Why We Like to be Scared

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Sociologists say it's because we need need to be reminded of life's meaning
by Clark Humphrey

Some aspects of Halloween have obvious appeal. Folks like to play games and eat candy, and to dress up in costumes that let them pretend they're somebody else.

But why do we like to cavort with images of death and make-believe threats of violence?

Fordham University English professor Walter Kendrick has an idea why.

In his 1991 book The Thrill of Fear: 250 Years of Scary Entertainment (now out of print), Kendrick claims we need to experience spookiness in a safe context.

Through scary stories and movies, Kendrick writes, "the horror of death and dying is rendered safe; it is turned into a celebration of being permanently alive, forever immune to decay. Death and dying are made to provide pleasure--not of an intellectual sort or even an emotional one, but the gut thrill of deep breaths, shouts, and half-serious clutches at the viewer in the next seat. Fear of deadness has become a reliable reservoir of muscular innervation [i.e., nervous tension] that can be tapped at any time, without much inventiveness, or, it seems, any anxiety that it will ever run dry.

"The cleverest horror films may offer political commentary, even social criticism, thereby winning the approval of those who would otherwise never glance at a horror movie. But such things are extras; they're far from necessary, and they sometimes threaten to impede horror's fundamental errand--to assure the viewer that his flesh will always remain firm and intact, that for all this display of rot and carnage, there is nothing to fear."
 
Samhain.

The pagan roots are important for celebrations such as these.

It's a cavorting with the world on the borders of imagination. The terrors that lurk in the shadows and the mystical forces that play on Earth. Even with the Christian invasion, the holiday remained true to that. It became All Hallow's Eve where the spirits played and people waited to the next day when good and holiness banished them from sight.

Still for one day... It's all real.
 
Samhain,

For those of us who are pagan, Samhain is very religious. It's not the trick or treating you see. It's the time when our loved ones who are deceased are closest to the veil of life. The Catholic church was unable to conqueor the pagans, even after the destruction of the druids. So they named Nov. 1st All Saints Day. Or, the Day of the Dead as Mexico calls it. This pleased the masses and settled the church more securely in the lands. There are many instances of this. The dates and celebrations of Christmas, Easter and May Day are all Pagan. Taken over by the christian church to conqueor.
The fear of witches and broomsticks goes back to the catholics watching local pagans bless the fields. The local tribal medicine man/woman would hop on a broom and dance across the fields blessing them for the coming harvest. They were basically sweeping away the evil spirits to allow a better harvest for the village. But since they stopped the spread of christianity, many were killed.
What is horror? Horror is being scarificed for what you believe is true. Horror, is the werewolf or vampire that Mary and Bram wrote about. But true horror? That is seeing your old beliefs melded into modern day and everyone accepting it as the truth of their religion. Horror is seeing the look in your friends eyes when you tell them you're a witch/pagan. Then to never have them talk to again. Horror is hearing the Christian Falwell blame 9/11 on national tv for the pagans and muslims. And the real horror? Is everyone agreeing with him. Get out the stakes. Burn us again.
 
I think that we are in danger of wiping away an element that is a very healthy part of growing up. As the Politically Correct Corp has gained more power, scary stories become "dangerous".

It is so wrong. I think it is important to experiment with the edges of emotion and fear is an emotion I would include. My son is NOT fond of scary stories or movies, nor is my wife. My daughter is more like me. She has a certain relish for them. I'm glad. Gives me someone to share with, at least a little. You don't want to overwhelm th three year old.

I'm happy for things like Harry Potter and Lemony Snicket that flaunt this assumption that anything scary or tense or slightly sad is bad for kids.

LDW:
Just a quick note to let you know that some of us who were raised Christian and even Catholic never bought into that bullshit.

Be stong in who you are and don't let assholes like the religious right convince you that all of us feel that way. I would not change my opinion of you because of your religion any more than I would a buddhist or muslim. More likely, I'd pester you with a million questions. ;)
 
For the record: I do not like to be scared (as in scary movies, scary stories, weird animals, Yorkshiremen, dark alleys, etc.), but I am not afraid of death and in fact join it in a celebration every November 2.

Perdita
 
I love to feel scared; to feel frightened and completely powerless; to feel my heart thudding in my chest and my mouth go dry; to not know what is going to happen next; to be deprived of one or more senses and be at the complete mercy of another. That buzz and rush of adrenaline is hard to beat. And all that's just as far as sex is concerned. :eek:

My idea of a good night out: being abducted by a big, bald, bearded man. :D

I haven't even touched on horror there, whether reading it or watching a film.

Lou :eek:
 
I love scary stuff -- have ever since I was a child. Ghost stories, Halloween, supposedly haunted places, horror movies, the sounds of gothic punk. Thrillers, crime novels, disaster flims - anything that seems to put people in mortal danger but especially if there is a supernatural twist to it.

I'm also on the same page with Tatelou. This stuff isn't just exhilarating it's sexy. There's nothing more visceral than the desire to mate like crazy after a brush with danger. It's a hard-wired bio-drive and that doesn't require any kind of supernatural overtones.

I think we need it for a few reasons. Certainly it lets us challenge our fear of death, but also, it's a purely physical rush. On another level it affirms for us our belief in something bigger than ourselves --- the idea that we are not the end all be all top of the chain. Religion does this for many people, but even if one doesn't believe in a sentient higher power ie "God" there is a desire to not be at root completely responsible for everything.

It sounds silly to say that horror can be reassuring in that sense --- that loss of control and chaos can be comforting, but if something is beyond your control then you can't really be held at fault when things go badly, can you? Humans have always tried to find that mystical parental figure who makes the rules and ultimate decisions so that we don't feel so utterly alone -- even if that parent is malevolent and abusive.


-B
 
bridgeburner said:
I love scary stuff -- have ever since I was a child. Ghost stories, Halloween, supposedly haunted places, horror movies, the sounds of gothic punk. Thrillers, crime novels, disaster flims - anything that seems to put people in mortal danger but especially if there is a supernatural twist to it.

I'm also on the same page with Tatelou. This stuff isn't just exhilarating it's sexy. There's nothing more visceral than the desire to mate like crazy after a brush with danger. It's a hard-wired bio-drive and that doesn't require any kind of supernatural overtones.

I think we need it for a few reasons. Certainly it lets us challenge our fear of death, but also, it's a purely physical rush. On another level it affirms for us our belief in something bigger than ourselves --- the idea that we are not the end all be all top of the chain. Religion does this for many people, but even if one doesn't believe in a sentient higher power ie "God" there is a desire to not be at root completely responsible for everything.

It sounds silly to say that horror can be reassuring in that sense --- that loss of control and chaos can be comforting, but if something is beyond your control then you can't really be held at fault when things go badly, can you? Humans have always tried to find that mystical parental figure who makes the rules and ultimate decisions so that we don't feel so utterly alone -- even if that parent is malevolent and abusive.


-B

Very well said, Bridgeburner.

Loss of control and chaos can indeed be comforting. It is hard to explain why, but you did a good job of it there.

Lou
 
Thanks! Sometimes I can't get the thoughts right in the words but occasionally I hit on target.


(Good to see you, btw!)


-B
 
bridgeburner said:
Thanks! Sometimes I can't get the thoughts right in the words but occasionally I hit on target.


(Good to see you, btw!)


-B

Yep, you got it right there!

I do think it's that whole thing of not being able to do a thing about an event and/or situation and not being held to account, either.

(Thanks! Good to see you, too!)

Lou
 
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