Why should you give up on little-girl dreams?

[Studley]

Hi ya all,

I've read a lot of these personals - some just the "who wants to shag me NOW" ones and others a lot deeper, some even quite sad.

I'm interested in those out there who sort of go through life looking back sighing and thinking, hmm, "why isn't it like what i dreamed when i was little"

I'm of those men who's just hasn't kicked the superman drive to put the world right - surely there must be women out there with similar views, or at least those that would respect a man who does?

SO are women generally interested in still having a "little girl's" dreams where they could live these for real? How nice would it to have a man who would literally die to protect you, will hold you naked and tight in his arms with candles all around, will sit with you and argue against the scientists (we KNOW the moon is made of cheese) and when he's making hard, passionate love to you the world suddenly shrinks to having just the two of "us" in it?

Am i too old-fashioned, unrealistic or have i got something?

 

[Angelofsex]

Hi ya all,

I've read a lot of these personals - some just the "who wants to shag me NOW" ones and others a lot deeper, some even quite sad.

I'm interested in those out there who sort of go through life looking back sighing and thinking, hmm, "why isn't it like what i dreamed when i was little"

I'm of those men who's just hasn't kicked the superman drive to put the world right - surely there must be women out there with similar views, or at least those that would respect a man who does?

SO are women generally interested in still having a "little girl's" dreams where they could live these for real? How nice would it to have a man who would literally die to protect you, will hold you naked and tight in his arms with candles all around, will sit with you and argue against the scientists (we KNOW the moon is made of cheese) and when he's making hard, passionate love to you the world suddenly shrinks to having just the two of "us" in it?

Am i too old-fashioned, unrealistic or have i got something?

Little girls always have dreams of knights in white armor out there....but there isn't, it is only a dream......I don't know you fall in love then in time it is gone.....forget about feeling special.

 

[Studley]

Sad

It's extremely sad that the 9-5 of life has made you lose this dream...........

....i hate to be difficult, but i'm going to argue with you.

is this the majority view or just angel's?

 

[Wraevenn]

I am with Studley on this one...while All guys love sex and any man who tells you otherwise is either lying or has something physically or mentally wrong with them. There are still those of us out there like Studley...I loove sex...but If I am not willing to give my life for them..nothing will happen...There has to be what I call the Fatalistic kind of love. The kind that leaves you shattered with every break up...and I have had a few...all of them painful but each one worth it. If you are special to me...I will lay my life down in a heart beat. I beleive that the guys truly worthy of your love should be willing to do no less.

Wraevenn

 

[Angelofsex]

Re: Sad

It's extremely sad that the 9-5 of life has made you lose this dream...........

....i hate to be difficult, but i'm going to argue with you.

is this the majority view or just angel's?

Hon....only I could speak for myself......other ladies could be very happy with their man........I was just one that wasn't lucky......but I do have my daughter from it......so please don't take it the wrong way....it is just my feelings.

 

[Studley]

Surprised

Thank you for your replies - thank you.

I'm really surprised by the lack of people with a thought on this - and don't worry angel, i've taken nothing the wrong way.

Wraevenn - beautiful strong words about dying for one's love. Mmmm, i wish some women would trust us strong men more..... strong in the fact we are able to cope and accept emotions. Macho men, no matter how big their muscles are often the weak ones - far from being sissy to talk about emotions, cry or what have you, that's the real strength. Accepting them, dealing with them and moving on.

 

[deezire1900]

feelings

There is no knight on a white horse. Maybe a girl meets a cute guy from Texas and he has a couple of horses.

I believe in love, and power, and protection, but only from myself.

If a man is willing to die for me let him step forward!

Deezire

 

[Wraevenn]

One would have to know you in order to be willing to die for you
and from the bitterness I sense in those words I would say you wouldn't give them that chance. Give them the chance to get to know the true you and not what keeps you comfortable. Then perhaps you will meet one.

 

[snickertease]

There are other men who feel this way too, I am amongst them.

I love sex, to look at a woman, etc. but there is no magic in a hookup without meaning.

I need to care about her for the real sparks to fly.

Maybe the majority of women here have lost their belief in such a guy, and that's why they are here in the first place...?

 

[LadyWoodruff]

Hi ya all,

I've read a lot of these personals - some just the "who wants to shag me NOW" ones and others a lot deeper, some even quite sad.

I'm interested in those out there who sort of go through life looking back sighing and thinking, hmm, "why isn't it like what i dreamed when i was little"

I'm of those men who's just hasn't kicked the superman drive to put the world right - surely there must be women out there with similar views, or at least those that would respect a man who does?

SO are women generally interested in still having a "little girl's" dreams where they could live these for real? How nice would it to have a man who would literally die to protect you, will hold you naked and tight in his arms with candles all around, will sit with you and argue against the scientists (we KNOW the moon is made of cheese) and when he's making hard, passionate love to you the world suddenly shrinks to having just the two of "us" in it?

Am i too old-fashioned, unrealistic or have i got something?

You've got something.

 

[bamagirl]

I still have my dreams,no matter how badly i was hurt in the past I keep beliving my knight will one day find me.

sadly I don't think there is any in Alabama ,so if you see him will you please send him my way?

 

[Studley]

Re: feelings

There is no knight on a white horse. Maybe a girl meets a cute guy from Texas and he has a couple of horses.

I believe in love, and power, and protection, but only from myself.

If a man is willing to die for me let him step forward!

Deezire

With those eyes - you're kidding!

 

[Studley]

Re: Re: Why should you give up on little-girl dreams?

You've got something.

hi LadyWooduff ..... thank you - it's nice to know i'm not completely losing it. Elaborate please - tell us what YOU want.

 

[HoneyChick]

why do we want the white knight?

I don't think that the white knight is what I'm looking for. And probably, a lot of women think that way.
Sure, I want a guy to snuggle with, one who will sit and watch teary movies with me on a cold night. I want great sex, and I want romance as well.
I want to be able to talk to him, to argue about the philosophical things in life.
But I also want to be able to face my own challenges. If my guy were to continuously try to slay my dragons for me, where's the fun in living my own life? Instead, he's living it for me.

there has to be a very definate balance for it to work.

 

[YourBabyGirl]

Unfortunately, you have never found a truly submissive female. I am an adult chronologically but my heart is that of a little girl. I have learned as an adult that I want to be protected, coddled and cared for by one special man. In return for my Master's love and affection it is my privilege to serve Him.

I was blessed to be in such a relationship for three years with a most special and wonderful Master. We met online and began talking on the phone. We quickly learned to open up to one another and share all the darkest secrets we possessed. We could draw out the others desires - things that could not be shared with the rest of the world.

We finally met in person after communicating for six months online. Just from talking to my Master online, I had learned so much about true submission. In order to be worthy of his love and affection it was my responsibility and my desire to serve him. When we met I was not to look in His eyes until He scrutinized me and approved of me. He took me back to his hotel (we met in a city half-way between both of us) and i kneeled before Him.

I was trembling when i was exposed to Him and awaiting his approval, but i did gain His approval. He had no commitments so he eventually moved closer to me. We met every day and i have never experienced the freedom and desires that i did with him. I have never been able to share EVERYTHING the way i did with my Master. I was his little girl, His submissive and His slave. I was blessed to have Him in my life and i know that nobody will ever be able to replace Him.

We brought other females as well as males into our love and jealousy was never considered. When you share something so open and honest you are content in your feelings. It is something that is beautiful beyond words.

My advise to you is to seek a submissive who is willing to make your pleasure her prime goal. When my Master was pleased, I felt fulfilled. There are submissives out there, please look for one.

 

[Lady_Sam]

A bump for you sweetie

 

[Fly-me]

How very sad Studly. You have discovered the real meaning of what it is to be deeply in love.

And yes there are other men who think and feel the same way as you do. I am one of them. But chill experience has taught me that for women, what you speak of is a transient thing. They want what you have to give for a fleeting moment - and then 'move on' as the tinsel from somewhere else glitters and entices them away. And you are left broken hearted.

And, down through the years, you will always remember the 'Way you were' as you strove to protect, love and cherish. But will she remember? Of course she will. But it will be meaningless to her. They simply are not capable of the depth of emotion that you are referring to.

 

[Studley]

Still taking it all in...... metaphorically of course

Wow fly-me - that's a bit harsh.

I actually don't think this has anything to do with being in-love, it's not for one particular person i feel this, it's just the way I am. And my original post was to tell people they don't need to give up on these little-girl "loving to be held" feelings.


I loved the suggestion about getting a submissive - i've been a real life Master for years, though i didn't particularly agree on "yourBabyGirls" "i was not to look him in the eye" approach. A true Master/submissive relationship to me is total balanced respect, with healthy and deep desire for the role the other person has in each person's life. A Master to be true, has to truly understand emotion and weakness - anyway, don't get me started down that track!! If anyone want's to know more i'm sure they'll PM me.

So come on everyone - don't give up - find your dreams, live your fantasies, you're ALL amazing and anyone around me is not allowed to forget it! (I'll go back to taking my tablets now)

Thanks for the bump Sam

 

[Lady_Sam]

You put that very well Studley...a shame you're a continent away

 

[LadyWoodruff]

Re: Re: Re: Why should you give up on little-girl dreams?

hi LadyWooduff ..... thank you - it's nice to know i'm not completely losing it. Elaborate please - tell us what YOU want.

Thank YOU. You're not losing it at all. It's... amazingly comforting to realize there are men like you out there.

You spoke of little girl dreams... Well, the little girl in me dreams of a man who could not only hold me in his strong arms, but in his heart above all else. A man who would give no thought to defying everything, forsaking everything, for me. A man for whom that kind of love isn't a fairy story, it's a reality. A man who could be my whole world and cares for nothing in the whole world as much as being mine.

For that kind of love, there's nothing I would refuse. Even the thought of refusing would be pointless... because refusing him would be denying myself.

Do I sound too hopeless yet? LOL

 

[LadyWoodruff]

Re: Re: Re: Why should you give up on little-girl dreams?

hi LadyWooduff ..... thank you - it's nice to know i'm not completely losing it. Elaborate please - tell us what YOU want.

Thank YOU. You're not losing it at all. It's... amazingly comforting to realize there are men like you out there.

You spoke of little girl dreams... Well, the little girl in me dreams of a man who could not only hold me in his strong arms, but in his heart above all else. A man who would give no thought to defying everything, forsaking everything, for me. A man for whom that kind of love isn't a fairy story, it's a reality. A man who could be my whole world and cares for nothing in the whole world as much as being mine.

For that kind of love, there's nothing I would refuse. Even the thought of refusing would be pointless... because refusing him would be denying myself.

Do I sound too hopeless yet? LOL

 

[LadyWoodruff]

Re: Re: Re: Why should you give up on little-girl dreams?

hi LadyWooduff ..... thank you - it's nice to know i'm not completely losing it. Elaborate please - tell us what YOU want.

Thank YOU. You're not losing it at all. It's... amazingly comforting to realize there are men like you out there.

You spoke of little girl dreams... Well, the little girl in me dreams of a man who could not only hold me in his strong arms, but in his heart above all else. A man who would give no thought to defying everything, forsaking everything, for me. A man for whom that kind of love isn't a fairy story, it's a reality. A man who could be my whole world and cares for nothing in the whole world as much as being mine.

For that kind of love, there's nothing I would refuse. Even the thought of refusing would be pointless... because refusing him would be denying myself.

Do I sound too hopeless yet? LOL

 

[Studley]

Re: Re: Re: Re: Why should you give up on little-girl dreams?

Thank YOU. You're not losing it at all. It's... amazingly comforting to realize there are men like you out there.

You spoke of little girl dreams... Well, the little girl in me dreams of a man who could not only hold me in his strong arms, but in his heart above all else. A man who would give no thought to defying everything, forsaking everything, for me. A man for whom that kind of love isn't a fairy story, it's a reality. A man who could be my whole world and cares for nothing in the whole world as much as being mine.

For that kind of love, there's nothing I would refuse. Even the thought of refusing would be pointless... because refusing him would be denying myself.

Do I sound too hopeless yet? LOL

You sound far from hopeless angel, similarly it's good to see there are real women like yourself out there who understand what i'm going on about.

It seems to me there are so many women out there who are either of the "that sounds kinky, i wouldn't do that" persuation, or the opposite "i'm a slut, ALL i deserve is to be punished" - neither of which are me. I just want a woman who absolutely worships me, will do anything for me, and in return i can protect with all i am.

I've never got on with these Masters who treat their slaves like something they've trod it. If a slave is a "nothing" then why would you want them into your life. I bring a submissive into my life because they ADD to who i am. I DESIRE what they feel right to give, and i hope they desire the strength, love, ultimate closeness and protection which i long to give.

I think we're all aware that there is 9 - 5, working, eating sleeping life and then there is the life of your dreams, heart and love....... i for one have every intention of combining the two to the maximum extent possible!

xxx

 

[Wraevenn]

Well put Studley
I couldn't have said it better if i had said it better myself
Perhaps your message will reach the right person afterall.

 

[LadyWoodruff]

Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Why should you give up on little-girl dreams?

You sound far from hopeless angel, similarly it's good to see there are real women like yourself out there who understand what i'm going on about.

It seems to me there are so many women out there who are either of the "that sounds kinky, i wouldn't do that" persuation, or the opposite "i'm a slut, ALL i deserve is to be punished" - neither of which are me. I just want a woman who absolutely worships me, will do anything for me, and in return i can protect with all i am.

I've never got on with these Masters who treat their slaves like something they've trod it. If a slave is a "nothing" then why would you want them into your life. I bring a submissive into my life because they ADD to who i am. I DESIRE what they feel right to give, and i hope they desire the strength, love, ultimate closeness and protection which i long to give.

I think we're all aware that there is 9 - 5, working, eating sleeping life and then there is the life of your dreams, heart and love....... i for one have every intention of combining the two to the maximum extent possible!

xxx

It sounds like a waking, 9-5 life with a guy like you would succeed in that endeavor beautifully.