Wife ready for a little dominance

[Sweet_tea_]

I am a wife of 8 years. I am so in control during the day...but at night....

 

[Smoothshavendad]

I am a wife of 8 years. I am so in control during the day...but at night....

I will take control tonight...

 

[cookiecat]

Are you asking for ideas on how to get your husband to do it or just hoping for some fun messages or ????

 

[NomDePlay]

... that IS the question, isn't it?

 

[DVS]

I am a wife of 8 years. I am so in control during the day...but at night....

It's very common for someone who is in control of their daily life to want someone else to take control in the bedroom. And the more in control you are during the day, the more your desires tend to drive you to being in the control of another. It's your subconscious mind equalizing the stress you feel during the day.

It can be anything from allowing someone to decide on sexual positions, minor bondage, spanking up to strict bondage, forced orgasms and your bound and gagged body being used for someone else's pleasure. Even a blind fold can offer new ideas in something like this.

But this is all suppose to be consensual. You don't allow someone to take over and do things that you haven't approved. It sounds strange, but you are always in control. You get together with your partner and decide on a plan of action, a level of control and go from there.

You set limits, both hard and soft, and those limits are to be strictly followed. If at some time, you want to change things, either lessen the control or take it further, you again talk together and decide on how to progress. The whole idea behind this is to allow trust to stay in place so everybody knows their part and nothing unusual or unwanted happens.

Never take things for granted. Always talk it out before hand. One person's opinion of OK could be far from another's opinion of OK. Make sure you both understand and agree what is OK.

If your partner fails to follow these simple rules, it's time for them to hit the road. Trust is very important. I can't stress that enough. You break a trust, it's very difficult to regain it again.

 

[guns444]

I am a wife of 8 years. I am so in control during the day...but at night....

This is me to a tee, in such control all day everyday but at night, i yearn to give that up...

 

[IASFPWTF]

I am a wife of 8 years. I am so in control during the day...but at night....

I am ready and willing to give you what you need....

 

[faraday69]

Mature dom male here happy to take control of any woman who desires it.

 

[gentlefeeline]

I'll just take you.