Wife and name calling during Sex

[BenignTumor]

At first I thought was a little weird. Then I got accustomed to it and we've been doing it for few years now. She likes to be called slut and whore, and she likes for me to tell her she has a loose pussy (fantasy of her infidelity with large men).

Now she wants to call me names too. The other night she told me to fuck her with my small cock (I am average size). TBH, I got a little aroused. She used another word that did not work for me: cuckie. I later found out she was calling me a cuckold.

Not sure I want to go down the road of cuckold fantasies. Just sharing my thoughts.

 

[Pantylvr88]

My wife wasn't into talking dirty but recently started saying fuck me fuck me you fucker. Fuck me you dirty fucker

 

[BenignTumor]

My wife wasn't into talking dirty but recently started saying fuck me fuck me you fucker. Fuck me you dirty fucker

With my wife, it came outta nowhere. There was no hint of it coming. The good news it that she enjoys sex more when I do the dirty talk.

 

[Pantylvr88]

Same with mine came out of nowhere. Hope you're keeping up the dirty talk

 

[BenignTumor]

Sure thing.

What gets me about the 'cuckie" word is this: it just does nothing for me. I get the whole cuckold thing, like her fantasies of infidelity like I mentioned earlier. I enjoy that, and the talk too. But the "cuckie" name, even though it ties into her fantasy, is not arousing for me. It is for her.

That may change over time as I acclimate to the label. Or not

 

[gagginforit]

Sure thing.

What gets me about the 'cuckie" word is this: it just does nothing for me. I get the whole cuckold thing, like her fantasies of infidelity like I mentioned earlier. I enjoy that, and the talk too. But the "cuckie" name, even though it ties into her fantasy, is not arousing for me. It is for her.

That may change over time as I acclimate to the label. Or not

The more aroused she is the better it will be for you.

You're a lucky guy by the way.

 

[aussiecumslut]

At first I thought was a little weird. Then I got accustomed to it and we've been doing it for few years now. She likes to be called slut and whore, and she likes for me to tell her she has a loose pussy (fantasy of her infidelity with large men).

Now she wants to call me names too. The other night she told me to fuck her with my small cock (I am average size). TBH, I got a little aroused. She used another word that did not work for me: cuckie. I later found out she was calling me a cuckold.

Not sure I want to go down the road of cuckold fantasies. Just sharing my thoughts.

It is a LOT more common that you might realise sweety . I adore being horrendously verbally degraded as I am being fucked .

Don't dismiss the cuckold lifestyle either until you have tried it .

Love Mich XOX

 

[aussiecumslut]

With my wife, it came outta nowhere. There was no hint of it coming. The good news it that she enjoys sex more when I do the dirty talk.

Totally understandable .

 

[Dreamer110]

My wife loves all kinds of talk. When she's close being called names sets her off.

 

[BrightShinyGirl]

Sounds like time for a negotiation. Talk to her about what you’re comfortable with and what you’re not. Clearly she’s getting off on what she’s saying, but there has to be a compromise that will still allow her to enjoy her fantasy without putting you off.

(FWIW I have a similar problem with “bitch”. I love being called a slut or a whore during sex, but call me bitch and it instantly kills the mood.)

 

[Stacysmith287]

Hi

I say all sorts lol. When I think back after its done I cringe lol

 

[Asian_Flower]

It's a mood thing. Sometimes it's so hot saying and hearing dirty things. At other times nice gentle words of encouragement and lust. Variety after all is the spice of life.

 

[LizVegas79]

It's a mood thing. Sometimes it's so hot saying and hearing dirty things. At other times nice gentle words of encouragement and lust. Variety after all is the spice of life.

Exactly! What works one night won't necessarily work the same another night. It MIGHT even have a completely opposite effect! Timing AND communication are everything.

 

[OralDave]

It is a LOT more common that you might realise sweety . I adore being horrendously verbally degraded as I am being fucked .

Don't dismiss the cuckold lifestyle either until you have tried

Love Mich XOX[/QUOTE

Like "on your back, fucking whore" ?
I fantasize about cuckold lifestyle.

 

[Billsexpot]

Sounds like time for a negotiation. Talk to her about what you’re comfortable with and what you’re not. Clearly she’s getting off on what she’s saying, but there has to be a compromise that will still allow her to enjoy her fantasy without putting you off.

(FWIW I have a similar problem with “bitch”. I love being called a slut or a whore during sex, but call me bitch and it instantly kills the mood.)

This right here is solid advice.

 

[maxwellq]

I would like my wife to talk dirty and call me by her fantasy lover’s name while we are fucking.

 

[BBCfan]

At first I thought was a little weird. Then I got accustomed to it and we've been doing it for few years now. She likes to be called slut and whore, and she likes for me to tell her she has a loose pussy (fantasy of her infidelity with large men).

Now she wants to call me names too. The other night she told me to fuck her with my small cock (I am average size). TBH, I got a little aroused. She used another word that did not work for me: cuckie. I later found out she was calling me a cuckold.

Not sure I want to go down the road of cuckold fantasies. Just sharing my thoughts.

that's kinda wild. How did it start? Do you remember? That sounds fun.
I did some role play with my wife calling me names, which excited the hell out of me.

I do find some cuckold stories pretty hot, and a version of that fantasy is hot to think about with my wife .

I don't think I'd want to really do it. Would likely turn me off.

 

[gregy70]

I'd personally go along with cuckie role play / fantasy and see where it goes.
Wouldn't you like to see her deepest fantasies come out.

 

[jackbird]

wife

I met my wife in 1980 she was 21 years young and naïve when it came to sex. I as the 3rd person she ever had sex with and it was only the 3rd time having sex. She said the first guy it was over as soon as he put it in, the second guy was a little longer but not much. She was very shy about sex and her body as she had a plump body but not fat just very curvy. As time went on we got more vocal and I started calling her names like cock sucker or slut. After a while she started getting vocal telling me to fuck her pussy or thats it fuck your slut.

 

[LuciousLadyMary]

Sure thing.

What gets me about the 'cuckie" word is this: it just does nothing for me. I get the whole cuckold thing, like her fantasies of infidelity like I mentioned earlier. I enjoy that, and the talk too. But the "cuckie" name, even though it ties into her fantasy, is not arousing for me. It is for her.

That may change over time as I acclimate to the label. Or not

I realize this is a really old post but I'm wondering if it was a fantasy for her or IF he really was a cuckie.

 

[gregy70]

I realize this is a really old post but I'm wondering if it was a fantasy for her or IF he really was a cuckie.

Interesting pick up there

 

[BBCfan]

I realize this is a really old post but I'm wondering if it was a fantasy for her or IF he really was a cuckie.

yeah, I figured guys always start that fetish and women go along with it.

I love my wife calling me dirty names, although cucky wouldn't be a turn-on for me either. Although I guess I've never tried so maybe who knows. It's usually for me the thrill of immersing into a certain role outside of my norm.

 

[Spiritedlady]

I absolutely love dirty talk - both giving and receiving - but only in the throes of passion when I’m feeling my most wanton. There was some bloke somewhere down the line who messaged me and referred to me as a dirty whore during the course of normal conversation. Let me tell you it did not go down well. Context is everything.

 

[Rockwell12]

Sounds like she wants to have sex with other men. Have you guys talked about that happening?
Maybe the fantasy of being cukolded is just a fantasy and if it gets her hot and gets you more frequent and hotter sex, just enjoy the ride.

 

[magicalmoments]

My lady has the occasional habit of saying "good cock, good cock, gimme cock, more cock" over and over as she is being fucked, Turns me on something wicked.