why I like older men...

[thiscouldbtricky]

lol, I've just figured it out... let me know if I'm just slow to catch on.
I've noticed, a lot more recently actually than I did before, this rather large difference between younger men and older ones. I notice it hanging around here a lot... The younger men as general rule, feel like they have something to prove and it shows... much more than you might think... And women can tell, we notice these things.
I'm pretty young, but that's why I like older men better- They don't feel this need to share with me right off how big their cock is, or how long they can go down on me, or how many times they can make me cum in an hour. I don't want to hear about all that when you first talk to me, and I'm sure most of you ladies are the same way.
I enjoy talking about sex... But I don't like it when these younger guys over-compensate for their lack of confidence, and blow me away with their cocky attitudes.
Granted, not all young guys are like that... and some older guys still are. But it's a trend that I notice more so now than I ever did.
Just thought some of you might like to know... for future reference with ANY woman.

 

[big jon]

You are probarly right, Iam 34 so iam not sure if that makes me old or not in your book, and I do engage in a bit of light hearted sexual banter with a few women on the boards, but there is nothing like having a decent intelligent conversation with someone.
Getting to know what they like and dont like, this also helps in the "real" world cause you wouldnt just walk up to someone and get your cock out and say " how about some".

 

[nightplease]

Older man, maturing like a good wine

Hi, I agree with you, I love to flirt with girls, not blatantly exude sexuality. Sensual and erotic is good after a period of simple getting to know you. E mail me if you would like to explore this further

 

[Softouch911]

I agree also, and even think the same thing holds true for women -- in general I'm not interested in women under age 35, not for reasons of physical beauty but because of their maturity and understanding in a relationship. They are more open and comfortable with themselves .... as a result, generally more fun in and out of bed.

 

[LeahLo519]

You know how I can tell? Only the young ones PM me.

 

[rcuhljr]

Yeah.. young guys get no respect.

 

[Jonny G]

well said leah......and trickyv...! in 40...and in my prime

 

[thiscouldbtricky]

Sure... young guys get plenty of respect... when they earn it. Same goes for anyone else. It's not just given sweetheart!

 

[thesafety]

i hope i fall into the older category

this may be one time that i like being a little older. i'm only 26, but i think that qualifies me as older for this thread. at least the description fits. getting to know someone before "getting to know someone" is always a nice way to go. i'm always just as happy to have a regular conversation with a little flirting thrown in as a sexy one. as a future phys. ed teacher and current varsity football coach, i liked your posts on the teacher thread too, tricky. maybe we could chat on aol messenger sometime.

 

[rcuhljr]

Sure... young guys get plenty of respect... when they earn it. Same goes for anyone else. It's not just given sweetheart!

Just seems like sticking them all with the label means they are starting at a disadvantage, sure some (if not many) young guys are annoying and out to prove something, but it's easy as hell to spot them, I don't see why you sequester your search to a smaller spectrum (older men) simply because a larger proportion of young guys are asshats. dunno don't like being lumped into a group I don't identify with.

 

[gldflcn]

Thank you....

Sure... young guys get plenty of respect... when they earn it. Same goes for anyone else. It's not just given sweetheart!

I wanted to send you a quick thank you for all theolder men out there that are glad to get some positive press.....I was beginning to think that once we turned 29 or older women were done with us.....

 

[thiscouldbtricky]

Just seems like sticking them all with the label means they are starting at a disadvantage, sure some (if not many) young guys are annoying and out to prove something, but it's easy as hell to spot them, I don't see why you sequester your search to a smaller spectrum (older men) simply because a larger proportion of young guys are asshats. dunno don't like being lumped into a group I don't identify with.

Notice I said general rule baby.... if you don't feel you belong there, then you probably do not. I think that the men that I am "lumping" into that category know who they are, though they would never admit that to anyone, maybe not even themselves... But they know.
Sorry if I got your goat sweetheart

 

[Abner Devereaux]

You have every right to say what you want to. It is a shame that some of those young guys you speak of never grow up or change.

The same can be said for the ladies out there too.

It may take some time to find the right one. I feel that it is all worth it when you do find that special person.

 

[His_pita]

You know how I can tell? Only the young ones PM me.

Not always. I met the love of my life through a PM and he is older then me.

 

[thiscouldbtricky]

Y'know.... I was thinking. I wanted to clarify that less experience is NOT a bad thing. It's more moldable... muahahaha....

 

[MT_Pitcher]

Y'know.... I was thinking. I wanted to clarify that less experience is NOT a bad thing. It's more moldable... muahahaha....

That was my thought.....

 

[thiscouldbtricky]

That was my thought.....

While inexperience IS more moldable... I prefer my men to be molded already... pre-molded so to speak, lol But only into someone who fits with me.
He is firm where I am soft... Strong where I am weak, and rough where I am smooth... Knows what I want when I don't, treats me gently when I'm deserving, and makes sure I learn from my mistakes.
So if he knows how to do all that already, then I suppose I don't need him to be so much older

 

[Softouch911]

Y'know.... I was thinking. I wanted to clarify that less experience is NOT a bad thing. It's more moldable... muahahaha....

Inexperience can be molded only when it wants to be. Now if the young fella is submissive, it's likely. But I agree with your original position -- it takes some age to get a guy to the point where he's willing to flex more than his muscles.

Just as it takes some age to get women to the point where they are able to be in a relationship without worrying what they look like and what other people are thinking of them all the time.

In general, of course

 

[thiscouldbtricky]

Inexperience can be molded only when it wants to be. Now if the young fella is submissive, it's likely. But I agree with your original position -- it takes some age to get a guy to the point where he's willing to flex more than his muscles.

Just as it takes some age to get women to the point where they are able to be in a relationship without worrying what they look like and what other people are thinking of them all the time.

In general, of course

Agreed

 

[WIZBANG]

lol, I've just figured it out... let me know if I'm just slow to catch on.
I've noticed, a lot more recently actually than I did before, this rather large difference between younger men and older ones. I notice it hanging around here a lot... The younger men as general rule, feel like they have something to prove and it shows... much more than you might think... And women can tell, we notice these things.
I'm pretty young, but that's why I like older men better- They don't feel this need to share with me right off how big their cock is, or how long they can go down on me, or how many times they can make me cum in an hour. I don't want to hear about all that when you first talk to me, and I'm sure most of you ladies are the same way.
I enjoy talking about sex... But I don't like it when these younger guys over-compensate for their lack of confidence, and blow me away with their cocky attitudes.
Granted, not all young guys are like that... and some older guys still are. But it's a trend that I notice more so now than I ever did.
Just thought some of you might like to know... for future reference with ANY woman.

Do you like older guys because they know how to use ther cocks a please a woman like you is that right tell me how you like fucked by older guys do you like his cock to be big small or plump which do you like ?

 

[thiscouldbtricky]

Do you like older guys because they know how to use ther cocks a please a woman like you is that right tell me how you like fucked by older guys do you like his cock to be big small or plump which do you like ?

I would tell you...
But I won't.

 

[MT_Pitcher]

Do you like older guys because they know how to use ther cocks a please a woman like you is that right tell me how you like fucked by older guys do you like his cock to be big small or plump which do you like ?

An excellent example of what too many younger men think of.

Sex begins in the mind!!! Not a body part!

 

[thiscouldbtricky]

An excellent example of what too many younger men think of.

Sex begins in the mind!!! Not a body part!

Well put sweetheart!

 

[rcuhljr]

An excellent example of what too many younger men think of.

Sex begins in the mind!!! Not a body part!

I think the mind is a body part (ok it's more of an abstract concept, but the brain is)

 

[WIZBANG]

An excellent example of what too many younger men think of.

Sex begins in the mind!!! Not a body part!

Yes i agree but some woman just don`t like you unless you have a big thick cock to get there rocks off