Why some men want their wives to screw other guys?

[Hwyking]

As a man who has had many of his wife sharing fantasies play out in real life I can say nothing is as heart breakingly, gut wrenching exciting as knowing your gorgeous wife is being serviced by another guy. I would like to hear other guys and gals stories and some sort of explanation of why this is such a turn on for some of us.

 

[Justfantasies]

As a man who has had many of his wife sharing fantasies play out in real life I can say nothing is as heart breakingly, gut wrenching exciting as knowing your gorgeous wife is being serviced by another guy. I would like to hear other guys and gals stories and some sort of explanation of why this is such a turn on for some of us.

It is partly knowing your wife is desired by other men, partly a way of adding variety to sex, and partly sheer laziness. Let others do the job! In addition, it keeps the wife happy -- most women need more than one man.

 

[Hwyking]

It is partly knowing your wife is desired by other men, partly a way of adding variety to sex, and partly sheer laziness. Let others do the job! In addition, it keeps the wife happy -- most women need more than one man.

I would agree with some of that statement, the knowing your woman is desirable was a big one for me. Also I thought it would make her more confident. When I posted pics of her I loved all the comments she’d get and she loved the attention as well.

 

[Justfantasies]

I would agree with some of that statement, the knowing your woman is desirable was a big one for me. Also I thought it would make her more confident. When I posted pics of her I loved all the comments she’d get and she loved the attention as well.

I'm not allowed to post pics or videos -- wish I could.

 

[Hwyking]

I'm not allowed to post pics or videos -- wish I could.

I finally convinced my wife to let me post her pics on Voyeurweb. She’d gotten her boobs enhanced a few years before and they were really quite spectacular even though way too big for her frame. The “rate your rate” page was great. We’d get hundreds of comments from guys and women and used it as an added source of excitement to our sexual enjoyment.

 

[Justfantasies]

I finally convinced my wife to let me post her pics on Voyeurweb. She’d gotten her boobs enhanced a few years before and they were really quite spectacular even though way too big for her frame. The “rate your rate” page was great. We’d get hundreds of comments from guys and women and used it as an added source of excitement to our sexual enjoyment.

That sounds amazing, what does she look like?

 

[Hwyking]

That sounds amazing, what does she look like?

She is only 5 feet tall , very pretty, Suzanne Somer look alike. Dies her hair strawberry blonde. We were over 50 when posting but she looks better than most 30 year olds. Unfortunately we separated a few years ago. Not sure if you know how big 460 cc is but that’s the size of breast implants she got. Very nice.

 

[Justfantasies]

She is only 5 feet tall , very pretty, Suzanne Somer look alike. Dies her hair strawberry blonde. We were over 50 when posting but she looks better than most 30 year olds. Unfortunately we separated a few years ago. Not sure if you know how big 460 cc is but that’s the size of breast implants she got. Very nice.

Well she sounds great. Mine is 5’ 3” and is also strawberry blonde. 105lbs

She has videos of her and several guys, which are from college days and which she didn’t mention until recently

 

[Hwyking]

Video

Has she shared her vids with you or just keeping you in suspense?

 

[Justfantasies]

Has she shared her vids with you or just keeping you in suspense?

There are about 15 videos. I have seen about 8. They are at college with maybe five or six guys — from clothed sex, to straight misdionary, to dp

 

[Hwyking]

There are about 15 videos. I have seen about 8. They are at college with maybe five or six guys — from clothed sex, to straight misdionary, to dp

Nice, that must really get you excited.

 

[Justfantasies]

Nice, that must really get you excited.

Oh yeah!!

 

[Hwyking]

Oh yeah!!

You should post a pic on here so we can check her out.

 

[Justfantasies]

You should post a pic on here so we can check her out.

She looks a lot like Goldie Hawn, but younger

 

[twister947]

It's not that I wanted my wife to fuck other guys, SHE wanted to fuck them, and that made it hot. What I wanted was irrelevant.

 

[jackbird]

As a man who has had many of his wife sharing fantasies play out in real life I can say nothing is as heart breakingly, gut wrenching exciting as knowing your gorgeous wife is being serviced by another guy. I would like to hear other guys and gals stories and some sort of explanation of why this is such a turn on for some of us.

My first wife I shared with other guys. I am bisexual we had many mmf 3 ways till she died of cancer some years ago. It was hot 69 ing her on top getting her pussy lips spreading by a cock. Her pussy lips bright red filled with blood and the guys cock all wet veins bulging as it slides in and out. Her clit sticking out hearing her cry in please as I licked it along with his shaft. Then when he explodes in her seeing his cum in her as I lick them both knowing how much pleasure she has gotten. Nothing better for perverts like us. My new wife won't do it tells me flat out won't happen.

 

[Justfantasies]

It's not that I wanted my wife to fuck other guys, SHE wanted to fuck them, and that made it hot. What I wanted was irrelevant.

Her need to satisfy her lust is certainly very exciting

 

[bobbyinhouston]

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I have seen my wife take on many guys. It is always a turn on for me and she enjoys the variety of partners.

From one on one to several in a row she has always told me she enjoys herself. BTW I have also seen her with other ladies.not really her thing but she goes with the flow.

 

[gtnlynn]

We did it because my wife had experienced other guys before we married and had been totally faithful to me for 10 years. She was the target of lots of flirting and even invitations for sex by other quite desirable guys, most of them younger than her 35 years. We talked about it, and I told her she had my permission to have sex as long as it was just for fun and she told me all about it. She did it a few times, was satisfied that she was still desirable, and decided to stop. That was over 25 years ago, and she has been with nobody else since then.

 

[screwher]

My wife

Honestly I have no real idea why my wife having sex with other men is such a turn on. Mrs. Screwher first cheated on me many years ago. It almost ended us but soon after I found myself getting aroused by her tryst. I found myself fantasizing abiut her dong it again. Then awhile back now I noticed my wife getting a bit sexually restless and curious of other men. I knew it was then a matter of time before she dropped her panties for another man again. When she did I confessed my desires and fantasies. So we're now a hotwife couple.

So now when my wife's at a lovers place getting laid I find myself naked and hard. Stroking my cock thinking about his in my wife's pussy!!

 

[Nezhul]

Never been turned on by that idea. It just does nothing for me.

Also, a bunch of people said that it's cool knowing that your wife is desirable... why? I mean, if I find her sexy AF - that's all I need. If I somehow DON'T find her sexy, then what does it matter if some other dude does? I don't like boiled carrots despite many people eating them - and nothing changes if someone loves them.

I just don't understand the whole logic behind it.

 

[naughtoldperv]

out of the three times we tried it, she 'went along with the game' just to please me but is definitely not interested in the idea again even tho I constantly urge her to try it just one more time and I think that she is getting tired of my urginging and I WON'T beg. I want it to come from her needs/wants, or it's not as much fun for either of us.
I thoroughly enjoyed and appreciated her doing it for me and hope that her desires return, but now satisfy myself with the memory of our little shared adventures that I call our 'walk on the wild side' that lasted a couple of years out of the 17 yrs we've been married.
Me, I'm getting bored with the 'vanilla' sex that we now are in the rut of. What can I do?? Even porn gets boring..............

 

[luckyseven]

Just accept your wife wants more

It is partly knowing your wife is desired by other men, partly a way of adding variety to sex, and partly sheer laziness. Let others do the job! In addition, it keeps the wife happy -- most women need more than one man.

I thought it would make her more confident.

It's not that I wanted my wife to fuck other guys, SHE wanted to fuck them, and that made it hot.

Her need to satisfy her lust is certainly very exciting

I have seen my wife take on many guys. It is always a turn on for me and she enjoys the variety of partners.

From one on one to several in a row she has always told me she enjoys herself.

Apart from the laziness, I would agree with the above. Women, if they are honest would probably admit they enjoy variety and having multiple partners who are we (I) to disagree.

 

[jackstud]

Willingtobeused

Wants to be gangbanged by big black cock. Need your help BROS.

 

[Nezhul]

Women, if they are honest would probably admit they enjoy variety and having multiple partners who are we (I) to disagree.

I don't think it has anything to do with honesty. I'm a man, and I love one girl. I don't find other women nearly as interesting, and I don't have any urge for variety. I mean, I can fuck with a bunch of women no problem, but I would prefer having sex with her instead.

I think there are women who think like that too. Who are honestly, truthfully are attached to a single person and have no interest in others.

Will sex with another guy still feel good? Yes.
Can you feel no shame or any negativity about sleeping with another men? Yes.
Does that mean you want that variety or enjoy having it even if it comes at no cost? No.
No it doesn't.

If I could choose any flavor of ice-cream in a shop for free, and have as much variety as I want - I would still stick with one single flavor that I actually enjoy the most. I would simply be choosing it over and over even if I had options. If someone was constantly nagging me to eat other ice-cream - I could, but I would not feel better about having a variety. I would maybe eat it just to get them off my back. And I have a certain feeling, that a wife described does exactly the same.
And the honest answer here is not that I enjoy the variety - is that I enjoy only one sort of ice-cream the most, and I have the variety just because another person feels better if I do.

You may be different. Not judging. But that doesn't mean that everyone else, your wife included, are just dishonest if they say they don't want to have multiple sex partners.