wife affair

[franze]

Cheated husband

I am a husband and I love my wife. She cheats on me. Sometimes I suspect it. She teases me by telling me her fucking sessions knowing that this turns me on, but I am never sure whether her stories are from the reality or just lies (just to see me horny). Sometimes I enjoy my feelings of being humiliated by her. I need some one who plays the role of my wife.

 

[Tatewaki]

Eating dirt and smiling? Better you than me!

Man, I been in your situation, but I sure as hell didn't enjoy the experience. I guess you are made of stronger stuff than I am.

What are you asking for, cuckold stories, or a real flesh and blood woman to play the role of your whoring wife? I was unsure from your post.

-T

 

[Guest]

Man, I been in your situation, but I sure as hell didn't enjoy the experience. I guess you are made of stronger suff than I am.

Some men have a "cheating wife" fantasy. And, if it's with his consent, it's not really cheating. Some men like hearing the stories of their wife enjoying sex with other men, and some like actually watching. It's a sexual kink that not everyone agrees on.

Originally posted by Franze
I am a husband and I love my wife. She cheats on me. Sometimes I suspect it. She teases me by telling me her fucking sessions knowing that this turns me on, but I am never sure whether her stories are from the reality or just lies (just to see me horny). Sometimes I enjoy my feelings of being humiliated by her. I need some one who plays the role of my wife.

If you are looking for a role play, you may want to check out the Sexual Role Play board.

 

[Tatewaki]

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Originally posted by Tiggs

Some men have a "cheating wife" fantasy. And, if it's with his consent, it's not really cheating. Some men like hearing the stories of their wife enjoying sex with other men, and some like actually watching. It's a sexual kink that not everyone agrees on.
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On that, Tiggs, we agree 100%. Can't say I agree on that topic at all. Although I try hard to keep an open mind, that subject is guaranteed to douse any erotic tendencies I may be experiencing at the moment. No matter how well crafted the story or hot the scene, cuckold stories leave me cold. I've been in long term relationships of an open nature where it was very much do as you feel, and never batted an eye. I've also been in relationship of (I thought) a more exclusive nature, where infidelity reared its ugly head and totally devastated me. It seems like whatever assumptions or parameters are set at the beginning of a relationship are the rules of engagement I play by. Violate those rules, and certain negative feelings are bound to be stirred up.

Sometimes I feel bad at not being more cosmopolitan, but I am not a hypocrite or self-delusional. I know hat I can accept, and what I cannot. Better to recognize your limits and to work to expand them, than to delude yourself and risk serious repercussions and angst.

-T

 

[franze]

YES, I am looking for a real flesh and blood woman to play the role of my whoring wife. But remember that i am never sure that she cheats on me.

 

[Guest]

You are looking for "real" flesh n blood women? In that care you are in the wrong board and need the personals.

 

[paula and bob]

I can

This is paula I can be your wife

 

[bbeamish]

I don't know why others on this board like to bash Cuckolding as much as they do. There is a HUGE loving wife section here and alot of the stories are related to this lifestyle.

I especially love the ones where the wife has a really big cock for the first time and becomes insatiable. Believe it or not, I'm almost 8" but still get off on the idea of my wife doing some 10" plus guy. She really gets off on it too and she says there are alot of women who love the idea too. We have an 19 month old and since she gave birth she says she needs a really big cock to fill her. I've seen it too, and she gets filled all right!

Just enter cuckold on any search engine and see how much stuff comes up. I will admit that it is not very MANLY to get off on this kind of stuff (and we still suffer from Machismo even in the 21st century) but I bet there are alot more of us out there then you think......
And if it matters, I would love to participate in a convo re cuckolding and lots of teasing on top
Bri.....

 

[Chicklet]

Question for ya, Bri,

Anyone ever cheat on you? I mean, really? Or is it just something you like to read about?

Chicklet

 

[Reshbod]

Having someone cheat on you is one of the worst things that can happen. Someone you gave your trust to and open yourself up to. The sense of betrayal never leaves and afterwards it is difficult to trust someone again.

That being said, I do find cheating wife stories interesting, and enjoyable. The stories I like are mainly the ones where the wife is not looking to cheat but ends up being seduced and semi-coerced (not forcibly).

Stories where you can see a little inner termoil and reluctance but where she eventually gives in to her lust. Generally these stories give the impression that it is a one time slip-up and the wife goes back to her "regular" life. These stories are very rare compared to the other type mentioned above.

The types I personally do not care for are the more numerous cuckold stories, slut wife (where the husband is watching or joins), rape etc.

 

[penguindance]

 

[bbeamish]

here is my blurb

Hi group,
To answer your question Chicklet, yes I have been cheated on and I would agree with the rest wholeheartedly that its no fun having it happen. Mabye because it first happened over 10 years ago, my inhibitions about sexuality and women's lust have changed. As well, I had a very strict single mother of three who probably molded my submissive sexuality before I was out of diapers.
Having said that, I also firmly believe sex means different things to women then it does to men and because of this I have NEVER heard of or even read of a woman who found her husband cheating on her a turn on. In fact, it couldn't be more of a turn off (and I can see that in most of the posts from women on this board about this subject).
For men though it is something completely different. If you think of us all as the animals we really are, men are designed to chase and women are designed to attract. Once together for some time, men want more (grass is always greener). Some project this onto other women and cheat while others project their wifes on other men. Keep in mind men are very visual and I myself can cum sometimes just imagining my wife/girlfriend sucking another mans cock or hearing her moan (sorry but at the right time, its true).
I happpen to hook up with really good looking women who (through no fault of their own) get hit on alot. I have literaly been the guy with the hot sexy wife/girlfriend around a bunch of horny guys with no women (my frat, sports, drinking...you name it, hell its even happened right in front of me!). I might even argue that the turn on arose out of the helplessness of the situation and I doubt anyone could possbily understand unless they actualy went through it. This may be getting a little deep and if you want me to continue we can talk further
So I hope that answers your question for now.......

Reshbod, you hit the nail on the head!
A huge turn on for me is the idea of a stud with a big prick taunting, teasing and worming his way into her panties. She has no intension of cheating but through no fault of her own, is dragged orgasiming into it.......(read The Unwelcome House Guest).
Now this is where I am surprised at the female participants in this and other groups. I've been to swinger parties and talked with alot of married women who love the idea of a man taking control of them for a hot sordid afair. I also know from past relationships that some women really are sexaholics (no joke). In the right mood and the right time of month, they would do almost anything including some pretty crazy stuff. Yes some are a little scared at first, but that doesn't last long......Correct me on this one if I am wrong ladies.

For those literates out there, Chauser (I'm sure I spelled that one wrong) wrote about the same subject more than 500 years ago. You can have an ugly wife who will be faithful to the death or a hottie (a little 20th century venacular) but watch out!

This isn't anything new......its the same old turn-on from doing something you are not supposed to be doing......big surprise!
Brian....

 

[penguindance]

 

[Axeltheswede]

cuckhold stories

The "wife watching" sub-genre is one of the most popular among male readers. No lesser authority than Penthouse has stated in the past, forty to fifty per cent of their letters deal with this subject.

So it doesn't float your boat, pretty little stranger. Don't dump on my turn-on, I won't dump on yours.

 

[Chicklet]

I guess we're all guilty of being hypocritical at one point or another.

I apologize for earlier comments about sick and twisted fucks. Obviously everyone is entitled to their own fetish, and everyone can have a different one or more mainstream - whichever they please.

 

[Axeltheswede]

cuckhold stories

I have a half dozen "wife watching" stories posted. I can see where where women could be offended by this fetish. It is a short step to non-consent for a lot of story scenarios.

It is interesting, I do get feedback email from women. It is usually something like, "Your story describes what my hubby and I like to do". And I get a few suggestions for stories from women.

I think I understand this little sub-genre. I wouldn't presume to write a lesbian story or a BDSM story. I can appreciate those categories. But the fact they don't turn me on would show in any story I would write. I lack the nuance and subtlety to craft something really good.

 

[Chicklet]

Stupid Question

Cuckhold? Why this word? What does it mean, exactly?

 

[bbeamish]

Hot dirty sex, yummy

I am glad to read people are acting a little more realistic here.
Thanks for the replies to my posts and here are some answers.

To pretty_lil_stranger: I can see why you feel the way you do and in an ideal world we would all live in your world. That is probably why the 10 commandments were written in the first place; as a set of rules to keep the peace. The Chaucer refrence was just an example of how we (as frail humans) have delt with this issue for a long time and it isn't going to leave us now. Something I don't think you understand about this lifestyle is that 'cheating' doesn't really occur if the husband or boyfriend both knows about and encourages it. He may even worship her, like some mistress or godess, in a Sadomasocistic (I know I miss-spelt that one) way. The teasing, taunting and ultimate humiliation of it all can be quite a turn on for a male in a commited relationship. Why can't you be a good wife, friend, soul mate and still rub your steamy cum soaked pussy in his face every once in a while. As well, alot of lesser endoued men find the thought of their wives being properly filled with a large cock a huge turn-on. I don't know why, but that fact brought to the husband's attention seems to turn both men and women on in such a primal maner. This insn't sex 101, more like 404. My question for you is: If you found your soul mate (where the two of you had numerous things in common and really got on well together) who happened to have a submissive streek in him (that you didn't find out about until well into the relationship), would you leave him because he sometimes fanatised about seeing you having sex with other men??? How about if you didn't find out for years and then....boom.....reality is not as easy as you think......

My question to Chicklet: You have a very nice body and you seem to have a head on your shoulders, so why are you here posting mes. in the wife affair board unless you are mabye curious??? How would you feel if a big stud from your school or work hit on you at some social event. Everyone gets weak in the knees, it happens. Would you rather have a boyfriend/husband who would freak out if he saw you with this guy or would you rather have a boyfriend/husband who would understand that these things happen and be happy you where able to fufil a really hot fantasy of yours????

To Paula and Bob: Are you still interested in role playing???? I haven't seen anything more on the story you and others were talking about. I would love to participate if there is room

Talk to you all later,
Brian.....

 

[Guest]

Re: Stupid Question

Cuckhold? Why this word? What does it mean, exactly?

A cuckhold is a man, who usually is submissive, who enjoys watching his wife with other men, and who enjoys licking their cum from his wife's pussy.

 

[bbeamish]

definition

That's a hot little description Tiggs. If I could add a textbook definition; A cuckold is a type of bird species. The male sneaks into another couples nest and fertilized the eggs before the 'husband' can do it. In essence, the 'husband' ends up raising another man's children. I don't know if that adds to the mystic or not but that's where the term comes from,
Brian...

 

[Reshbod]

Here's my take on a good wife:

Someone sweet and nice you can take home to meet mom
A good mother, caring sould
A whore in the bedroom.

IN the bedroom. With her husband. Not outside with WHO EVER.

Just my take.

Wow, I cannot believe all the anger this type of story generates. I agree with the above quote and hope to find someone exactly like that someday. Real life and fantasy stories for me are two totally separate things. I had a gf in the past who wanted to act out these types of "stories" and she got into the other role completely, I was less enthusiastic, but did get into it as well. We would get into an "argument" and one of us would storm out, leaving a nice hint like "I'll be at the mall"... The other person would leave an hour later, find each other then "seduce" the other person. It was extremely fun and gave us a sense of "safe" danger. We only did it a few times, but it propably was the most erotic thing we did. Unfortunately things did not last (big religious differences)

That is how I think of these types of stories. They are fantasy and great ideas for role playing when I do meet that special someone that I want to dedicate my life to making happy and she me.

Anyway, thats my ramble for today, hopefully it is somewhat coherent.

 

[Axeltheswede]

Not a ramble at all. You bring up some interesting aspects of the appeal of "wife watching" stories.

I truly think these stories are no more than fantasies for 99% of readers. What is the harm in imagining your wife being desired by other men?

Combine that with the visual thrill of seeing her in your mind's eye, being repeatedly satisfied, and what was once old is suddenly new again. Sounds like win-win to me.

The angst on this thread comes from mixing this fantasy with actual cheating. That is apples and oranges. Cheating is bad, hurtful, nasty stuff. Fantasy threesomes and more are harmless fantasy that can bring spice to a loving couple.

 

[Guest]

Wow. I never knew it was a type of bird as well. Kinda a scary thought. In sexual terms it's the man I described. It's a fetish.

 

[penguindance]

 

[Chicklet]

Re: Hot dirty sex, yummy

My question to Chicklet: You have a very nice body and you seem to have a head on your shoulders, so why are you here posting mes. in the wife affair board unless you are mabye curious??? How would you feel if a big stud from your school or work hit on you at some social event. Everyone gets weak in the knees, it happens. Would you rather have a boyfriend/husband who would freak out if he saw you with this guy or would you rather have a boyfriend/husband who would understand that these things happen and be happy you where able to fufil a really hot fantasy of yours????

I post everywhere, haven't you noticed that?

I would not cheat on my boy, I think that I have more control than that. It's just my personal choice. If I felt that I wanted to sleep with someone else, I would probably break up with my boyfriend, because if he can't satisfy me then there's something wrong. I don't want him to go out and sleep with other women, so I'm not going to ask to go sleep with other men.

My hot fantasies don't really include other men. Just a few women <wink at stranger>