Why is it...................

[tryingsumtinnew]

Why is that bi men is a huge fetish now? Is it more acceptable now? I am a bi curious guy and it seems like there is a much larger group of us then i was aware of. For me though i would want to do it with a woman present, if that makes sense. Well if anybody else feels the same or just wants to talk bout it, bump.

 

[tryingsumtinnew]

am i the only one that thinking of doing something like this is soooo hot

 

[tryingsumtinnew]

I know there are a lot of people who like this too, so let's talk about it. No need to be shy

 

[Epiphany]

I know what you mean...it's "fashionable" to be bi (or bi-curious) these days. For both men and women. I have never been with another woman, but I'd like to experience it at least once. And it would have to be in a M-F-F situation....I wouldn't have sex with another woman just for the sake of having sex with her. I'd want it to be with a guy present....and mostly for his benefit.

 

[tryingsumtinnew]

I know exactly how you feel Sara. I think it may be because sexual exploration is not as taboo as it once was

 

[Epiphany]

We live in an "anything goes" society these days...I don't think things like this are looked down upon as much anymore.

 

[tryingsumtinnew]

Oh thanx for your input Sara. Would love to hear from both sexes that are bi curious or open minded about it.

 

[tryingsumtinnew]

I still think it is more acceptable though for women to be bi then men. Hopefully we will get out of the cave and realize that this is the 21st century.

 

[Epiphany]

Unfortunately, you're right. Bi men are seen as GAY...when that's not true at all.

 

[tryingsumtinnew]

Well i guess it's just you and me Sara. LOL. Please all, pull up a chair and feel free to say whatever is on ur mind, even if you disagree. Just be polite about it.

It just seems to me that in the last five years the population of gay and bi men has soared. Myself i could never be gay, love women too much, but could be fun to explore.

 

[Lancecastor]

Not sure about this....

....but I'm bi-lingual, does that count?

Most of the bi guys I know have wound up becoming exclusively male-on-male oriented in time, whereas most of the bi women I know have gotten married to a nice bankerboy with one of those flip hairdos and moved to the suburbs to make babies and listen to EZRock within a year.

That's a sample of maybe a few dozen 20-something university educated types in the downtown core of a city of 6 million or so, so it may not be indicative of anything more than post university stunted teenage rebellion....dunno.

I know I still like grrls...they're soft and curvy and have interlocking parts with mine and I think that's just yummy.

For me.

Your mileage may vary. Professional driver, closed course. Dont try this at home. Obey all speed laws. Wear a helmet. Drink responsibly. But drink.

Cheers et Bonsoir;
Lancelot A. Castors, Esq.

 

[tryingsumtinnew]

Well thanx for your input and being polite. I know for me it would be a pure sexual experience, i could never have feelings for a man in that way. Pretty funny by the way!

 

[tryingsumtinnew]

Would still love to hear from bi and bi curious women too.........

 

[zetacon4]

Hey! Thanks for sending me an invite!

I am a guy that has just recently discovered my interest in cock.
I have always enjoyed seeing other guys' tools. And love to watch them on porno flicks get sucked and fucked.
It was not until I joined Lit. that I began to fantasize about having a threesome MMF. There seemed to be so many fun experiments that my mind thought up to do with the guy in or around the girl.
Then, I kept reading all the juicy posts by women on how much they loved sucking cock. And realized that I would like to experience that too.
So here I am. Call me whatever you like. I don't consider myself gay, as I don't really want an exclusive emotional experience with another guy. Just would like to have some fun in a group setting.
And one of the things that has helped me discover this point is that I am rather kinky in the things I enjoy concerning sex and sensuality. I also would enjoy hearing more from guys on this and getting feedback.

 

[Bimale]

Interesting line of thought going on in here! I'm a bi-male with very limited experience, guess you could call it moderate petting, but would love to go further. My wife sometimes fucks me with a strap-on (which I still find weird, but excruciatingly fulfilling) and would love to watch me suck another man while I fuck her or have me lick her clit while she is being fucked. I don't mind sharing her but we have no idea where to look for bi-sexual men in the UK. The swinger-scene is predominantly straight male/bi-female while my wife is not really bi-curious so that's not an option. Does anyone have any suggestions?

 

[jdjason2000]

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[Lancecastor]

There was some talk...

...at the outset of this thread which posed a quaere as to why was it that male bi-sexuality was becoming more "popular".

At first, it looked to me like the thread starter was simply trying to hit on a chik by being all heep and chic with his bi-wanna-be/try thoughts, so, to mix a metaphor (look out! dont get none onya! here it cums...) I posted a mildly silly poke at the subject and blew it off.

I'm not sure that this "straight guys trying the bi thing" is taking off or will grow in popular culture with the same fervour as the whole b-curious/experiment thang has been for young women (in particular) in the past ten years...simply because there is stronger demand in popular media for 5'7 blonde grrls with 36C tatas and shaved genitals for whatever the equivalent MaleBiUnit is or will be....unless it's that young Iglasiass fellow....but he's mostly stealing straight women's hearts....or at least taking their breath away. But I digress.

However, I did read something somewhere recently (cant recall the source, sorry) that suggested that there is indeed a quantifiable blip in bi-male interest amongst straight guys, with the main interest apparently being in wanting to go down on another guy.

Simply put, it seems that straight guys wanna suck.

I figure that's easy enough to understand....after all, most women just don't have a penis. And most guys like receiving oral. So, it follows perhaps that sucking would eventually become popular as a try-it before you buy-it toe in the pool or experiment.

If you read the posts in this thread, there'sa pretty goodchance that these guys will try it at some point, check it off their Big List, and move on to a close personal relationship with a goat or whatever pop media tells next is hot.

WAIT!!!!....Back to the shaved lesbian blondes though, before you get your goat fantasy going....

Surely you've all noticed the glaring shortage of really hot 5'7 shaved 36C blonde bi-grrrls needed in North America for couples, bi-curious women and guys wanting two (2) shaved blondes, right? Everybody wants one, nobody seems to have them in stock.....

Here's what I think: If the GuysWantingToTrySucking thing continues to build up steam, the only way it will translate into popular culture as an accepted activity like BiGrrls have will be if those same 5'7 shaved blondes with the 36C's....

.....get penises.

Because I think the research isgoingto soon point to this:

Most guys would really prefer a blonded shaved hermaphrodite with DualGenitals(tm).

And big tatas.

THAT's how you make the (w)hole Bi-Guyhang really take off , lads.

 

[Ukin]

I know what you mean...it's "fashionable" to be bi (or bi-curious) these days. For both men and women. I have never been with another woman, but I'd like to experience it at least once. And it would have to be in a M-F-F situation....I wouldn't have sex with another woman just for the sake of having sex with her. I'd want it to be with a guy present....and mostly for his benefit.

Sara: What a wonderful lady you are to contemplate doing that for the man in your life. To most men, if not all, that would be a tremendous present for the guy involved.

 

[tryingsumtinnew]

wow, i'm really happy with all the responses. I personally haven't tried anything.....yet. I feel the same way though, prefer women, just want to experience something different i guess.

 

[intrigued]

gathering my courage............

here goes......
I don't know why, other than all that has already been said. But I too...am curious. Thats all, merely curious. The problem is, it would only be for the sake of pleasure, and that goes against everything that is "me".
I only want to know the experience of oral with another woman. No relationship...no need for a woman...just for that "taste". I love the way I taste....I love the vagina. Mine just isn't as accessible to me as anothers would be. How erotic that would be....
But, .....but......but.

 

[Lancecastor]

Just For The Taste Of It !

Intrigued....You've touched upon a notion that pops up now and then...the concept of going down on yourself.

Talk about away to get people back into the gym...and back into shape!

A whole generation of UberFlexers...SelfLickers...OrthapaedicSuckBraces...what an industry!

A new phrase....MyCurious???

The ensuant flexibility alone would make anyone practising the craft tres populaire, je crois...

All you need to do is look up the exercises on Google, get permission from Coke to use "Just For the Taste of It" ....and you're on your way to fame, fortune....and all the oral sex you can handle!

Where do I sign?

Lance "Bend Me, Shape Me, Anyway I Want Me" Castor
Amateur Visionary

 

[intrigued]

Re: Just For The Taste Of It !

Intrigued....You've touched upon a notion that pops up now and then...the concept of going down on yourself.

Talk about away to get people back into the gym...and back into shape!

A whole generation of UberFlexers...SelfLickers...OrthapaedicSuckBraces...what an industry!

A new phrase....MyCurious???

The ensuant flexibility alone would make anyone practising the craft tres populaire, je crois...

All you need to do is look up the exercises on Google, get permission from Coke to use "Just For the Taste of It" ....and you're on your way to fame, fortune....and all the oral sex you can handle!

Where do I sign?

Lance "Bend Me, Shape Me, Anyway I Want Me" Castor
Amateur Visionary

Thats not exactly what I said....or all that I meant.

 

[jdjason2000]

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[Lancecastor]

Correct...

Absolutely correct...it's not exactly what you said, nor all that you meant.

You touched it....quite fleetingly really...brushed up against it for but a few words.

And instead of seeing you with another woman, I saw you with yourself....

And from there...well, it wasn't so very long before I saw everyone doing it, a craze sweeping the nation.

But I thought you should own the rights to it, because, well, it did come from you. Sort of. Kinda. (help!)

I think I need more ether....

Lance Castor

 

[tryingsumtinnew]

Well intrigued I enjoyed your insight and i'm sure many others have as well. Anybody have anti-viral software for Lit? Not sure why others have to bash people for their fantisies or desires. Insecurity would be my guess though. Keep em coming, I find everybodies desires and ideas helpful and I bet i'm not the only one