Why me, God? What the fuck are you trying to do to me?

[riff]

Confused. Why does she suddenly become available once she is announcing she is moving to Houston and I have told her I am on relationship-sabbatical.

Does she just want a fuck buddy?

Sweet. Petite. Talented (musician and belly-dancer teacher).

Therapist has me thinking all kinds of shit. And here...

Shit! And I am a mess! I think- I need to get over it soon. But, what the point. She's moving. What just to fuck?

Therapist didn't say I couldn't fuck, just said no relationships. But I like her.

Would like to get to know her. Fucking is all good- no need to go into all of that.

These cruel cosmic jokes. And guess what- she lives next door to my platonic massage therapist friend, but after my last therapy session. I wonder just how platonic I am.

Just being honest.

Sometimes I feel like. "God, I know I am making a mistake- but mutherfuck it- I will make a mistake because I like theM."

Been there. Done that. On the other hand.... what is wrong with some fun? God knows I love it and I am good (like, who ain't).

I just get the feeling she is telling me, "Hey look... I am out of here. I like you, I want to be with you to fill the time until I leave... but I am so tired of that stuff.... and yet... I am bored. And It's nice."

What would you do?

 

[penguindance]

 

[APhil]

I'm there, man, I'm there.

 

[The Squid King]

I say go for it. I rather regret it later for blowing up in my face, than regret it for never knowing.

That's just my 2 pennies.

 

[unclej]

i'm a big believer now that not everything has to lead to a relationship and not all relationships have to "go somewhere". if you can live with being a sex object for a little bit then i say go for it and enjoy the hell out of it. i thinks that's pretty good therapy and probably cheaper than what you're used to.

 

[just pet]

If you want her, go for it. Only then will you know what you really feel. She may have bad breath and snort when she laughs, and pass wind in her sleep. Or she may lighten your day and make you smile.

 

[Wiggles]

I wouldn't do it. I'd be afraid that I'd get attatched, and then she'd leave.

But I have seperation anxiety. So, do whatever your head's telling you to do (Not your Mr. Happy).

 

[islandman]

Seems like i ask myself that question every morning...........


I say go for it. WTF, you'll at least have that. If you don't, you have nothing. What's that old saying, nothing ventured, nothing gained?

Then again, don't listen to my advice. I've got no clue what's going on............especially in the personal department.

Best of luck!

 

[Dillinger]

Honestly. Relax. Don't worry so much.

Be upfront with your friend and/or potential lover. Understand the limits of the "relationship" and HAVE FUN.

 

[miles]

I guess I don't know the whole story.
Have you already had a relationship with her?

 

[riff]

Yeah but dammnit... Does she even know what she is doing?

I wonder.

My crass opinion. She wants some nailing before she leaves, She's lonely and she knows iI am I am a nice guy.

She cooked me lunch and desert. Am I sucker?

I get the feeling she wants to be taken... which is fine and well. But I am struggling with stuff now...

Well, she wants to come over and meet my kitty and for me to cook for her. (love doing that).

But I just keep thinking- what the fuck? Why bother? So I can feel sad when she leaves? Why not just forget about it and avoid heartache altogether?

 

[Aphrodisiac]

You could tell her not to move to Houston.

Houston is simply dirty ... there is always a film of smog over the sky. The sun never seems to peak out and the traffic is so bad and did I mention the smog thing ?!?




Hope things work out and go with what you feel ... no ?

 

[riff]

I am too goddamned traditional. I love sex.. open minded about it... but I got this old fashioned streak in me. I am 39. I have had plenty of fucking. A lot. What's the diff? You- nice girl. Added to my list of non-relationships.

WTF?

 

[sunstruck]

You're thinking too much. Slow down, step back and relax. If you can look at things from a distance for a bit you're more likely to see what you should do.