why doesn`t any girls answer my posts?

[HARDKOREBJ]

hi,everybody why doesn`t any girls answer my post.im a very nice guy.i just want to find that special somone to be with and grow old with.is it so wrong to want to find love.before i can find love i just want to know what to do if i get the chance.i`ve never did anything of the sexually nature.i may not be rich.im hard-working,honest,nice.what else is there i can do to get some attention.i have a great smile.i a very handsome guy.
EXTREMEBOBBYJ@WORLDNET.ATT.NET










life is short have fun in the sun.

 

[TinaG13]

Did you remember to use your deodorant?

 

[Willing and Unsure]

umm.... maybe you should reply to some of the ones you've made....

 

[Guest]

maybe deep inside all that manly fur you are a homosexual?

 

[Mischka]

First, calm down. Women don't like the smell of desperation.

Second, quit looking for your everlasting love on-line. People have done it, but it sounds like you're new at love in general. Try real life interactions first.

Third, quit looking for your everlasting love. Period. If you solely concentrate on finding The One, you will pass over many rewarding relationships, with flawed but fascinating people. You are young. Live life, have fun, absorb yourself in things you like to do. Confidence and happiness are enormously attractive. To anyone.

Fourth, be honest with yourself. Are you really looking for love right now? You claim to be shy and looking for The One, but you name yourself HARDKOREBJ and your address is EXTREMEBOBBYJ. Inherent contradictions there, bud.

It's cliche, but you will find love when you stop looking. (I did.) So get off-line, get out, surround yourself with people, and live.

 

[~melia~]

what she said...

First,
Online is probably not the place to look for love. Sure it can work, but it is rare. Usually the most you will get are some really good friends.

If you insist on searching online, go to the chats provided by your internet provider (yahoo,aol, etc). I personally know some people who met at Love@aol who are happily married. You can chat with people who live close to you and have similar interests.

Also, like many, I would suggest changing your user name. HARDKOREBJ is not very attractive to most women, and is most likely the reason your posts have few responses.

Trust me, if you stop looking, love will find you. Maybe not tomorrow, or even next week, but it will happen.

I used to be in the same situation. I was lonely and depressed. One day I decided to just stop hoping. I decided to get my life in order and take care of me, and it just happened.

Just chill out and go with the flow. You seem like a really nice guy, and I know "she" is out there. Might even be someone you already know, "he"was.

Don't worry so much. Stop trying to find her, she will find you.

 

[TygerEyez]

"i`ve never did anything of the sexually nature."

And yet your name is Hard Core Blowjob?

*grins*

Gotta vote with CurlyGirl on the name change.

That or you're just too good to be true. Great smile, handsome guy, just looking to grow old with someone... someone that perfect makes me feel bad...

Don't take that the wrong way... I'm not being derotagory, at all. Just honest.

^.*.^

 

[Laurel]

Third, quit looking for your everlasting love. Period. If you solely concentrate on finding The One, you will pass over many rewarding relationships, with flawed but fascinating people. You are young. Live life, have fun, absorb yourself in things you like to do. Confidence and happiness are enormously attractive. To anyone.

Brilliant advice, for everyone. I know so many women who are so busy preoccupied with looking for a man to make them happy that they come across as insecure wrecks and end up attracting the exact opposite of what they're looking for. Be happy on your own first and the rest will follow.

 

[Expertise]

From the couch of Dr. Expertise

I am sinking dat de virst ting you should do is improve your gram-mah.

 

[TinaG13]

Re: From the couch of Dr. Expertise

I am sinking dat de virst ting you should do is improve your gram-mah.

LOL!! You sound more like Dr. Ruth!

 

[Tabby432]

What they said. Plus, stop trying to buy women. Nothing says desperate louder than that.

 

[Expertise]

Mission accomplished