why do you want to hurt me Daddy?

[softsensualfem]

I don't know if it's my lack of experience in the subject,or my bad judgement in play partners,but does it follow that Daddy/Dau... uncle, bro rp be rough?

Every time i strike up chat/play with a man ,as we go on he inevitabley wants to hurt/rape his play daughter! niece !

Have i got it all wrong....

Arn't Daddy's/Uncles and brothers suppose to be protective and caring ?

 

[alta]

You have the wrong partners?




You should clearly state from the start what you want out of the rp and how you want it to take place.And if someone is not willing to do the play such that both of you enjoy it then its a waste of time.

I always feel its best to know the other person for a bit by just chatting,if not then atleast clear things up in regards to what they want and what you want.Go through a list of do's and dont's

Good luck with it

 

[rondogg9]

wrong people

you need a loving dad well i am him, i would never hurt my little girl, love to hear from you

 

[DavidJ1]

Agreed, it's the partners you've found, not the roleplay itself.

One must be very selective, especially when choosing a partner for d/s play of any sort... there are just so many pretenders out there, or people with no idea what they're doing.

Keep looking for the kind of daddy you dream of. You'll find him. Let me know if I can help.

Dave

 

[koalabear]

gotta watch out....there are child molesters on line to that get off on that shit.......

 

[johntheviking]

rough

I can't really advise on uncle / family play since it's not my gig but it sounds like yes, you found the wrong play partners. It takes quiet a while of searching sometimes to find the correct person who matches your ideas but also can help you push your own boundaries as well.

my two cents.

J

 

[broadfjord]

and................i'm online now !!!

 

[mathob]

I agree with the others who have responded here, you seem to have been unlucky with your partners. I guess if you post in the BDSM section you might expect pain and humiliation, but in the personals it shouldn't happen.
Anyway good luck in your search.

 

[Anniewants2play]

Sweetie....talk with the person you're going to play with a lot before you actually start playing.
Ask a lot of questions about what turns him on. It doesn't have to be an interrogation...it can be a very sexy line of questioning.

But if at any time you're uncomfortable with what/how they want to play just tell them 'thank you, but we're not into the same things. Good luck with your search.' and then never talk to them again!

That's my 2 cents.

 

[softsensualfem]

Thank you all for the advice and hope!

I think i find myself to eager to please wanting to be a *Goodgirl before i realise im out of my depth and doing something i don't want.
Not always the *Daddy's fault, like you all advised i should and will make my wants/needs clearer.

I don't understand but come to realise that rough play seems to be a big part of this rp, i know it's just a matter of finding the right person for me and me him.

Thanks for you'r *cents i'll spend them wisley *giggles