I’m glad someone else enjoys this. I did feel very uncomfortable when she asked me to do it. Not my style I’m afraid. I prefer to be gentle. Perhaps this is what she wants from any potential lover. I think a conversation with her would help.
I saw a video about this last year. It was very hot.
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All gals like spanking, but one freaky chick liked me to pull her nipples (Ass I umm Raped her kinda sorta fake Weird chick) But I'm telling you I almost would tear them off. She would say more. I really thought they would come off.
Not my style either. Given the history of physical abuse in some of my family and seeing the trauma and effects from it, I have a hard time giving the wife a playful smack on the ass let alone causing pain.
Yea, my sister and I both had a belt across our asses more than once, but that was discipline, not abuse. Going to the hospital as a ten year old and seeing my aunt in a medically induced coma because her husband beat her so bad they had rebuild her eye socket made a huge impact on me . I have a hard time doing something that I think will be painful, even when she wants it.
I agree with your comments. I felt really uncomfortable. Women need to be celebrated, admired and cared for, not abused.
Fucking hot..
@Blondieshare, I could not agree more. I cherish women. I spent or rather used to in my earlier days hours on pleasing women, but I found every woman likes being spanked. It is not abuse. Now I've seen pics in mags that DISGUST me, but each and every woman even if the first time found it arousing. Not once say if doing "Dogie Style" if I whacked once did a gal turn and say "Hey what the hell" A slightly pink bum and you can literally see her juices start flowing. I guess it's all in how you introduce the game. Also, many women I've known like Extreme pressure on the nipples and would ask for harder. I've never slapped, but gals liked harder and made their wishes known. I think some guys are JERKS and don't know how to communicate so the women is just meat. I adore and take the time to find out whats good and not.
Absolutely.
I enjoy this, usually with the breasts bound and smacked with a crop. Leaves beautiful bruises after.
While you are absolutely not required to participate in any sexual act that you aren’t comfortable with, I’d like to offer the perspective that making a woman feel heard, unjudged, and safe enough to be open with you about her kinks and sexual desires IS celebrating, admiring and caring for her. And that judging her or making her feel ashamed or as if what she enjoys is ‘wrong’ could be more hurtful than a slap on the tits. (Not that you did that, of course)
Had a gal in a one night stand that, after the first go round, wanted me to pinch her nipples like so hard, like an alligator clip, that I just couldn’t be as hard as she wanted.
It did bring us closer, but I still felt uncomfortable with doing as she asked. But I would do anything for her, so if she asks, then why wouldn’t I want to make her happy. I did however tell her it made me feel uncomfortable
