Why the hell the difference in size?

[kurrginatorX]

On a good day, I go about 5 1/2 inches and I just can close my thumb and index finger around my dick. In contrast, there are so many men who have cocks the size of a Pringles can, and we are told that the average penis size is 5 1/2 to 6 inches. I feel like I got the shitty end of the stick at times. Don't get me wrong. I have four children (who are now adults) and I have slept with about 375 women over the course of my lifetime (yes, an accurate n umber). My small(er) penis has never been an issue because I have always made sure, through oral sex, that the woman was completely satisfied before I got my nut. Even still, I'd take a few extra inches if they were being doled out.

I have had women tell me that they prefer a smaller penis because guys with bigger penises pay little heed to the pain and discomfort they may cause. Here's my question to the ladies here at Lit: What do you consider to be a nice sized penis? You like the Pringles can, the push-up ice cream size, or something in between?

 

[uncle easy]

Big ones look good in pics!!!

 

[Que]

Well, Rob,...why they told you that depends on who brought up the subject.

If you brought it up they were just telling you that to assuage your reasonable fears about your inadequacy.

If they brought it up then they were merely trying to cover for the way that they might have telegraphed their disappointment about your inadequacy.

 

[BiTodd]

I think women learn early on how to let a fella know that they are perfect when it comes to sex. I am of the opinion that most women are attracted to a to a larger member. But if they like/love you they will settle for less.

 

[taylorscock]

What do you consider to be a nice sized penis? You like the Pringles can, the push-up ice cream size, or something in between?

My husband asked me to respond to this because he knows it's a pet peeve of mine.
The best penis size is the one who is confident with what he has. I have seen many penises, and it's usually in the presence of their lover. A women wants her man to be confident. Confident in being naked regardless if he is soft of hard, small or large.

I"ve seen really a large penis that was a turnoff because the man was so shy. I've seen a small penis that beautiful because he was confident.

As far as sex, a woman wants to be pleased. I am so fortunate, my husband has great size and knows how to use it. But likewise, we have a couple we are friends with, the husband is 5" and the sex is fantastic. We love our sex nights with them because everyone leaves extremely happy.

Trust me, your 5 1/2 is more than adequate. You MUST be confident, and you use your tools to please her.