why is it that

[Guest]

guys almost always get totally turned on by watching two women together but women dont almost always get turned on by watching two men together?


i mean i know there are expections to the rule and i know i'm being stereotypical. but still. whats the deal?

 

[Guest]

guys almost always get totally turned on by watching two women together but women dont almost always get turned on by watching two men together?


i mean i know there are expections to the rule and i know i'm being stereotypical. but still. whats the deal?

Maybe the guys dream of being invited in?

Actually, I don't get that turned on my watching two women together, although I don't get turned off watching it.

 

[scheherazade_79]

Personally? Because the female body is a lot more beautiful to look at.

Asked a straight guy once what the fascination with lesbians was. Turned out it isn't the psychological equivalent of rocket science after all. His explanation was pretty simple:

"It's like beer. If you have one pint in front of you, it's good. If you have two pints, it's even better."

 

[Guest]

"It's like beer. If you have one pint in front of you, it's good. If you have two pints, it's even better."

so why's it not the same then for straight women who see two guys together?

 

[Guest]

Maybe the guys dream of being invited in?

why's it not the womens dream of being invited in with two guys?

 

[scheherazade_79]

so why's it not the same then for straight women who see two guys together?

Women prefer drinking wine?

 

[galaxygoddess]

To me, it's one of the strangest double standards, but two beautiful girls together is hot because, it's two beautiful girls.

I personally have said "wouldn't it be a turn off because they don't want you?" and I got the response of "who cares if I get to join? I just like seeing it."

 

[FatDino]

Personally? Because the female body is a lot more beautiful to look at.

Asked a straight guy once what the fascination with lesbians was. Turned out it isn't the psychological equivalent of rocket science after all. His explanation was pretty simple:

"It's like beer. If you have one pint in front of you, it's good. If you have two pints, it's even better."

But can't the same argument be made for two guys?

 

[FatDino]

Women prefer drinking wine?

Then two glasses of wine???

 

[scheherazade_79]

But can't the same argument be made for two guys?

When guys get it on it's rougher, harder... not as spellbinding to watch.

I dunnow.

I've seen two guys in rl, but never two girls...

 

[FatDino]

When guys get it on it's rougher, harder... not as spellbinding to watch.

I dunnow.

I've seen two guys in rl, but never two girls...

But isn't that what women who like men want? The roughness?

 

[scheherazade_79]

But isn't that what women who like men want? The roughness?

Is it?

I really have no idea. 90% of my ex boyfriends turned out gay.

 

[Nirvanadragones]

When guys get it on it's rougher, harder... not as spellbinding to watch.

I don't see it that way. I find it a huge turn on, watching two men make love. Ofcourse there's the passion, but there's a level of intimacy, that I don't often see between a man and a woman.

 

[galaxygoddess]

Because, let's face it, the male body is.... errm.. kinda gross.

No offense men, but think hard about the first two guys who pop into your head and think about two girls? You instantly imagine hairy chubby guys, who sigularly might turn you on, but two of them and you get nauseous.


It's the way our mind is programmed.

However:
http://www.deviantart.com/deviation/38062556/
You gotta admit that's kinda hot.

But it's a matter of "ideal beauty" over "real beauty" It's hard to explain.



I also think it's on a mental level. You can think of two girls together as just friends or like sisters or such (not incest, you know what i mean) but you see two guys as your uncle and your dad and it's like "ewwwwwww"

 

[FatDino]

Is it?

I really have no idea. 90% of my ex boyfriends turned out gay.

That's what I wanted, sometimes, with my ex boyfriends.

Don't you have any straight female friends to ask about this?

Mine just said "ewwww."

 

[scheherazade_79]

I don't see it that way. I find it a huge turn on, watching two men make love. Ofcourse there's the passion, but there's a level of intimacy, that I don't often see between a man and a woman.

This is going to complicate things now... But maybe there's a difference to two guys having sex and two guys making love.

 

[Guest]

I don't see it that way. I find it a huge turn on, watching two men make love. Ofcourse there's the passion, but there's a level of intimacy, that I don't often see between a man and a woman.

yea but you dont count cause youre the biggest slut i know

 

[scheherazade_79]

That's what I wanted, sometimes, with my ex boyfriends.

Don't you have any straight female friends to ask about this?

Mine just said "ewwww."

I've got two bi female friends who often fantasise about watching their boyfriends getting it on together. So I guess it's not uncommon.

 

[Linyari]

Eh, I'm aroused by both?

I remember asking a bunch of guys in high school (when I was in high school) what the attraction was about two girls together. The answer was almost always:

"One naked girl? Good thing. Two naked girls? Even better."

Granted, most guys I know now say it doesn't do anything for them if they know they really are lesbians. Because lesbians don't want you and don't want you watching either.

That said, while I'm female, I'm not straight and I'm insanely aroused by watching two men together. I'm so sad that my husband is straight because I'll never get to watch it in person.

 

[impressive]

guys almost always get totally turned on by watching two women together but women dont almost always get turned on by watching two men together?


i mean i know there are expections to the rule and i know i'm being stereotypical. but still. whats the deal?

Watching guys go at it totally turns me on.

 

[Nirvanadragones]

yea but you dont count cause youre the biggest slut i know

In your dreams, Sweetheart.

 

[Sapphire_O]

I don't know, but I think in a couple generations there won't be a difference. I'm on a website (aarinfantasy) that is devoted to boy's love anime. And there are thousands of girls on there who are crazy about boy-on-boy. They follow gay boy bands and draw dirty gay pictures and write gay fanfiction.

There are lots of other sites with m/m fanfiction like Buffy characters, star trek, x-files...

And on youtube you can watch emo-boys make out. lol

But I've never met an older woman who feels (or admits) she is arroused by the idea.

 

[FatDino]

I've got two bi female friends who often fantasise about watching their boyfriends getting it on together. So I guess it's not uncommon.

My two straight roomies don't fantasize that. And I've never fantasized watching any two guys having sex.

 

[Guest]

ok now i'm arroused by thinking about imp and vana together watching two guys getting it on.

does that render my question null and void???

 

[scheherazade_79]

ok now i'm arroused by thinking about imp and vana together watching two guys getting it on.

does that render my question null and void???

No, because everyone knows damn well which direction you'd be looking!