why me ???

mike2382

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i have the worst luck ever with women. i treat them like they are the world to me and in the end i just get shit on. I am there for them whenever they need me for whatever reason no questions asked. this has happened to me in the past 3 relationships which have totaled 7 years. i am giving up on real relationships and i would like to find someone as a online companion. this could range from chatting to maybe some cam play whatever happens. if u are interested plz send me a pm or catch me on yahoo (mike0242003)
 
Don't give up

You know, you don't have to do everything another person wants with no questions asked in order to be loved. In fact, it often backfires because the other person will see you as a doormat and treat you accordingly. You have to respect yourself first or you won't be respected. Please don't make what's happened make you so bitter you end up treating a good woman badly.
 
i dont do everything that they want i just really try to keep them happy. they just never want to put in the same effort that i do. so thats why im looking for a online friend it might be easier without as much attachment.
 
Piss a woman off and she'll never leave. ;) You can't make someone happy if they are unhappy with themselves. Make yourself the best person you can be - and go with that.
 
coy_one said:
Piss a woman off and she'll never leave. ;) You can't make someone happy if they are unhappy with themselves. Make yourself the best person you can be - and go with that.

She's right.

Also, the Nice Guy phenomenon is at work here.
Be accomadating and nice, but don't roll over and live for that person.
Be willing to say no, and argue when necasary.
;) Don't worry though, we're all in this boat together.
 
coy_one said:
Piss a woman off and she'll never leave. ;) You can't make someone happy if they are unhappy with themselves. Make yourself the best person you can be - and go with that.
Words of wisdom.
 
nice guys do finish last so that is my curse i feel i will have to live with....oh well id rather be a nice guy then some prick
 
mike2382 said:
nice guys do finish last so that is my curse i feel i will have to live with....oh well id rather be a nice guy then some prick
Nice doesn't equal doormat. A lot of people get confused about this.

I've found that nice people generally don't have to tell people they're nice. It's made obvious through their actions.
 
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