why?

[xxsxx]

When it comes to parts of the male anatomy size doesnt matter but it´s what you do with it right?
Then how come pretty much every guy my age (between 18 and 24) judges women on size of boobs and then on overal body weihgt and then leg´s face and then way at the end personality?? I dont get this I mean isnt it the same as judging a guy on the size of his dick???? Like the boyfriend of a friend of mine if a girl doesnt have any boobs she´s not worth knowing according to him and a friend of my boyfriend figures if you´r like 10kilo´s over weight your miss piggy or if youre a bit taller then average you´re bootch and so on and so forth (I know that they all talk like that cause when we´re clubbing the whole lot of em is always talking about friends of mine like that and I in the beginning got teased because my skin was a bit lighter colored then theirs cause I hadnt been to the beach yet that year) anyway is it just me thinking that this is just as bad as having giggeling fits when a guy who´s always saying his dick is huge tuns out to be tiny????

xxx

 

[trynit2]

Judging Women

Guys 18 - 24 still have alot to learn. Basically they are boys in mens bodies. When you get to be my age, 30 you realize you thought you knew alot at that age but you really didn't know shit.
Also the biggest talkers are usually that, all talk.

When you get older you realize what the important factor is to judge women by...

Does she swallow? Just kidding. Don't kill me ladies.

 

[Bug Eyed Monster]

When it comes to parts of the male anatomy size doesnt matter but it´s what you do with it right?
Then how come pretty much every guy my age (between 18 and 24) judges women on size of boobs and then on overal body weihgt and then leg´s face and then way at the end personality?? I dont get this I mean isnt it the same as judging a guy on the size of his dick???? Like the boyfriend of a friend of mine if a girl doesnt have any boobs she´s not worth knowing according to him and a friend of my boyfriend figures if you´r like 10kilo´s over weight your miss piggy or if youre a bit taller then average you´re bootch and so on and so forth (I know that they all talk like that cause when we´re clubbing the whole lot of em is always talking about friends of mine like that and I in the beginning got teased because my skin was a bit lighter colored then theirs cause I hadnt been to the beach yet that year) anyway is it just me thinking that this is just as bad as having giggeling fits when a guy who´s always saying his dick is huge tuns out to be tiny????

xxx

General rule of thumb Boys and yes 18 to 24 are boys are idiots. I know I was one.

First off welcome to a place with people who are a lot more understanding. The males here like all females here. Big ones, small ones, shy ones, cute ones, are loved and accepted here because we tend to look beyond the surface. Not everyone but a very good percentage. Warning: we do have a few trolls around.

A question for you why hang out with them if they are like that. Your boyfriend? If he is like that then why are you dating him?

Part of it is competition, got to be the best and have the best, and really they are full of Sh*t! The other major portion is FEAR They figure if they get rejected by an "ugly" girl it would be too embarassing. So they rip em down first. That way if they get shot down by a "gorgeous girl" that's ok cause they can BS about what happened.

Personally if the person who is claiming he's huge and turns out tiny is one of those ripping down people for how they look, he deserves to be laughed at. Maybe if someone is nice, they'll explain that people who live in glass houses shouldn't throw stones. Also if they believe that they are a nice person and they look like they do, then maybe the people they are ripping down are nice as well and he is missing out on making some great friends.

Hope it helps. Good luck and think about why you are with your guy? Are you condoning these guys actions?

 

[xxsxx]

a kind of long explenation as to why my boyfriend doesnt like those kins of basterds.

Actually my boyfriend never acted like that (well atleast not sinse he has me) and he now hates the worst ones from that group and so do I so I´m basically rid of em which is even their own damn fault cause well the worst of the group I met a week before I met my current boyfriend he treid to chat me up by talking about his pretty car for an hour and following me aroud like I had honey on my butt or something so I blew him off (in a not all too nice manner cause I was drunk and grumpy cause of him not pissing off and a guy I really liked nof showing up not a good combo so I tols him there was no fucking way he was going to get anywhere with me) all the while my best friend was making out with a friend of his so he got pissed and annoying and followed me around some more the week after I met my current boyfriend and we hit it off inmediatly and that ment that the basterd didnt really have anyone to go outwith anymore cause everyone but him had a girl and that pissed him off and that ment that a half hour into the evening he´d stalk off home after causing a big fight (and doing childish stuff like throwing glasses of water in my neck while I was dancing) anyway then I decided that it was ok if my boyfriend wanted to go out with em but I wasnt doing it anymore cause he fucked up my nights then I didnt see him for like 2 months and neither did my boyfriend cause he didnt want to go out without me then he came over to our place and said sorry and took us out for a drink we had acouple of talks and he apparantly decided he liked me then he started trying to break me and my best friend up by paying us out against each other (didnt work cause what ever he said we double checked by calling each other and asking if it was true) so he gave that up and then tried to break her ans her boyfriend up didnt work so then he started making very mean jokes about my botfriend and being very very nice to me wich I didnt trusu so I asked a friend of mine who he didnt know to go have a chat with him about me and my boyfriend and what he thought of us then he told her that he was in love with me and yada yada but I wasnt supposed to know then two days later me her him and a friend of his who was since the day befor going out with her went to a park for a talk and his friend who usually hates me went and told me that the basterd was in love with me and if I would be so nice to kiss him and so on and so forth when the talk was over the basterd grabbed me and tried to kiss me I said no we talked instead and at the end he still kissed me and I pulled away I told my boyfriend what happend and he decided he hated both of them and never wanted to see them again then a bit later the basterd wanted to talk again so I said ok and he tried to kiss me again but I noticed in time so I turned my cheek towards him so he ended up trying to make out with my cheek and I said gee ´dont you just love my cheek after wich he was grumpy and because he was getting mad at me I got him to without knowing it confess what he wanted from me which was some bullshit story about my boyfriend stealing his girls (one of em came down to him talking to a girl and the basterd stalking off and when he followed to sk what was wrong he said to the first girl he saw there is a fag following me the girl said I see and they madeout and after that the first girl didnt want him anymore) and him now wanting to get with me to get revenge anyway I had him there but I didnt let him know so then he went on vacation and sent me smses saying that he missed me I sent back thats nice dear I´m too busy to miss you have a nice vacation then he came back and started accusing me and a good friend of mine of sending pizza´s to his house ect and startted thereatening me which really was a very big misstake cause in the mean time me and a friend had done some checking and found out half of our town is looking for him ect and now we´ve set up that if he touches anyone of us we only need 1 phone call and he´ll be history so actually the idiot walked in to a wall he created him self and will never ever bother me or my friends again and if he thinks hes smart enough to try he´ll really regret it. So no my boyfriend is not like him but my boyfriend is insecure enough to think those are rhe only friends he can make which is why he hung out with them he didnt have anyone else to hang out with.

 

[restless_reaver]

IT ALL COMES DOWN TO PREFERENCE. WHAT YOU WANT, WHAT OTHERS WANT. 'nuff said.

 

[xxsxx]

let me guess you´re a long leggs big boobs nice ass and be quiet guy with a ''macho attitude'' right???

 

[restless_reaver]

Who? Lil 'ol me? Naw, actually i like women who have spirit and independence....true i would prefer good looks but that's not the first thing i look for

 

[xxsxx]

ok my bad hope I didnt offend you

 

[Bug Eyed Monster]

Re: a kind of long explenation as to why my boyfriend doesnt like those kins of basterds.

<snip> So no my boyfriend is not like him but my boyfriend is insecure enough to think those are rhe only friends he can make which is why he hung out with them he didnt have anyone else to hang out with.

Well I am glad to hear that your boyfriend is not like the other guy. Trust me guys like that are generally not like by most people, but as you say insecurity can cause people to hang out with them. Tell your boyfriend to join you here on Lit and he can make some new and nicer friends. I don't even have to know him to know he can do better than those guys.

Good luck hope things work out for you both. Loved your pics by the way.

BEM

 

[xxsxx]

God I rambeld on a bit here didnt I??

And thank you and I´ll propose it to my bf he often reads with me but never posted anything.

xxx

 

[Bug Eyed Monster]

God I rambeld on a bit here didnt I??

And thank you and I´ll propose it to my bf he often reads with me but never posted anything.

xxx

That's fine. Let's see some fun threads to meet people:
The Exhibisionist in me - Run by my friend KHAN-E for exhibisionism and voyeruism.

Jewelz Playhouse - Run by Jewelz lots of fun, games, word associations.

Momma's Kitchen - Some of the best food and foks around.

Oh well, you get the idea. Check them out, see who you like and have fun, both of you. There is also the Amateur Pic Feedback Forum for lots of beautiful pictures.

Have fun.

 

[xxsxx]

thanks for the ideas and we´ll go check em out in a bit


xx

 

[tonyzee23]

When it comes to parts of the male anatomy size doesnt matter but it´s what you do with it right?
Then how come pretty much every guy my age (between 18 and 24) judges women on size of boobs and then on overal body weihgt and then leg´s face and then way at the end personality?? I dont get this I mean isnt it the same as judging a guy on the size of his dick???? Like the boyfriend of a friend of mine if a girl doesnt have any boobs she´s not worth knowing according to him and a friend of my boyfriend figures if you´r like 10kilo´s over weight your miss piggy or if youre a bit taller then average you´re bootch and so on and so forth (I know that they all talk like that cause when we´re clubbing the whole lot of em is always talking about friends of mine like that and I in the beginning got teased because my skin was a bit lighter colored then theirs cause I hadnt been to the beach yet that year) anyway is it just me thinking that this is just as bad as having giggeling fits when a guy who´s always saying his dick is huge tuns out to be tiny????

xxx

wait let me check the calander, yep still 23..
I know lots of guys like this, they just haven't grown up yet, they think they are made of gold and from what i've seen talk a lot and don't get a lot. I also know a lot of guys who have grown up and do judge but don't care.
It's a fact that we all judge, it's just a matter of how much we do it and how it affects us and how we use what we see to evaluate someone.
I'm not perfect, I do judge but I don't exclude anyone except if they have a bad attitude towards me. That's it for me, I look, I judge, I don't care about looks be nice to me

 

[xxsxx]

yeah ofcours everyone judges hey if I see a cute guy walk by I´ll flirt too and if someone that really doesnt attract me walks by I´ll ignore him (ok that sounds mean I´de ahm not pay any extra attention to him) but that doesnt mean I wouldnt like him just cause I dont feel attracted to him. And with these guy it really is big boobs or you´re toast and they´ll go out of their way to make you feel like shit and I think there is a difference in not being attracted to someone or making them miserable cause of it.


xxx

 

[tonyzee23]

yeah ofcours everyone judges hey if I see a cute guy walk by I´ll flirt too and if someone that really doesnt attract me walks by I´ll ignore him (ok that sounds mean I´de ahm not pay any extra attention to him) but that doesnt mean I wouldnt like him just cause I dont feel attracted to him. And with these guy it really is big boobs or you´re toast and they´ll go out of their way to make you feel like shit and I think there is a difference in not being attracted to someone or making them miserable cause of it.


xxx

well if you haven't surfed the porn world of the net as much i have you will come to find that boobs only seem like the 1 thing the counts, not true, sure they are the easiest to see when your first meet someone. It is not too hard to keep your eye up see a nice smile and warm eyes either, soft hair, long hair, long neck. You can look down see nice toes, cute feet, long legs, short legs, nice tights, cute hips. And on the way past, nice ass, great walk, hair again.
there is a no reason to make someone feel bad because of the way the look unless the person making fun has some real deep rooted self esteem problems and they lash out in defense and in that case they ought to just stay home and avoid people till they get over it.

 

[xxsxx]

true.

But what do you do about the type that goes out and drags others down with him??

(besides covering his car in broken eggs and compost maybe)


xxx

 

[tonyzee23]

true.

But what do you do about the type that goes out and drags others down with him??

(besides covering his car in broken eggs and compost maybe)


xxx

Ignore them, what is someone's you (hate?) dislike and knows wil say something to make you feel bad, opinion worth to you?

what's the proverb, "promises spoken by a man are only as good as the man" or there abouts

 

[Dr. Groove]

I say that both men and women have some tendencies to generalize and scrutinize based on first glance physical impressions. Its the people who continue the judgement past first impressions and decide a persons worth just based on their appearance that truly diminish their and our world.

What do you do? I believe you should just move right past 'em and choose to be around people who are less judgemental, more open-minded and more than anything honestly and genuinely nice people.

Its worth a shot anyway.

Cheers,

Groove