Wife looking for advice/suggestions 😁

[LovingLife0302]

Hello All!!! I'm just looking for some advice or suggestions for a special night that I have planned for my husband. I am planning a "Fun Night" for him and already have a few ideas that I will be using. I would really like to surprise him with something new that he would never expect from me, so I'm curious to know if any of you men have had a women give you an unexpected surprise that was mind blowing, or if any of you women have done something for your SO that was memorable to them. I plan these things for him every once and a while and don't want them to become boring for him. We are very open with each other sexually and have a great time on these special nights, but I'm looking to blow him away with something new! Any constructive advice or suggestions would be appreciated. Thanks in advance!

 

[PureThrills]

Hello All!!! I'm just looking for some advice or suggestions for a special night that I have planned for my husband. I am planning a "Fun Night" for him and already have a few ideas that I will be using. I would really like to surprise him with something new that he would never expect from me, so I'm curious to know if any of you men have had a women give you an unexpected surprise that was mind blowing, or if any of you women have done something for your SO that was memorable to them. I plan these things for him every once and a while and don't want them to become boring for him. We are very open with each other sexually and have a great time on these special nights, but I'm looking to blow him away with something new! Any constructive advice or suggestions would be appreciated. Thanks in advance!

Why don't you find your favourite sexy outfits, and ask if he'd like to be photographer for the evening

 

[may_I_please]

Hello All!!! I'm just looking for some advice or suggestions for a special night that I have planned for my husband. I am planning a "Fun Night" for him and already have a few ideas that I will be using. I would really like to surprise him with something new that he would never expect from me, so I'm curious to know if any of you men have had a women give you an unexpected surprise that was mind blowing, or if any of you women have done something for your SO that was memorable to them. I plan these things for him every once and a while and don't want them to become boring for him. We are very open with each other sexually and have a great time on these special nights, but I'm looking to blow him away with something new! Any constructive advice or suggestions would be appreciated. Thanks in advance!

How does one answer this question without knowing you?

Anything he's ever wanted you haven't done yet? Control? Bondage? Anal? Threesome?

I gave my husband a nude portrait of me, but he arranged it

Photoshoot if he enjoys photography

Took him to a manor house for a weekend of service, amazing food and cracking wine cellars

Agent Provocateur is always a winner

 

[DirtyAllie]

You simply can't go wrong with the classic

Naughty Schoolgirl.

Get the white blouse, the short skirt, white knee highs...if you have long hair, put it in pig tails, if not a wig would be fun.

One thing....keep in character, no thong or sexy panties, a cute pair of sinfully innocent(yes oxy moron, but a hot one) white cotton panties.

Now depending on what you think he would prefer, you could be the aggressive slutty student looking to earn that A....or you could pout and act like a nervous little demure girl who is trying to avoid getting in trouble.

 

[JeffVal1989]

Meet him at the door wearing only one of his button down dress shirts. Don't button the top 3 or 4, so there is cleavage exposed. Have a belt in your hands, and with down cast eyes tell him:

"I have been a bad girl daddy, I need punished."

Walk over to a couch or nearby chair, and bend over it exposing your naked ass.

 

[BertrandRussell]

If you research male fantasies, the number one fantasy - with room to spare - is a threesome with two women.

 

[switchersm]

Look through your clothes and change your outfit into a domina. May be you have to buy some accessoires like a riding crop.
When you start say that he has to obey you in everything you wish, he is your personal sex slave.
First order him to strip totally naked. Let him masturbate in front of you and jerk off into a glass of vine. you may let him drink his spunk, if you think it's possible.
when he is limp put on a cock cage. There are cheap ones in internet shops. Research how to put them on.
And then let him serve and pamper you with massages, pussy licking, also your asshole. Tease him, tell him his dick is useless now and you will look for a real man witha big big dong to fuck you in front of him.
Find something he hasn't done as ordered, let him bend over and give him a good spanking with the riding crop on his ass.
Masturbate in front of him, use a dildo, let him lick it clean. May you will fuck him in the ass.
make a foto of him with the cock cage. Tell him you will send to all your female friends, if he doesn't obey.
If you think it's possible bring your best friend into the game, after training him 2 or three hours.
At least let his cock free and let him feel, that he is the one and only man in the world for you. He will have an amazing orgasmn, may be two or three in the following fuck hours.

 

[NippleMuncher]

First and foremost, only YOU know your husband, so take any suggestions here with a grain of salt. As a guy, I can tell you that half the suggestions so far would turn me off VERY quickly, they're just not my thing and while I'd appreciate the effort on your part, I wouldn't appreciate the "gift".

Anything that is outside of either person's comfort zone or drastic change outside of "normal" sex play should be set aside until it is discussed thoroughly with your partner before attempting, particularly when there is a high probability for either of you to be hurt physically or emotionally.

If there are things that you know he likes, but you don't allow him often, go in this direction.

Let him come home to find you making his favorite dinner in a negligee. If you're both too busy for such things, arrange a nice dinner out, be playfully frisky in the car on the way home.

Give him a massage, leaving no spot untouched.

Play video games with him!

 

[La damnee elle la licorne]

 

[kmagsley]

I think nipplemuncher is right only you know what your into as a couple. But yes Take a scout of the local sex shop play and tease him there and back. Then pamper him at home. What does he like you to do but you may not give it to him often as you find it less fun. Maybe do it twice and no cringing! Well good luck and enjoy your special night.

 

[NippleMuncher]

A thousand times this.

I think nipplemuncher is right . . .

Ok, it's settled. No more responses needed!



Hopefully it is totally obvious that I'm teasing!

 

[Bob_F451]

Awsome!

Meet him at the door wearing only one of his button down dress shirts. Don't button the top 3 or 4, so there is cleavage exposed. Have a belt in your hands, and with down cast eyes tell him:

"I have been a bad girl daddy, I need punished."

Walk over to a couch or nearby chair, and bend over it exposing your naked ass.

That is just hot!!!!
I vote you should do this.
Oh where is a willing woman when I need her?!

 

[RockHardKP]

Couple of Ideas:

1) Tie yourself spread eagle to the bed with blindfold and ear buds, so that he can find you. Leave all of your sex toys and perhaps a cucumber or other interesting vegetables laying nearby along with a note to USE you anyway he likes.

2) Tie him to the bed spread eagle to the bed. Before you blindfold him and put the ear buds in, explain to him that you have asked your sexy neighbor or girlfriend to join you. Tell him she should be there soon and then blindfold him and ear buds so he doesn't know whats happening. After a short while return and pretend you are her.

3) Take him to a nice dinner with you wearing a dress. Excuse yourself to go to the bathroom. When you return, quietly hand him your panties that you removed. You could always work them into your pussy in the bathroom so that they are good and wet when you give them to him.

 

[ERoleplayer]

3) Take him to a nice dinner with you wearing a dress. Excuse yourself to go to the bathroom. When you return, quietly hand him your panties that you removed. You could always work them into your pussy in the bathroom so that they are good and wet when you give them to him.[/QUOTE]

My wife has done this before.
Another time she slipped off her panties while sitting at our restaurant (corner) table.
Umm we left after appetizers and fucked in the backseat of the car parked in the rear lot.
One of the best times Ive ever had.

 

[Que]

a special night that I have planned for my husband....surprise him...I'm looking to blow him

Your words, edited for clarity.

"New" is over-rated; blowjobs are under-rated. Some complicated scene sounds like it's more about you than him if he hasn't expressed an interest in something.