to harden up and start talking about your fantasies together.
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It has been my experiance that to persuade your partner the 3rd HAS to be attractive to BOTH you and your mate.
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I'm a widower and recently enjoyed a threesome with some friends... known them for years and didn't know they liked to shared until 18 months ago!
Best advice from me for MMF is the lady has to be the centre of attention and trust both males. They told me that some guys view it as a competition to fuck her the hardest when all she wants is 'good sex'.
They helped me with other couples in our area and now I have a fulfilling sex life again
It's worth the effort to get the right person involved.
Certainly agree
Hipshot1554
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I agree...
With the right people it can be amazing. Before, during, and after.
With the right people it can be amazing. Before, during, and after.
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timburrtwo
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Lucky you! I once told my ex that I'd love to see her in action with another man, but she said it wasn't ever going to happen. She wasn't shy about telling me about her experience with the lovers she had before we married though, and it was a huge turn-on for me.
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How nice for both of you. Where in Canada are you? I'm in BC.
timburrtwo
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It certainly is to me. Thank you for starting it.
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An interesting thread, I like to understand others feelings and reasons for taking the plunge.
For me/us we were looking to expand our sex life.
Even though we'd discussed it at length for probably a couple of years making it happen is another matter.
My/first experience was frightening really, we were so apprehensive and nervous about how we'd feel afterwards.
I was literally shaking with nerves. The first was so fast and really over in a flash. It had to be I think or I'd have backed out. But I have to say I was so ready for the guy it was amazing. My husband thought it was one of the best things we'd done sexually.
We felt good after, so we had an evening of fun with the guy who took our cherry so to speak in a much more relaxed session.
That was over 8 years ago and we've never looked back.
For me/us we were looking to expand our sex life.
Even though we'd discussed it at length for probably a couple of years making it happen is another matter.
My/first experience was frightening really, we were so apprehensive and nervous about how we'd feel afterwards.
I was literally shaking with nerves. The first was so fast and really over in a flash. It had to be I think or I'd have backed out. But I have to say I was so ready for the guy it was amazing. My husband thought it was one of the best things we'd done sexually.
We felt good after, so we had an evening of fun with the guy who took our cherry so to speak in a much more relaxed session.
That was over 8 years ago and we've never looked back.
LizVegas79
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I've recently resorted to appealing to my husband's ego.
I know he likes that other guys look at me and tell him "how lucky" he is to be with me. He even likes when his friends tell him he doesn't deserve me or that I'm "too good for him" or "way out of his league" (I'm not btw - he's a total catch. I actually consider myself the lucky one)
Anyway, it seems to be working. At least a little. I told him the other night when we finally had some together time, imagine how proud of me you'd be if you watched me satisfy a room full of guys and then get up, get dressed and go home with you because I still need one last special guy, you, to satisfy me. I told him he could take me home as his trophy to reclaim me however he wanted.
He got so hard imagining it! I hoping he finally gives in and agrees to it for realsies one of these days.
I haven't told him about Lit yet but maybe I should. Maybe if he knew how many other guys were into sharing their wives he wouldn't be so intimidated or emasculated or whatever by the idea.
What do you all think?
I know he likes that other guys look at me and tell him "how lucky" he is to be with me. He even likes when his friends tell him he doesn't deserve me or that I'm "too good for him" or "way out of his league" (I'm not btw - he's a total catch. I actually consider myself the lucky one)
Anyway, it seems to be working. At least a little. I told him the other night when we finally had some together time, imagine how proud of me you'd be if you watched me satisfy a room full of guys and then get up, get dressed and go home with you because I still need one last special guy, you, to satisfy me. I told him he could take me home as his trophy to reclaim me however he wanted.
He got so hard imagining it! I hoping he finally gives in and agrees to it for realsies one of these days.
I haven't told him about Lit yet but maybe I should. Maybe if he knew how many other guys were into sharing their wives he wouldn't be so intimidated or emasculated or whatever by the idea.
What do you all think?
I've recently resorted to appealing to my husband's ego.
I know he likes that other guys look at me and tell him "how lucky" he is to be with me. He even likes when his friends tell him he doesn't deserve me or that I'm "too good for him" or "way out of his league" (I'm not btw - he's a total catch. I actually consider myself the lucky one)
Anyway, it seems to be working. At least a little. I told him the other night when we finally had some together time, imagine how proud of me you'd be if you watched me satisfy a room full of guys and then get up, get dressed and go home with you because I still need one last special guy, you, to satisfy me. I told him he could take me home as his trophy to reclaim me however he wanted.
He got so hard imagining it! I hoping he finally gives in and agrees to it for realsies one of these days.
I haven't told him about Lit yet but maybe I should. Maybe if he knew how many other guys were into sharing their wives he wouldn't be so intimidated or emasculated or whatever by the idea.
What do you all think?
If he got hard that is a great sign. I will be happy to share our experiences with him
I've recently resorted to appealing to my husband's ego.
I know he likes that other guys look at me and tell him "how lucky" he is to be with me. He even likes when his friends tell him he doesn't deserve me or that I'm "too good for him" or "way out of his league" (I'm not btw - he's a total catch. I actually consider myself the lucky one)
Anyway, it seems to be working. At least a little. I told him the other night when we finally had some together time, imagine how proud of me you'd be if you watched me satisfy a room full of guys and then get up, get dressed and go home with you because I still need one last special guy, you, to satisfy me. I told him he could take me home as his trophy to reclaim me however he wanted.
He got so hard imagining it! I hoping he finally gives in and agrees to it for realsies one of these days.
I haven't told him about Lit yet but maybe I should. Maybe if he knew how many other guys were into sharing their wives he wouldn't be so intimidated or emasculated or whatever by the idea.
What do you all think?
Sounds like a plan. Baby steps. It’s gonna take time. But you’ve planted the idea in his head giving him something to think about.
LizVegas79
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I'm not sure if you asking me or all the women who have posted on here so far in general, but for me, my answer is: YES, VERY VERY MUCH SO!
That would be so hot, turning some little fuck-slave I found for my husband and his friends over to them and then watching and supervising and then kissing her poor little sore body all over afterwards to make it all better. Very hot idea indeed.
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Im not very experienced, so take this with a grain of salt!
The two times Ive been "the third" for a couple I was trying to be very aware of both of them. I absolutely wanted it to be pleasurable and satisfying for them both. To me, that meant making sure that in everything (conversation, eye contact, body language) I was treating them equally, possibly slightly more to the husband to make sure he wasnt threatened or felt left out in any way.
We engaged in pleasant conversation first and I tried to be sure it involved all three of us. Both times it was the husband who sort of got the ball rolling when he felt comfortable. I remained flirty but respectful and always deferred to them and took my cues from them.
Both times were incredibly fun and everyone seemed to have a great time.
In one case, he seemed a little jealous when he asked her what she wanted to do and her choice was to have me go down on her again. Before I did I made sure they were both ok with it and talked through it first. Since he got to fuck her mouth while I did it I dont think he had much to complain about! lol
I cant say anything valuable on the topic of sharing my wife because I know she would never go for that. All I can say is from my very brief experience, it just seemed to really help a lot paying attention to both of them and always trying to be sensitive to how they were feeling, ensuring that their relationship came before anything else. Oh, and the two of them came before I did =D
The two times Ive been "the third" for a couple I was trying to be very aware of both of them. I absolutely wanted it to be pleasurable and satisfying for them both. To me, that meant making sure that in everything (conversation, eye contact, body language) I was treating them equally, possibly slightly more to the husband to make sure he wasnt threatened or felt left out in any way.
We engaged in pleasant conversation first and I tried to be sure it involved all three of us. Both times it was the husband who sort of got the ball rolling when he felt comfortable. I remained flirty but respectful and always deferred to them and took my cues from them.
Both times were incredibly fun and everyone seemed to have a great time.
In one case, he seemed a little jealous when he asked her what she wanted to do and her choice was to have me go down on her again. Before I did I made sure they were both ok with it and talked through it first. Since he got to fuck her mouth while I did it I dont think he had much to complain about! lol
I cant say anything valuable on the topic of sharing my wife because I know she would never go for that. All I can say is from my very brief experience, it just seemed to really help a lot paying attention to both of them and always trying to be sensitive to how they were feeling, ensuring that their relationship came before anything else. Oh, and the two of them came before I did =D
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I've recently resorted to appealing to my husband's ego.
I know he likes that other guys look at me and tell him "how lucky" he is to be with me. He even likes when his friends tell him he doesn't deserve me or that I'm "too good for him" or "way out of his league" (I'm not btw - he's a total catch. I actually consider myself the lucky one)
Anyway, it seems to be working. At least a little. I told him the other night when we finally had some together time, imagine how proud of me you'd be if you watched me satisfy a room full of guys and then get up, get dressed and go home with you because I still need one last special guy, you, to satisfy me. I told him he could take me home as his trophy to reclaim me however he wanted.
He got so hard imagining it! I hoping he finally gives in and agrees to it for realsies one of these days.
I haven't told him about Lit yet but maybe I should. Maybe if he knew how many other guys were into sharing their wives he wouldn't be so intimidated or emasculated or whatever by the idea.
What do you all think?
I think that if you're going to do it, it should be that way. Hubby claims you last, always.
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Had this fantasy for years and before The Ex left a few years back, she wanted to play with another couple so the sharing fantasy intensified. Since then it kinda dropped off my radar since I was with this last GF, very 'vanilla', but now she is gone and all those fantasies come roaring back to life!!
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The fantasies are great. The possibility of eventual achievement is absolutely mind blowing.
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