Why does my GF want to peg me?

[Oclafsti]

So my girlfriend is 21. She is Muslim and extremely innocent or so from the outside. No one would ever think this about her. Anyway she has always been a sub. She loves When I treat her like an animal and humiliate and hurt her. Recently she has been more open to me. She wants three somes. But she said her biggest fantasy is to hurt me and use a strap on on me. This was crazy but it turns me on, but I can't picture her doing that because I've always been the dominant one. Why would a girl want to do that to a guy, so I can understand it more. She likes being a sub an a Dom. Why is that ? Thanks for any help.

 

[Farawyn]

So my girlfriend is 21. She is Muslim and extremely innocent or so from the outside. No one would ever think this about her. Anyway she has always been a sub. She loves When I treat her like an animal and humiliate and hurt her. Recently she has been more open to me. She wants three somes. But she said her biggest fantasy is to hurt me and use a strap on on me. This was crazy but it turns me on, but I can't picture her doing that because I've always been the dominant one. Why would a girl want to do that to a guy, so I can understand it more. She likes being a sub an a Dom. Why is that ? Thanks for any help.

Why don't you ask her?

 

[cookiecat]

I was reading through the last posts you wrote back in January as well as the replies you received. Seems the same advice applies.

Maybe you could re-read what was written back then? Lots of folks told you to talk to her, communicate, don't sweat this stuff.

If you want her to, what does it matter? She's exploring. Isn't it great she feels safe enough with you to open up about her desires?

If you don't want to be pegged, then don't. If you do, then how awesome is it you have a girlfriend who's open to it?

I wonder why you keep bringing up her ethnicity? Why would we care or why would it matter??

I'm German but my husband never says "geez, my wife is a really good girl, she's German. But I don't understand why she likes to be peed on."

Anyways. Seems like you get yourself tied up for nothing. It all worked out last time, right?

Peg on.

 

[Oclafsti]

I was reading through the last posts you wrote back in January as well as the replies you received. Seems the same advice applies.

Maybe you could re-read what was written back then? Lots of folks told you to talk to her, communicate, don't sweat this stuff.

If you want her to, what does it matter? She's exploring. Isn't it great she feels safe enough with you to open up about her desires?

If you don't want to be pegged, then don't. If you do, then how awesome is it you have a girlfriend who's open to it?

I wonder why you keep bringing up her ethnicity? Why would we care or why would it matter??

I'm German but my husband never says "geez, my wife is a really good girl, she's German. But I don't understand why she likes to be peed on."

Anyways. Seems like you get yourself tied up for nothing. It all worked out last time, right?

Peg on.

Muslim girls are known to be very innocent that's why. It was always a fantasy of mine before I met her that's why I bring it up. It seems like you are upset about something maybe you had a bad day. Hope you find happiness soon!

 

[Oclafsti]

Why don't you ask her?

I did she just said she really wants to and she likes being dominate. I'm looking more of a psychology aspect of it. Maybe I'm talking on the wrong forum.

 

[cookiecat]

Muslim girls are known to be very innocent that's why. It was always a fantasy of mine before I met her that's why I bring it up. It seems like you are upset about something maybe you had a bad day. Hope you find happiness soon!

LOL.

Nope - not upset at all. Just curious, since you brought it up back in January, too.

Hope you read through all the other stuff too!

 

[SpunThings]

So my girlfriend is 21. She is Muslim and extremely innocent or so from the outside. No one would ever think this about her. Anyway she has always been a sub. She loves When I treat her like an animal and humiliate and hurt her. Recently she has been more open to me. She wants three somes. But she said her biggest fantasy is to hurt me and use a strap on on me. This was crazy but it turns me on, but I can't picture her doing that because I've always been the dominant one. Why would a girl want to do that to a guy, so I can understand it more. She likes being a sub an a Dom. Why is that ? Thanks for any help.

There is no one reason why a woman would want to dominate their partner. Just like there is no one reason why men would want to dominate their partner. In fact, I imagine a lot of the answers you'd get from men would be much the same as what you'd get from women.

We can't answer for her. You need to ask her. Everyone has a different answer. For some, the answer is "It gets me off," and it's as simple as that.

 

[Blue]

So my girlfriend is 21. She is Muslim and extremely innocent or so from the outside. No one would ever think this about her. Anyway she has always been a sub. She loves When I treat her like an animal and humiliate and hurt her. Recently she has been more open to me. She wants three somes. But she said her biggest fantasy is to hurt me and use a strap on on me. This was crazy but it turns me on, but I can't picture her doing that because I've always been the dominant one. Why would a girl want to do that to a guy, so I can understand it more.

The psychology is that she's into that because she's into that.

Or if you want a specific, it's because she might be in the roughly 8% of people who consider power exchange to be a fundamental aspect of their sexuality. It's not some Freudian mess-up in her/our psychology or nefarious intentions manifesting as obscure fetishes, it really probably is just as simple as "I just like it".

She likes being a sub an a Dom. Why is that ? Thanks for any help.

Because there exist people who can naturally take pleasure in being both. Some can some can't.

 

[policywank]

Muslim girls are known to be very innocent that's why. It was always a fantasy of mine before I met her that's why I bring it up. It seems like you are upset about something maybe you had a bad day. Hope you find happiness soon!

It strikes me that maybe Muslim girls are compelled to be innocent or pretend to be innocent -that doesn't mean they are innocent (at least in their thoughts). For those of us that aren't so innocent the more outside forces try to compel us the more we want to do the opposite.

As for the objective reasons.......power exchange? (not tough to imagine an adventurous Muslim girl wanting to turn the tables on how her society regards her - sorry for any implicit presumption or bias)......genuine desire to help you explore your sexuality?

 

[MastersDelight]

There could be a lot of reasons why, none of us are going to be able to tell you the right answer. Only she can, and she may not know why either.

It's like asking someone why they like oranges. Everyone has different reasons.

I used to get myself tied in knots over things. Why am I submissive? Why do I like pain? Why do I want a 3some? Why does sucking cock turn me on? When I decided to stop trying to figure out WHY and just relaxed to allow myself to explore with my Master, everything was so much better. It doesn't matter why I like these things. And weather or not I knew the answer to WHY I liked those things all the same. Once I came to that realization, I was free.

 

[ThorsHammer7]

Breaking taboos is a common thread to what people like sexually. She was raised Muslim you say? Dominating her master would be a logical turn on. You're a lucky man! Get her a strapon and submit to her for a while, you might not want to switch back...

 

[Jessica454545]

Its kind of the same as why guys wanna cum all over a girl. Its Out of the norm and its visual Girls like the visual too!

And its being dominating, being a muslim women im sure your put under allot of oppression...

 

[theCARS1979]

She wants to fuck you in the ass with a strap on. Just take it , you may like and enjoy it. The male prostate is there. Your going to have an awesome orgasm. What ever happens with you and a girl is your business Noone else. Tell them not to knock it till they try it really

 

[Tommybowler]

It could be because she wants to make you her bitch and teach you to submit to her, or it could be you have been trying to ass fuck her and it hurt and she wants you to know how it hurts.

Or it could be a million other reasons.