Wife JUST started to.....

[MrSneakyinPA]

Finally, after years of coaxing, gently of course. She just started fingering herself in front of me. Though, it has to be kinda dark, and shes still shy about it. I gotta tell ya, it's pretty awesome.

Small steps.

 

[Funnbrandy]

Great!

Masterbating for each other is a blast, I love doing it, making a show of it But don't forget to stroke for her

 

[Asian_Flower]

I think it is an incredibly intimate and erotic thing to share with someone. I hope you guys enjoy the new found intimacy

 

[Anomaly1964]

Congrats man...that is awesome!

 

[jakereeder22]

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[sea7688]

I agree there is nothing more erotic than seeing my wife self-pleasuring. She tells me that it turns her on equally watching me.

 

[alphatad1]

Wife pleasuring herself!

Wholeheartedly agree!

 

[charlie069]

wife stroking

Soo Jealous mine will hardly admit to doing it in private and is grossed out if i stoke my cock in front of her, although she will stroke it for me. I was extremely horny about 2 weeks ago as she slept and Lubed up and was strokin my cock and she woke and rather than getting truned on she told me to go in the bathroom and finish off.

 

[omgitselaine]

Finally, after years of coaxing, gently of course. She just started fingering herself in front of me. Though, it has to be kinda dark, and shes still shy about it. I gotta tell ya, it's pretty awesome.

Small steps.

Thats great news and Im very happy for the both of you !!!

I myself ummmm have never been shy masturbating in front of any of my ex's or Joe now ...... but that's just me !

 

[gametime07]

I've been fighting this battle for years. My wife will occasionally use her dildo on herself for me, but never her fingers. Even with the dildo, she does it just to please me and not for herself. She loves watching me, but can't seem to get her over the hump.

 

[sea7688]

my wife got into it watching porn together. started kind of shyly with her caressing her breasts and nipples......then progressed to sliding her fingers to her lips..eventually i added as toy for her. now she cums every time she does it

 

[MrSneakyinPA]

I've been fighting this battle for years. My wife will occasionally use her dildo on herself for me, but never her fingers. Even with the dildo, she does it just to please me and not for herself. She loves watching me, but can't seem to get her over the hump.

I'm pretty sure she's doing it for me. I know she enjoys doing it, and has admitted to doing in in private "a couple times" when I wasn't around and she was horny. But when she did it in front of me, it was pretty much not something she wanted to to on her own, it was me wanting her too. And I did stroke and cum on her. But she did admit to enjoying it. So I hope next time, she won't need coaxing. She orgasms pretty much every time we have sex, either from me touching or licking her. Only one of her previous b/f's REALLY made sure to do that as too. (Which I LOVE) The advantage of her dating an older more experienced guy that knew how to please her.

We had a dildo for a while, but because of kids running around the house, we were worried about any questions it might raise so we dumped it. She doesn't seem to be interested in another one. But I hope I can her her interested in it again. When we had it, she was ok with me using it on her, but wouldn't do it to herself.

I'm not sure why women seem to be shy about it. Either they don't like it, then they should just tell us so we don't waste our time doing it to them. Or they do like it, and they should be eager to do it themselves. Again, like most things female, we men are at a huge disadvantage using what we think of as logic. "Like it? Do it. Don't like it? Don't do it."

I don't know, maybe we are the same in other areas. We'll eat at a restaurant THEY like, for them. But wouldn't go there ourselves. Color of the walls in the bedroom. Kind of car. Place to vacation. etc. We compromise like crazy. I guess they do to.


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[Hornywetcanuck]

God we masturbate together all the time! In fact if I'm in the mood and he isn't all I have to do is whip out my bullet and start playing and low and behold he is interested! Lol

 

[Cdn_Couple]

We just recently started doing it in front of each other. It's a great, erotic and always gets us both ready for a big finish.

We encourage all couples do share this with their partners.

 

[tmmmbrrr]

Thats great news and Im very happy for the both of you !!!

I myself ummmm have never been shy masturbating in front of any of my ex's or Joe now ...... but that's just me !

omgmaybeitsabouttime!

 

[Liz3223]

Finally, after years of coaxing, gently of course. She just started fingering herself in front of me. Though, it has to be kinda dark, and shes still shy about it. I gotta tell ya, it's pretty awesome.

Small steps.

Good for you. My first experience with a guy was the two of us at different ends of the bed masturbating for and with each other. We spent two or more hours naked with each other . A first for both of us

 

[lucky_guy_49]

Finally, after years of coaxing, gently of course. She just started fingering herself in front of me. Though, it has to be kinda dark, and shes still shy about it. I gotta tell ya, it's pretty awesome.

Small steps.

Oh gosh, I think we were married nearly 30 years before I ever saw my wife use her fingers on herself. She said she never masturbated alone, and didn't in front of me either, but when I got her so worked up but just couldn't get her over the hump. she took things into her own hands (literally) and brought herself to an orgasm while I watched. It's one of the hottest things ever to see that. Another trip is when I'm using our Hitachi Magic Wand to tease her...she will literally take it away from me to "do it right" and bring herself off. From "I don't masturbate" to "Give me that!" in under 5 years, makes me a little lightheaded to think about it.

 

[Torinona]

As your screen name says...

From "I don't masturbate" to "Give me that!" in under 5 years, makes me a little lightheaded to think about it.

...Lucky guy indeed! Enjoy!

Have been enjoying something of a lightheaded-making Renaissance with Hubby. I think I created a monster, but I ain't really complaining... in less than two years' time, he's really embraced some things I'd wanted to try for ages.

It's never too late to try new things, re-visit old things and everything in between!

T.

 

[nakedplay]

Congrats to being able to enjoy watching and enjoying each other. I agree nothing more erotic than watching someone pleasure themselves.

 

[mike6622]

Finally doing it herself

It took me many years to convince my wife to bring herself off while we were have sex. We like to come together and I used to bring her off but could never do it quite right. Now she fingers herself to orgasm as I am in her and most of the time we cum close together. I am sure she is much happier.

 

[MrSneakyinPA]

In the category of thing the wife does, but not as much as I'd like.

She will, in bed, occasionally let out stories about her past. And again, my typical husband fantasy is to watch another man with her. One of my favorites is when she tells me about her very 1st sexual experience. Her and her b/f were making out, he pulled her pants down enough to finger her, then all the way off to lick her. She had no idea it would feel that good. She's been hooked ever since. She said thankfully all of her b/f's enjoyed licking her, which she LOVED.

Generally she's always been quite "passive" in bed. She loves to orgasm, and really enjoys having sex. But I think part of the "not touching herself" in front of me thing is just part of her passive sexual personality. Even with her b/f's. She let them all fuck her just about ever day, which she enjoyed. But she wasn't the initiator. Not that she needed to be, they were constantly horny guys that took advantage of a great situation. A skinny redhead with a tight and very willing pussy.

 

[crowfoot]

In the category of thing the wife does, but not as much as I'd like.

She will, in bed, occasionally let out stories about her past. And again, my typical husband fantasy is to watch another man with her. One of my favorites is when she tells me about her very 1st sexual experience. Her and her b/f were making out, he pulled her pants down enough to finger her, then all the way off to lick her. She had no idea it would feel that good. She's been hooked ever since. She said thankfully all of her b/f's enjoyed licking her, which she LOVED.

Generally she's always been quite "passive" in bed. She loves to orgasm, and really enjoys having sex. But I think part of the "not touching herself" in front of me thing is just part of her passive sexual personality. Even with her b/f's. She let them all fuck her just about ever day, which she enjoyed. But she wasn't the initiator. Not that she needed to be, they were constantly horny guys that took advantage of a great situation. A skinny redhead with a tight and very willing pussy.

You're a lucky guy! She sounds very sexy and sounds like she is waiting for your directions! Be confident and you could be in for a lot of fun! I would love to see what she looks like! Any body pics you might share?

 

[sea7688]

I get a new toy every year to see her use and hopefully use on herself when I'm not around