Wife has is reluctant to share her fantasies

[Max40]

My wife gets very turned on when I tell her fantasy about her, me and one other man. She does not get turned on when I tell her fantasy of her, me and one other woman. I know she is turned on because she goes absolutely wild. The only problem is she does not want to initiate fantasies - she tells me that she rarely thinks about fantasies. I'm not too sure about that.

I would like to have frank discussion with a woman about her fantasies. Perhaps I will get an insight into my wife. If not lets just have fun!

 

[sweetdarling]

maybe she needs encouragement

does she like to add details once you initiate a fantasy? i used to be too shy and thought i wasn't being loyal or monogomous if i thought of someone else to get excited. but as i have gotten older, i like thinking about a 3way, talking about it, before and during sex. give her time.