Why does this turn me on so much?

[Gumby11747]

I'm a primarily straight WM, 47 but lately I have started to have a burning desire to submit sexually to another man. I do not find men physically attractive, like I do women. I do not know what prompted this but I find the thought of a superior male using me sexually really turns me on. I have read many stories of men being dominated by other men and I do believe that I would find it humiliating to be used but for some reason it gets me hard as a rock and turned on like nothing else. I have been fantasizing about it constantly lately. In my fantasies, I am stripped naked and felt up. Sometimes, I'm forced to my knees and forced to suck him to completion. Other times, I'm bent over a table and my ass is toyed with, lubed up and penetrated with fingers, toys and eventually, his cock.
In my fantasies, it is usually an older guy who takes charge and tells me what he wants me to do. I have no desire to be romantic with another man. The thought of kissing, holding hands or anything like that does nothing for me. Why does the though of being fucked like a woman by another guy turn me on so much?

 

[Trimjob69]

I'm a primarily straight WM, 47 but lately I have started to have a burning desire to submit sexually to another man. I do not find men physically attractive, like I do women. I do not know what prompted this but I find the thought of a superior male using me sexually really turns me on. I have read many stories of men being dominated by other men and I do believe that I would find it humiliating to be used but for some reason it gets me hard as a rock and turned on like nothing else. I have been fantasizing about it constantly lately. In my fantasies, I am stripped naked and felt up. Sometimes, I'm forced to my knees and forced to suck him to completion. Other times, I'm bent over a table and my ass is toyed with, lubed up and penetrated with fingers, toys and eventually, his cock.
In my fantasies, it is usually an older guy who takes charge and tells me what he wants me to do. I have no desire to be romantic with another man. The thought of kissing, holding hands or anything like that does nothing for me. Why does the though of being fucked like a woman by another guy turn me on so much?

Yep. I understand.

 

[Thenewerpenguin]

Can totally relate. Not sure why or what it is (actually I have a few theories, but maybe next time). It's just this carnal desire to give myself to another man sexually and in no other way.

 

[LeatherChaps]

Waaa Ha Ha Ha Ha!

 

[Learningboy]

Give in

45 MWM...100percent understand and want the SAME!!!

 

[emap]

Oh lord men.

Probably shouldn't give explanation because you just want to get your rocks off, but what the hell. Sexuality is fluid, some people when they first start wanting sex only want the same sex. Later on they can decide the opposite sex isn't so bad. Later than that they may lose attraction to same sex.

Same thing happens to every person, not always starting with the same sex. What fucks people over is society and religion, which is the same thing basically. Most people think that wanting the same sex is bad and wrong so you can't. So gay men and women listen and ignore what they actually want. Later on in life they can stop giving a fuck and do what they want to do in the first place.

In your case, you may have listened to society and are stopping giving a fuck. See what you are getting rock hard over is a gals rape fantasy. It's not actually a rape because we enjoy it, it's a ravishment fantasy which is exactly what you have. In other words you may actually like men for sex. You may not as well the human mind is one fucked up thing.

You may just want to try that. You may have pressure to get the job done by telling others to do things. CEOs have a dominatrix on average for a reason. Having complete control is hard on a person so they need a release. Sexual submission is fun and frees your mind from the stresses of the day. Housewives are known to be submissive to the husband, or toss the kids at him and take a long bath. Same thing.

Doesn't mean there is anything wrong with you. Listen to your head and find a master, or not. Sometimes it's better to just stay a fantasy.

 

[MoleskineScribbler]

I'm a primarily straight WM, 47 but lately I have started to have a burning desire to submit sexually to another man. I do not find men physically attractive, like I do women. I do not know what prompted this but I find the thought of a superior male using me sexually really turns me on. I have read many stories of men being dominated by other men and I do believe that I would find it humiliating to be used but for some reason it gets me hard as a rock and turned on like nothing else. I have been fantasizing about it constantly lately. In my fantasies, I am stripped naked and felt up. Sometimes, I'm forced to my knees and forced to suck him to completion. Other times, I'm bent over a table and my ass is toyed with, lubed up and penetrated with fingers, toys and eventually, his cock.
In my fantasies, it is usually an older guy who takes charge and tells me what he wants me to do. I have no desire to be romantic with another man. The thought of kissing, holding hands or anything like that does nothing for me. Why does the though of being fucked like a woman by another guy turn me on so much?

I really do think that many of us men, taught all of our lives and expected to take the lead, to be the man, really just want to take the other role, to submit, to be dominated, to be taken. And not by a woman, but by a man. I know I do.

 

[MoleskineScribbler]

And sometimes we just want to do all those things we were told were nasty!

 

[Trimjob69]

And sometimes we just want to do all those things we were told were nasty!

The nastier the better

 

[Gumby11747]

Thanks for all of the responses. I don't know if I find it nasty, as much as humiliating. I guess it would be nasty if it turned out to be someone that I was disgusted by but that is not at all what I want. I guess it is more about control and giving it up to a superior man.

 

[stickygirl]

Oh lord men.

Probably shouldn't give explanation ....
... Listen to your head and find a master, or not. Sometimes it's better to just stay a fantasy.

What she said ^^^

 

[CBM514]

Thanks for all of the responses. I don't know if I find it nasty, as much as humiliating. I guess it would be nasty if it turned out to be someone that I was disgusted by but that is not at all what I want. I guess it is more about control and giving it up to a superior man.

Humiliation for many people can be very arousing regardless of the gender

 

[Dyslexicea]

Oh lord men.

Probably shouldn't give explanation because you just want to get your rocks off, but what the hell. Sexuality is fluid, some people when they first start wanting sex only want the same sex. Later on they can decide the opposite sex isn't so bad. Later than that they may lose attraction to same sex.

Doesn't mean there is anything wrong with you. Listen to your head and find a master, or not. Sometimes it's better to just stay a fantasy.

Maybe you ought to say in my opinion. Studies have shown that sexual orientation is not fluid. Not to say someone who happens to be bisexual but identifies only as lesbian because of her sexual experiences can't later enjoy men but she was never truly a lesbian. Speaking as someone who's 'been there and done that' I assure you I cannot enjoy sex with a man nor am I fluidly going to change my orientation.

I do agree with the last part of your post.

Gumby11747 it may very well be you're submissive and any D/s relationship would fulfill your desires. If you have a significant other may I suggest you talk to her about buying a strap-on and role play her dominating you while begging you at the same time.

On the other hand maybe you are gay or bisexual and just afraid to admit it. We do live in a rather homophobic world and I think it is more male homophobic than it is for us. Especially when some men like to suck cock or other things with men but are even afraid to admit they are bisexual. By the way, you are bi-curious even if "I do not find men physically attractive, like I do women.". Personally I'm very skeptical of men who say they want to or do have sex with other men but aren't attracted to men, more fear than reality in my opinion.

 

[freetolearn]

I'm a primarily straight WM, 47 but lately I have started to have a burning desire to submit sexually to another man. I do not find men physically attractive, like I do women. I do not know what prompted this but I find the thought of a superior male using me sexually really turns me on. I have read many stories of men being dominated by other men and I do believe that I would find it humiliating to be used but for some reason it gets me hard as a rock and turned on like nothing else. I have been fantasizing about it constantly lately. In my fantasies, I am stripped naked and felt up. Sometimes, I'm forced to my knees and forced to suck him to completion. Other times, I'm bent over a table and my ass is toyed with, lubed up and penetrated with fingers, toys and eventually, his cock.
In my fantasies, it is usually an older guy who takes charge and tells me what he wants me to do. I have no desire to be romantic with another man. The thought of kissing, holding hands or anything like that does nothing for me. Why does the though of being fucked like a woman by another guy turn me on so much?

I totally relate.

 

[littlegrizz02]

I'm a primarily straight WM, 47 but lately I have started to have a burning desire to submit sexually to another man. I do not find men physically attractive, like I do women. I do not know what prompted this but I find the thought of a superior male using me sexually really turns me on. I have read many stories of men being dominated by other men and I do believe that I would find it humiliating to be used but for some reason it gets me hard as a rock and turned on like nothing else. I have been fantasizing about it constantly lately. In my fantasies, I am stripped naked and felt up. Sometimes, I'm forced to my knees and forced to suck him to completion. Other times, I'm bent over a table and my ass is toyed with, lubed up and penetrated with fingers, toys and eventually, his cock.
In my fantasies, it is usually an older guy who takes charge and tells me what he wants me to do. I have no desire to be romantic with another man. The thought of kissing, holding hands or anything like that does nothing for me. Why does the though of being fucked like a woman by another guy turn me on so much?

Im another guy that totally wants that. Its a huge turn on for me too.

 

[Krane]

wow

Oh lord men.

Probably shouldn't give explanation because you just want to get your rocks off, but what the hell. Sexuality is fluid, some people when they first start wanting sex only want the same sex. Later on they can decide the opposite sex isn't so bad. Later than that they may lose attraction to same sex.

Same thing happens to every person, not always starting with the same sex. What fucks people over is society and religion, which is the same thing basically. Most people think that wanting the same sex is bad and wrong so you can't. So gay men and women listen and ignore what they actually want. Later on in life they can stop giving a fuck and do what they want to do in the first place.

In your case, you may have listened to society and are stopping giving a fuck. See what you are getting rock hard over is a gals rape fantasy. It's not actually a rape because we enjoy it, it's a ravishment fantasy which is exactly what you have. In other words you may actually like men for sex. You may not as well the human mind is one fucked up thing.

You may just want to try that. You may have pressure to get the job done by telling others to do things. CEOs have a dominatrix on average for a reason. Having complete control is hard on a person so they need a release. Sexual submission is fun and frees your mind from the stresses of the day. Housewives are known to be submissive to the husband, or toss the kids at him and take a long bath. Same thing.

Doesn't mean there is anything wrong with you. Listen to your head and find a master, or not. Sometimes it's better to just stay a fantasy.

are you a shrink......if so, or even if your are not......I would love to sit down and have a very frank conversation with you

 

[woman_inside]

I'm a primarily straight WM, 47 but lately I have started to have a burning desire to submit sexually to another man. I do not find men physically attractive, like I do women. I do not know what prompted this but I find the thought of a superior male using me sexually really turns me on. I have read many stories of men being dominated by other men and I do believe that I would find it humiliating to be used but for some reason it gets me hard as a rock and turned on like nothing else. I have been fantasizing about it constantly lately. In my fantasies, I am stripped naked and felt up. Sometimes, I'm forced to my knees and forced to suck him to completion. Other times, I'm bent over a table and my ass is toyed with, lubed up and penetrated with fingers, toys and eventually, his cock.
In my fantasies, it is usually an older guy who takes charge and tells me what he wants me to do. I have no desire to be romantic with another man. The thought of kissing, holding hands or anything like that does nothing for me. Why does the though of being fucked like a woman by another guy turn me on so much?

I can definitely relate.

 

[zzman514]

Maybe as we reach our forties men are tired of the BS from women. Women are tired of the BS from men. Look at the divorce rate. We want to try something new and exciting. Something bold. We wanted to be loved in a new way. We have worked hard for years and want new enjoyment. Something we haven't done before. Sex was enjoyable but now has gotten old. Something new like sucking a dick (guys) or eating pussy (women). Our sex juices need something new. I think as we get older we start looking at all sex. We want something we have never tried before.

 

[Trimjob69]

Maybe as we reach our forties men are tired of the BS from women. Women are tired of the BS from men. Look at the divorce rate. We want to try something new and exciting. Something bold. We wanted to be loved in a new way. We have worked hard for years and want new enjoyment. Something we haven't done before. Sex was enjoyable but now has gotten old. Something new like sucking a dick (guys) or eating pussy (women). Our sex juices need something new. I think as we get older we start looking at all sex. We want something we have never tried before.

I concur

 

[t1m1d1]

Hi

I hugely relate to your post.

In my life I'm always the boss...... I so longed to submit , to worship , etc. I really wanted to be suck and be fucked but was frightened of real domination, and loved femininity still. Last year I had sex (was topped ) by a most beautiful transsexual girl. It was a life changing experience. Since then I have had numerous partners. I have come to accept and recognise , that I am bisexual . I love people, I love sex with women, men and ts's . I prefer ts's .

Maybe it will stay a fantasy, maybe you will take the next step. I did , it for me , was hugely liberating, and sexually fulfilling . I love the feeling of being sexually dominated, I love the feeling of submitting to pretty much anything to please another person.

Take your time , maybe try the next step if you are ready .....it's your body, your soul.

 

[blklthrjkt]

I am usually in the other end of that submission, and I have found this is not an unusual fantasy at all.

Submission is a way to allow yourself permission to experience something your otherwise would feel too self conscious about. Mentally, submitting takes the control out of your hands and lets you just enjoy.

 

[downforce]

I really do think that many of us men, taught all of our lives and expected to take the lead, to be the man, really just want to take the other role, to submit, to be dominated, to be taken. And not by a woman, but by a man. I know I do.

This is me, right here. It the absolute role reversal, letting someone else dominate me, make me do what they want, to be their personal fuck toy, used to satisfy their sexual desires. My wife is submissive to me, but she doesnt want to role reverse, which is too bad. I try to get her to take charge and make me do her bidding to get her off.

Whats crazy about that is she actually gets off by being used, treated like, and called a dirty whore.

 

[bi_adrien]

.....

 

[Trimjob69]

I fantasize about being taken by a dominant man as well. I don't know why for sure, but I think it's because somewhere deep inside I crave the feeling of vulnerability that you get when submitting to another person and allowing yourself to be fully and completely taken.

I'll help you out

 

[Stanbosh]

I fantasize about being taken by a dominant man as well. I don't know why for sure, but I think it's because somewhere deep inside I crave the feeling of vulnerability that you get when submitting to another person and allowing yourself to be fully and completely taken.

Boy...right here, right now , I would so submit to a hottie.