Wife is bicurious...need advice

[Thundercat]

So in some light naughty talk in bed, my wife told me that she often fantasized about being with a woman. Man oh man did that get us both going. I never felt her pussy get SO wet before. Anyway, she is pretty shy and conservative about talking about sex so being able to share that with her was wonderful. Since then I can't get that fantasy of her with a woman out of my mind. I'm constantly horny when I'm with her and wanting to explore it more with her but she doesn't bring it up. I don't want to push it on her to talk about it and scare her away from sharing that fantasy with me but I lust for her to talk with me more about it. It really got us going when we talked about it and I think it will do wonders for our sex life to share these fantasies together more. Anyone have any advice on how I can stir it up some more and get her to explore it with me more?

 

[Nekid62]

When my wife was curious and we would talk about it, I would ask her if there are any women we knew that she has thought she would like to be with if they were willing also. Usually she would mention some friends we knew. And I would suggest certain women also. The more we talked about it at different times the more interested she eventually became until the one evening when we were with a couple we played with, and she let the other woman play with her that firs time.
I had let her know way ahead of time that she was free to do whatever she wanted at her own pace. Well, she finally did open up to the other woman friend of ours one night and she had a great time. We were on our way home froma strip club with them, and both wives were in the back seat while me an the other hubby were in the front seat. Lucky me was driving so I couldn't see what they were doing. But they were all over each other in the back seat.
Point is, I le tthe wife know she could do what ever she wanted when ever she wanted with NO pressure from me or anyone. I think that made her more comfortable with the situation. Plus, the other couple didn't push the issue either.

Since then she has been with 4 other women and enjoyed it alot. We talked often about it when ever sex is brought up or even during sex too.

1. Don't push the issue.
2. Let her know you aren't going to push her into it. Let her decide when she is ready to take that first step. I think the first is actually opening up with you and talking about it.
3. Take your time in "picking" the first woman/couple you get with. And let her decide on who also.
4. If you push the issue, you may just push the idea away.

Good luck and hope things work out for ya. These are just my opinions and experiences.

Mike

 

[Thundercat]

Thanks for the reply Mike