May I suggest because you are semi hiding? From reading your profile, which states you are in Georgia, there are several good gay places in Atlanta. If you are from the south, you could always go to Tallahassee, Jacksonville, or several over places. And, if you are from the extreme north, try Savanah or even Charlestown. There are more bi and gay guys out there than you can shake a penis at. Also, your profile doesn't volunteer much information. If you are looking to meet or chat with people on this site, include more. Look at my profile. I frequently get messages from like minded people as myself (both locally, and from around the world).
Good luck in your quest, but you need to be more proactive (no insult intended -- your are still young enough that you are still learning. Hope I have helped, not hurt your feelings).