As much as I intrinsically disagree with encouraging yet another woman to climb over that sexual fence and perhaps leave our team forever, have you tried the G-BLT(sandwich) personals? I think you would not be lacking female attentions for long if you were to whimper in that direction.
I find, as a man, that women are very approchable here on Lit, as everyone here has to open their mind just that much farther just being here. If you see someone you like, just send off your appreciation in one of the many ways the internet, and even Lit itself, allows. Dont be afraid to make the first move, and not just in general, like this thread, but specifically with the woman you want to nibble on.