FirmYetGentle
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- Apr 18, 2015
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...so I think I've reached my breaking point.
After roleplaying for several years with plenty of partners, I think I'm finally exhausted.
Most of the time when I share a fantasy with someone, it involves me writing 2-4 paragraphs just to get a couple lines in response. If I write less, then it takes forever for someone to respond at all assuming someone does.
What I've found very odd about this though is how often I get told by my partners that they don't know what to say. This didn't happen originally and still doesn't happen much, but it's been a long suspicion of mine that people don't write much back because they're either embarrassed, caught up in what I wrote, or just flat out don't match my skill level.
What also nags me is how many people say, "I don't know what they want, but know what I don't want."
This is remarkably childish and makes it a huge pain to find someone compatible. Sometimes, it gets exhausting just trying to find someone, and I figure I'll just go do something else. It's almost like these people are trying to provoke you into practicing a hobby to discourage you from roleplaying so you develop yourself for a real relationship. It's flat out passive-aggressive in failing to understand the value of simply roleplaying to share a fantasy. They put themselves out there, and then pull away.
It's also annoying when people want to roleplay elaborate plots before the scene. Granted roleplaying includes foreplay, yes. Roleplaying isn't cybering. There's some buildup from something else that leads to the moment...
...but we're not talking about writing a romance novel here. Heck, if you want a romance novel, then you're the one who's begging for a deeper relationship, not me...
...and then, you have the ones who confuse "love" with "being in-love". Sometimes, it's nice to sink in to your partner and show that you care about one's future without believing that your futures are tied together. It gives you that little extra beautiful glow to the scene, but I guess some people struggle with distinguishing between the two (which I find extremely bizarre since you should easily understand the difference if you want to verbally roleplay a fantasy in the first place rather than find someone to have an affair with in real life).
The biggest thing of all though is how much more fun it is when you actually go on call with someone.
Even if my partners don't know what to say, it's great to hear them moan, gasp, whimper, and squeal from how I describe playing with them up, down, and all around...
...and of course, hearing someone's voice helps to disspell the possibility of genderfaking.
I'd keep writing if I could reasonably anticipate a luscious experience, but it's just not happening, so whatever.
Besides, I have plenty of scenes saved now. I can just as easily go back and reread the scenes I've already written with people. I don't need to hunt someone down who's just going say, "mmmm... ohhhh... soooo... goooooooood... yesssssss" for the millionth time.
After roleplaying for several years with plenty of partners, I think I'm finally exhausted.
Most of the time when I share a fantasy with someone, it involves me writing 2-4 paragraphs just to get a couple lines in response. If I write less, then it takes forever for someone to respond at all assuming someone does.
What I've found very odd about this though is how often I get told by my partners that they don't know what to say. This didn't happen originally and still doesn't happen much, but it's been a long suspicion of mine that people don't write much back because they're either embarrassed, caught up in what I wrote, or just flat out don't match my skill level.
What also nags me is how many people say, "I don't know what they want, but know what I don't want."
This is remarkably childish and makes it a huge pain to find someone compatible. Sometimes, it gets exhausting just trying to find someone, and I figure I'll just go do something else. It's almost like these people are trying to provoke you into practicing a hobby to discourage you from roleplaying so you develop yourself for a real relationship. It's flat out passive-aggressive in failing to understand the value of simply roleplaying to share a fantasy. They put themselves out there, and then pull away.
It's also annoying when people want to roleplay elaborate plots before the scene. Granted roleplaying includes foreplay, yes. Roleplaying isn't cybering. There's some buildup from something else that leads to the moment...
...but we're not talking about writing a romance novel here. Heck, if you want a romance novel, then you're the one who's begging for a deeper relationship, not me...
...and then, you have the ones who confuse "love" with "being in-love". Sometimes, it's nice to sink in to your partner and show that you care about one's future without believing that your futures are tied together. It gives you that little extra beautiful glow to the scene, but I guess some people struggle with distinguishing between the two (which I find extremely bizarre since you should easily understand the difference if you want to verbally roleplay a fantasy in the first place rather than find someone to have an affair with in real life).
The biggest thing of all though is how much more fun it is when you actually go on call with someone.
Even if my partners don't know what to say, it's great to hear them moan, gasp, whimper, and squeal from how I describe playing with them up, down, and all around...
...and of course, hearing someone's voice helps to disspell the possibility of genderfaking.
I'd keep writing if I could reasonably anticipate a luscious experience, but it's just not happening, so whatever.
Besides, I have plenty of scenes saved now. I can just as easily go back and reread the scenes I've already written with people. I don't need to hunt someone down who's just going say, "mmmm... ohhhh... soooo... goooooooood... yesssssss" for the millionth time.
