Why Drinking to Excess is Disrespectful to my Top...

[curiouslyanon]

I have recently learned about the negative consequences of drinking, and I am writing this in the hopes that other submissives will learn from my own mistakes. Please consider the consequences before you drink yourself into a stupor...

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Don’t Drink and Drive. It’s a common mantra for our society whenever alcohol consumption is discussed. It’s a rule in place to keep you out of jail, correct? Yes, of course, but, more importantly, it’s a rule in place to keep you safe, to keep you alive, to keep you from harming yourself as well as from harming those around you.
When I drink to the point of not being able to recognize my surroundings, not being able to stand without assistance, or not being able to recite my own address much less tell you what day of the week it is, I become not only a danger to myself and those around me, but I also lose my ability to consent. Putting my mind and body in such a state removes my availability to my Top. My Mistress. The person whom I have willingly and gladly submitted my being to is no longer able to use me as She sees fit.
While I was on my fourth Vodka Cranberry (which, honestly, was more of a Vodka Vodka than anything else at that point), and two shots of Jägermeister into my evening, should my Top have had need of my body, I would not have been in a state to give her the dedication and the focus that She deserved. Such a state of unavailability is not only unacceptable but incredibly disrespectful to the person who takes such good care of me. Someone who only has my best interests in mind should be allotted the proper level of respect and consideration that She herself offers to me every day.
Aside from not being accessible while intoxicated, drinking to excess also opens my body up to possible lasting damage. As my body belongs to Her, it is selfish, careless, and grossly disrespectful on my part to risk putting Her body in a situation where it could become permanently harmed.
The punishment that She allotted was deserved. My actions were stupid, inconsiderate, and lacked the proper respect that She should receive from me. I encourage others to learn from my own mistakes and to think before impairing your bodies in such a way that creates a barrier between you and the person you’ve submitted to. It is rude and completely unacceptable.
I intend to learn from my misjudgment and once again offer my sincere apologies to my Mistress.
It won’t happen again.

 

[MrHappy212]

Did your Top care for you while you were drunk? If so you should probably mention the strain you put him/her under while you were not being yourself. The time spent holding your hair out of the toilet, the clean up the next morning...etc. Sorry, forgive me, it was a lovely apology and I am an asshat.


A trick that worked with me is to limit the number of drinks you can consume each day. Find your limit and then count backwards until you find a balance between "feeling good" and falling all over the place. There is nothing wrong with being a little tipsy, unless your Dom absolutely forbids alcohol then your in trouble either way...

 

[curiouslyanon]

No, no. Not at all. Thank you for your reply.

My Top was not physically present for the event, but had she been, I am confident that I would have been thoroughly cared for. I caused her stress during with messages about what was happening and stress after by being hungover, and I have already apologized for both; however, you are absolutely correct in stating that I may need to publicly apologize for both. Thank you.

Let this be an addendum to my first message with a sincere apology to my Top for how inconsiderate I was with how I acted that night. My actions were unacceptable and incredibly rude, and I regret that I put her in a state of stress where it was completely unnecessary. Her care after was lovely and greatly appreciated. Once again, I am sorry.

And, yes. I have already planned out my drinking better. That night was very much out of the ordinary, but it was still deliberate. I have been forbidden shots which, honestly, can only be a good thing...

Thank you again for your reply.

 

[docile_dancer]

...
The punishment that She allotted was deserved. My actions were stupid, inconsiderate, and lacked the proper respect that She should receive from me. I encourage others to learn from my own mistakes and to think before impairing your bodies in such a way that creates a barrier between you and the person you’ve submitted to. It is rude and completely unacceptable.
I intend to learn from my misjudgment and once again offer my sincere apologies to my Mistress.
It won’t happen again.

And was this part of your punishment? Assuming that you met someone in person since you were searching for someone a couple of weeks ago, that is...

 

[curiouslyanon]

And was this part of your punishment? Assuming that you met someone in person since you were searching for someone a couple of weeks ago, that is...

It was, yes.

 

[Y_Ddraig]

It is a lovely apology baby girl. Very thoughtful and introspective.

I accept.