Why would any male want to be turned into a sissy?

[crazy4myhusband]

I started out years ago just looking at straight porn. Over the years I just got kinkier and kinkier. It just seems one thing led to another , first straight porn , then 3somes ..bi porn .. sissy porn ..and shemale porn .

( really , don't take this too seriously folks , its just that the thought of being gradually and unknowingly turned into a cock sucking sissy is a big turn on for me)

Paraphrased quote above to focus on something I do not get.

Why sissy porn? and Why does any male want to be turned into a sissy?

I read about guys wanting to suck cock and suck cum, eat cum, and even get done anally as well as do others anally. I love sucking cock so I get that, I love getting done in my backside, so I get that, I enjoy cum play, also taking it straight from the source, and yes I love doing my husband anally as well as helping him get done.

But I would never want my husband to be anything other than a man or a man's man, even if he gets done or does things with men. I guess to each his or her own but from my perspective, it is not in the least attractive for a guy to not be, and act like a guy. I have seen guys over the years take cock all sorts of way and still be men, not sissies. I do not get it. I do not know any ladies who prefer their men to not be men. Guess that is the crowd I travel with.

 

[SissySalina]

For this sissy it is a short answer: because sissy loves Her and being a sissy is what She wants sissy to be.
If you love someone so much that you want to please them would you not become a sissy if that is what they want you to be?

sissy is a cross dresser and loves to be dresses in female clothing, so when sissy was going to retire (quit working full time) sissy went to Her asked Her if She would mind. She already knew sissy was a cross dresser at home but sissy wanted to dress all the time. She said yes if sissy became Her sissy, so their was an agreement. When sissy was cross dressing there was no desire to have sex with men, just Her. As to why She wished sissy to become a sissy is not known to this sissy and does not matter, it is what She wanted.

 

[nostuff]

Why sissy porn? and Why does any male want to be turned into a sissy?

Like you, I don't understand the appeal of sissy porn, nor do I want to become a sissy. But here's the thing: There are lots of people who don't understand my desires. Straight people don't understand my desire for cock, and I doubt gay people understand my desire for pussy.

And I get it, because of my own evolution. I once identified as strictly straight, and the mere thought of touching another man horrified me. Over time, though, I have changed, to the point that I can't resist thinking about being with a man. And I want that man to be very masculine and to fuck my throat with his big cock before taking my ass.

But even though I'm a bottom, I don't see myself as effeminate in any way, which might strike you as contradictory. I can't explain it myself. It's just me.

Is this me forever? Possibly, or it's possible I'll continue to evolve. I could wake up one morning with an urge to pilfer my wife's lingerie, with no idea where the urge came from. And that's OK, though my wife would probably tell me to buy my own lingerie.

The heart will want what the heart wants.

 

[TallOne]

Plenty of women out there that enjoy some gender-fuckery. Many a pop star have rocked androgynous looks with hordes of female fans. Some women enjoy being dominant. Some men enjoy being dominated. Not everyone conforms to gender stereotypes. Some like to play with gender stereotypes. Such gender identity/play is not connected to sexual orientation. Not everyone conforms to the “breeder” stereotypes of attraction, for whatever reason.

 

[Escierto]

When people read that I am a bottom for my transgender girlfriend, they frequently assume that I like to dress in feminine clothing. I always tell them that I have never worn feminine clothing and I have no desire to do so. My girlfriend is happy that I don’t wish to cross dress. She had a previous boyfriend who expressed such a desire to her and she found it a turn off.

Just because it’s not for me doesn’t mean I condemn it. A lot of people are repulsed that I have a transgender girlfriend and even more so for being her bottom. Each to his own. Live and let live.

 

[liztgirlny]

So What?

I'm into crossdressing. I'm not into sissy. There are many fetishes I don't get, nor care about. Maybe some of them are yours?

But, it's 2021. This is a room about GLBT related topics. Is it really necessary to explain here, in the 21st century that people should live and let live? You're not into it? Oh well. There's a good reason there aren't network satellite dishes parked outside your home waiting for your opinion.

If you can't understand allowing others their pleasures... Maybe you shouldn't be in a chat room patronized by adults?

 

[james2346]

would like to be bottom with someone.

 

[nostuff]

If you can't understand allowing others their pleasures... Maybe you shouldn't be in a chat room patronized by adults?

I didn't sense any animosity in Crazy's question. And how are we supposed to learn if we can't ask questions?

 

[cuck72]

Paraphrased quote above to focus on something I do not get.

Why sissy porn? and Why does any male want to be turned into a sissy?

I read about guys wanting to suck cock and suck cum, eat cum, and even get done anally as well as do other anally. I love sucking cock so I get that, I love getting done in my backside, so I get that, I enjoy cum play, also taking it straight from the source, and yes I love doing my husband anally as well as helping him get done.

But I would never want my husband to be anything other than a man or a man's man, even if he gets done or does things with men. I guess to each his or her own but from my perspective, it is not in the least attractive for a guy to not be and act like a guy. I have seen guys over the years take cock all sorts of way and still be men, not sissies. I do not get it. I do not know any ladies who prefer their men to not be men. Guess that is the crowd I travel with.

I understand TOTALLY! I have so many pussy ass faggot fantasies in my head, and want to be a cock sucking pussy bitch in front of my wife. But outside the bedroom I'm all man, and wouldn't want to act like a sissy bitch husband. The guys, and girls where I worked, my neighbors, and family members have no idea what a faggot pussy I am in my fantasies. I look and act all man on the outside, but have jacking off fantasies about being a dominant man's sissy boy in panties.

 

[ChrissyCD64]

A better question would be why wouldn't any male want to be a sissy? I have been a cross-dressing sissy all my live and I love it. My wife loves it too.

 

[jabberwockyjon]

Everyone has their kinks, I suppose. Though as a masculine guy, I nave no desire for that and it does nothing for me.

Would I like to be gangbanged along with my wife or gf? Yes. Do I want to wear panties? Nope.

 

[Astroman72]

Not really into cross-dressing on its own, or makeup, and I wouldn't be comfortable with a really dominant guy, so no, the sissy thing doesn't really appeal to me.

But I suppose if a guy wanted to fuck me and his fantasy was that I wear a garter and stockings or a skirt or something, I could probably be talked into it.

 

[jjlc74]

For me I was always feminine, from being a child I could pass as a girl if I dressed right. I knew I was not a normal boy, I wondered about kissing other boys, I wondered about wearing girls pretty, feminine clothes. At that point it wasn’t sexual just something that felt natural, something that let me feel like me. After seeing my aunt undressing for a bath I was more sure than ever that I was meant to be dressed like her, I wanted to look like her. The sexual side or sissy side came out once I hit puberty and I wanted to know what it felt like to be a girl. When normal boys were jerking off I was playing with my nipples and my ass. I wanted to be with another boy and dress up in girls clothes. I was crossdressing whenever possible and it just felt like the real me when I was fully dressed.

After my first gay sexual experience I knew I was meant to be a female, I was also very very hooked on anything sexual. I was submissive and feminine and soon found that there were a lot of guys who liked me like that. I went through phases of hiding that side of me and trying to be a normal male but it wasn’t who I was and eventually with the help, support and love of my wife I started a second attempt at transitioning. I love who and what I am now, my wife loves and encourages me as does my boyfriend.

 

[Escierto]

For me I was always feminine, from being a child I could pass as a girl if I dressed right. I knew I was not a normal boy, I wondered about kissing other boys, I wondered about wearing girls pretty, feminine clothes. At that point it wasn’t sexual just something that felt natural, something that let me feel like me. After seeing my aunt undressing for a bath I was more sure than ever that I was meant to be dressed like her, I wanted to look like her. The sexual side or sissy side came out once I hit puberty and I wanted to know what it felt like to be a girl. When normal boys were jerking off I was playing with my nipples and my ass. I wanted to be with another boy and dress up in girls clothes. I was crossdressing whenever possible and it just felt like the real me when I was fully dressed.

After my first gay sexual experience I knew I was meant to be a female, I was also very very hooked on anything sexual. I was submissive and feminine and soon found that there were a lot of guys who liked me like that. I went through phases of hiding that side of me and trying to be a normal male but it wasn’t who I was and eventually with the help, support and love of my wife I started a second attempt at transitioning. I love who and what I am now, my wife loves and encourages me as does my boyfriend.

It’s good to read a story with a happy ending!

 

[AvgGuy01]

This is an example of what confuses me. Asking "why would (or wouldn't) any person want (or not want) to do X" makes sense if you are really asking for insight into someone's decision making. I'm afraid, however, that often the question is making assumptions that X behavior is someone's norm, so why should anyone not want to behave the same way?

If the original question was posted in order to truly ask seeking an answer, well and good. But the above question seems to assume that "being a sissy" should naturally be on the table for any male.

Celebrate who you are, sexually and otherwise, and leave it there. Just because you like to be a sissy, or run naked through parking lots, or use Barbie dolls as dildos, or shove baseball bats up your ass, doesn't mean that activity is something others should embrace in you or desire for themselves, just because it fits you.

Sorry for the ramble, and I don't have ill feelings toward anyone about this. But I see comments on various threads over and over that because I like to have sex with other men, there should somehow be a sissy somewhere in the picture. What a bunch of bullshit! Good grief, how I hate stereotypes!

Clear, concise, and well said...

 

[badonkadoku]

For this sissy it is a short answer: because sissy loves Her and being a sissy is what She wants sissy to be.
If you love someone so much that you want to please them would you not become a sissy if that is what they want you to be?

What if someone you loved wanted you to eat excrement? Or walk tightropes between skyscrapers? Is it that you start off with so little self-respect that you want to please them at the cost of your own reputation/safety/self-esteem?

 

[badonkadoku]

This is an example of what confuses me. Asking "why would (or wouldn't) any person want (or not want) to do X" makes sense if you are really asking for insight into someone's decision making. I'm afraid, however, that often the question is making assumptions that X behavior is someone's norm, so why should anyone not want to behave the same way?

If the original question was posted in order to truly ask seeking an answer, well and good. But the above question seems to assume that "being a sissy" should naturally be on the table for any male.

Celebrate who you are, sexually and otherwise, and leave it there. Just because you like to be a sissy, or run naked through parking lots, or use Barbie dolls as dildos, or shove baseball bats up your ass, doesn't mean that activity is something others should embrace in you or desire for themselves, just because it fits you.

Sorry for the ramble, and I don't have ill feelings toward anyone about this. But I see comments on various threads over and over that because I like to have sex with other men, there should somehow be a sissy somewhere in the picture. What a bunch of bullshit! Good grief, how I hate stereotypes!

Sorta' wishing this was Reddit, so I could upvote this comment!

 

[SissySalina]

What if someone you loved wanted you to eat excrement? Or walk tightropes between skyscrapers? Is it that you start off with so little self-respect that you want to please them at the cost of your own reputation/safety/self-esteem?

So the question is, how much do you love them? If you love them that much they probably love you also, so the real question would be if you really loved someone would you ask them to do those things?
Well, would you?

 

[AvgGuy01]

So the question is, how much do you love them? If you love them that much they probably love you also, so the real question would be if you really loved someone would you ask them to do those things?
Well, would you?

The question that was asked was a relevant one as stated and shouldn't be turned around. Regardless of the feelings of the other, if those things were asked as to test your commitment, what would you do?

 

[SissySalina]

The question that was asked was a relevant one as stated and shouldn't be turned around. Regardless of the feelings of the other, if those things were asked as to test your commitment, what would you do?

The answer was relevant and correct, do you know your partner?
sissy kows Her and the question is irrelevant because She would never ask such a thing of sissy.
She cares for and protects sissy and would not do anything to endanger sissy.

 

[SissySalina]

I think this may be passing the bounds of sanity, especially in light of the "Sissy Rules" in your profile signature. If those are meant to apply only to you, go ahead! But it appears to this non-sissy that you are at least recommending these for all men who want to be sissies. So, as I've said before, celebrate who you are and enjoy it. But I don't think anyone should set up a standard for sexual behavior (or any behavior, for that matter) that they expect others to live up to.

If your Beloved asks you to eat shit or jump off a cliff to prove yourself, go ahead if you need to do that to prove your "love" to someone. I think you're an idiot if you do, but it's your life. And maybe your funeral.

The rules are Her's for sissy, not meant for anyone to have if they do not wish.

 

[coati]

Hyperbole

Celebrate who you are, sexually and otherwise, and leave it there. Just because you like to be a sissy, or run naked through parking lots, or use Barbie dolls as dildos, or shove baseball bats up your ass, doesn't mean that activity is something others should embrace in you or desire for themselves, just because it fits you.

Nobody on any of the posts in this thread mentioned any of these activities, and nobody on any of the posts in this thread is saying you should embrace these activities, nor require you to embrace sissy behaviors.

Chill.

If you are a sissy, then it is up to you whether you want to respond to the OP.

 

[bobbyinhouston]

Hi

I don't think I want to be feminized like wearing panties and bras and even stockings, but I would like to be treated with kindness and respect by my lovers. I would like to be held and carressed especially when I am trying to make my man happy.

The affection does not have to be public but behind closed doors a little kindness goes a long way. Does this make sense? Just my two cents.

 

[AvgGuy01]

The answer was relevant and correct, do you know your partner?
sissy kows Her and the question is irrelevant because She would never ask such a thing of sissy.
She cares for and protects sissy and would not do anything to endanger sissy.

A simple yes or no answer would have been sufficient... but keep dancing around it.

A serious question because I'm curious... why the third person?

 

[AvgGuy01]

Nobody on any of the posts in this thread mentioned any of these activities, and nobody on any of the posts in this thread is saying you should embrace these activities, nor require you to embrace sissy behaviors.

Chill.

If you are a sissy, then it is up to you whether you want to respond to the OP.

Relax... obviously it was a hypothetical. And no one in this thread said there was requirement to respond.