Why is it that I cant learn my lesson?

[likearabbit]

Well I'm sitting at work with no one to talk to about this so Im just going to rattle this off.

Im the kind of person that is shall we say... intense. By this I mean that everything I do is to the fullest extreme and to be completly honest.... it gets me in trouble, trouble with my girfriend that lives with me. About two weeks ago I got really drunk with friends and passed out at a buddies place. I didnt call or anything. I dont know why....its not something that is hard to do, I was simply too drunk to think about this sort of thing. She was really upset with me, and for good reason. I said sorry a million times... I felt really bad. She was up all night worrying about me. She thought the worst, an accident or whatever. She has good reason to think such things cause like I stated before, I am a bit on the wild side sometimes. Well to make a long story short... I had some friends in town last night... and I did it again. I got too drunk... and fell asleep at a friends place. I have yet to speak with my girlfriend... I have called her about five times. I think I may have lost her. Im pretty bummed out right now. Please... just give me some advice... I need it right now.

 

[DirtyKitten]

I'm not trying to be rude at all, so please don't take it that way, but it sounds like you need to grow up.

If you know you get out of control and don't handle your responsibilities when you drink, don't drink.

Get your priorities straight, whats more important, being out with your friends or home with this girl you live with.

All I'm really saying is, know your limits and choose whats more important you.

Good Luck sweety.

 

[Pearljwah]

I'm not trying to be rude at all, so please don't take it that way, but it sounds like you need to grow up.

If you know you get out of control and don't handle your responsibilities when you drink, don't drink.

Get your priorities straight, whats more important, being out with your friends or home with this girl you live with.

All I'm really saying is, know your limits and choose whats more important you.

Good Luck sweety.

hmm, at the same time....if she doesnt want to be with him because of this, doesnt sound like the relationship is THAT important to her either. Sounds like a bit of a control issue going on...

 

[likearabbit]

Well I do understand that I should call out of respect. That being said... we are VERY different. I build custom hotrods... listen to punk rock and have lots of tatoos. She works for IBM Canada, wears a suit... really does not drink...yada yada yada. One of the reasons I am with her is because I do want to slow down a bit. But... I do relaps sometimes. This upsets her. The thing is, I dont want a girl that is just like me.... it only leads to trouble and I have been down that road before. I need someone that keeps me in check. But I guess when it comes down to it... she will only put up with so much. Ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh!!!! Im such a retard!

 

[RawHumor]

Not to sound like a fortune cookie, but she can only help you as much as you want to be helped.

You're an adult. She can't make you slow down - she can only inspire you to do so. The rest is up to you.

 

[likearabbit]

Not to sound like a fortune cookie, but she can only help you as much as you want to be helped.

You're an adult. She can't make you slow down - she can only inspire you to do so. The rest is up to you.

You know what.... thats the best advice I have ever gotten! Thanks~