why do you constantly have to belong to a domme

[smoothbikini]

before people will leave you alone? can't you take a time out?

 

[FungiUg]

Huh?

 

[RavenSpirit2k4]

Huh?

I wholeheartedly concur.

 

[Xelebes]

I see dead people...

 

[Beco]

lifes a bitch

 

[DVS]

lifes a bitch

Who's a bitch?

 

[RJMasters]

Me thinks

Taking out my decoder ring I have interpretted this person's poor communication skills and understand what they are asking.

Basically, asking why Dom/mes when they see a submissive that doesn't belong to a Dom/me(hence available), automatically assume that submissive wants and needs one.

From smoothbikini's perspective, "no I don't have a Dom/me and I am fine with that at the present time. I'm taking a time out."

Further I think smoothbikini means that sometimes when a sub says no they mean no. I know that many Dom/mes believe that when a sub says no, they really mean yes, so they push to find out. I think smoothbikini is trying to blow off steam and say, leave me the fuck alone will ya I don't want to be dominated by anyone, I need a break.

Perhaps this request comes on the heels of a break up and smoothbikini is asking to be left alone to heal.

All I can say to you smoothbikin is....you should think a bit when you communicate to others and make sure you state clearly what you mean. If your original post here is in anyway an indication of how you comunicate to an asking Dom/me, your message is probably unclear, and is interpretted wrongly.

Secondly, quit fucking whining. That only brings more negative attention on yourself. If you know what you need(a break) then feel at ease to communicate that in a calm and reasonable way. Not everyone is gonna respect that, but many in this community will. You will find plenty of support from others if you seek it in the right manner.

We can return to our regularly scheduled program..."click"

 

[Kajira Callista]

Re: Me thinks

Taking out my decoder ring I have interpretted this person's poor communication skills and understand what they are asking.

Basically, asking why Dom/mes when they see a submissive that doesn't belong to a Dom/me(hence available), automatically assume that submissive wants and needs one.

From smoothbikini's perspective, "no I don't have a Dom/me and I am fine with that at the present time. I'm taking a time out."

Further I think smoothbikini means that sometimes when a sub says no they mean no. I know that many Dom/mes believe that when a sub says no, they really mean yes, so they push to find out. I think smoothbikini is trying to blow off steam and say, leave me the fuck alone will ya I don't want to be dominated by anyone, I need a break.

Perhaps this request comes on the heels of a break up and smoothbikini is asking to be left alone to heal.

All I can say to you smoothbikin is....you should think a bit when you communicate to others and make sure you state clearly what you mean. If your original post here is in anyway an indication of how you comunicate to an asking Dom/me, your message is probably unclear, and is interpretted wrongly.

Secondly, quit fucking whining. That only brings more negative attention on yourself. If you know what you need(a break) then feel at ease to communicate that in a calm and reasonable way. Not everyone is gonna respect that, but many in this community will. You will find plenty of support from others if you seek it in the right manner.

We can return to our regularly scheduled program..."click"

that was kinda rude

 

[RJMasters]

GTM

ahhh Kajira Callista,

Perhaps you are right, I wish I had two of you so I could sit you on each of my shoulders.

I am going on about 2 hour of sleep in the last 30 hours, which is really no excuse is it?

Well, I am always one to say, "admit when your wrong right?"

I really didn't need to use the sarcasm in such a calious way. So I will apologize for the use of sarcasm. As for the advice:

All I can say to you smoothbikin is....you should think a bit when you communicate to others and make sure you state clearly what you mean. If your original post here is in anyway an indication of how you comunicate to an asking Dom/me, your message is probably unclear, and is interpretted wrongly.

Secondly, quit fucking whining. That only brings more negative attention on yourself. If you know what you need(a break) then feel at ease to communicate that in a calm and reasonable way. Not everyone is gonna respect that, but many in this community will. You will find plenty of support from others if you seek it in the right manner.


I am not sorry for saying this as I think it is exactly on target. I did take the time to try to understand what was being said. Reguardless of the sarcasm, the advice I gave is good.

Now if you'll excuse me, I'm off for some much needed sleep.

(Callista a PM would have accomplished the same thing, here's your gold star)

 

[AvaAdore]

It made perfect sense to me.

It's like being single and happy. Just because you are single does not mean you NEED someone.

 

[Kajira Callista]

It made perfect sense to me.

It's like being single and happy. Just because you are single does not mean you NEED someone.

Thank you so much ava, i understood also. I dont think the post warranted a "quit fucking whining" from anyone. I also think that the post was merely a way to open a subject and if the post was read and the subject not liked, then a reply need not have been posted in a rude manner. But you know...im just the dumbfuck kajira

 

[RJMasters]

Well let's ask then

smoothbikini,

When you asked this question....

Did you ask it because you "really" didn't know the answer?

Or did you post it out a sense of fustration, beacuse your always feeling pressured?

Just a little honesty check to go around.

 

[A Desert Rose]

This is just another thread that really is more appropriate to the blurt thread.

 

[RJMasters]

And while we wait

What I do see is that in some ways you are a dumbfuck kajira. As I read through this post I see
1. a respected Dom FungiUg say
Huh?
2. a repected Domme say
I wholeheartedly concur.

----------------------

Hence the advice to communicate better.

----------------------

A respected sub
3. I see dead people - nope not a lot of help here

4. Life's a bitch - words to live by and grow to be sure.

And yet you managed to work your way through all that to focus on my rude answer?

The fact is you for some reason, get off in pointing out 2 mistakes I have made in over a 100 posts, as if in some way to publicly humilate me.

Take your mind fuck and shove it in your ass! Its not fucking working.

Telling a person to learn to communicate better and to seek help without whining is really not that bad of advice. You second post is clearly your way of saying I'm going to make an issue out of this. Well congratz you got your fucking issue.

I noticed in your first post you didn't offer any advice or words of encouragement to smoothbikini. And none in your second post either.

Since we all know your not a dumbfuck kajira, I would like to know what beef you got against me? Who's the one being rude to whom now? So since you felt the need to throw this out publicly, I think I would like to finish it publicly.

I am sure everyone one by now wants to know what your issue is with me. I know I sure the fuck would like to know.

And if you don't have an issue then I want an apology from you for making this into public issue when it really didn't have to be that way. Or is that too much to ask of a kajira?

 

[H0wl]

Re: Me thinks

Taking out my decoder ring I have interpretted this person's poor communication skills and understand what they are asking.

Basically, asking why Dom/mes when they see a submissive that doesn't belong to a Dom/me(hence available), automatically assume that submissive wants and needs one.

From smoothbikini's perspective, "no I don't have a Dom/me and I am fine with that at the present time. I'm taking a time out."

Further I think smoothbikini means that sometimes when a sub says no they mean no. I know that many Dom/mes believe that when a sub says no, they really mean yes, so they push to find out. I think smoothbikini is trying to blow off steam and say, leave me the fuck alone will ya I don't want to be dominated by anyone, I need a break.

Perhaps this request comes on the heels of a break up and smoothbikini is asking to be left alone to heal.

<SNIP>

You were doing pretty well up to there. After that you went kinda overboard.

 

[A Desert Rose]

This person was not asking for advice. This person was blurting a frustration with a rhetorical question.

Not every thread started here is a quest for advice.

 

[InnerDarkness]

I think he already apologized....or at least clarified...

*shrug*

 

[RavenSpirit2k4]

Wow. It's just amazing how snotty and bitchy people will get when you call them on being rude in the first place. It's like they have to go out of their way to prove your point, but they think they're doing the opposite.

For the record, my original post wasn't meant to be rude or anything, I simply didn't understand what smoothbikini meant.

 

[A Desert Rose]

Wow. It's just amazing how snotty and bitchy people will get when you call them on being rude in the first place. It's like they have to go out of their way to prove your point, but they think they're doing the opposite.

For the record, my original post wasn't meant to be rude or anything, I simply didn't understand what smoothbikini meant.

But it was pointed out which of us are respected and which of us are not. LOL

 

[RavenSpirit2k4]

But it was pointed out which of us are respected and which of us are not. LOL

For some folks, having a dom/me would be a mater of respect. The wise know better than to judge a sub or slave on a trivial detail like that.

 

[A Desert Rose]

For some folks, having a dom/me would be a mater of respect. The wise know better than to judge a sub or slave on a trivial detail like that.

I do *heart* you.

And I AM respected as a sub by those who count... ;-D like you!

 

[WriterDom]

Re: And while we wait

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And yet you managed to work your way through all that to focus on my rude answer?

The fact is you for some reason, get off in pointing out 2 mistakes I have made in over a 100 posts, as if in some way to publicly humilate me.

Take your mind fuck and shove it in your ass! Its not fucking working.

[/B]

You are doing a fine job of humiliating yourself. If you can't play nice, find somewhere else to post.

 

[SweetDommes]

and now, back to the original topic ...

It's not just subs that go through this - we didn't have submissives (and were not always looking - and posted the fact that we were not looking when we weren't) and we constantly got "offers". In general, people suck - submissive or dominant. We had our 'vents' and I'm very glad that we were able to communicate them in such a manner that didn't bring on the petty crap that your vent has ... Relax - take a deep breath - and block the idiots who message you.

 

[Kajira Callista]

Re: And while we wait

What I do see is that in some ways you are a dumbfuck kajira. As I read through this post I see
1. a respected Dom FungiUg say
Huh?
2. a repected Domme say
I wholeheartedly concur.

----------------------

Hence the advice to communicate better.

----------------------

A respected sub
3. I see dead people - nope not a lot of help here

4. Life's a bitch - words to live by and grow to be sure.

And yet you managed to work your way through all that to focus on my rude answer?

The fact is you for some reason, get off in pointing out 2 mistakes I have made in over a 100 posts, as if in some way to publicly humilate me.

Take your mind fuck and shove it in your ass! Its not fucking working.

Telling a person to learn to communicate better and to seek help without whining is really not that bad of advice. You second post is clearly your way of saying I'm going to make an issue out of this. Well congratz you got your fucking issue.

I noticed in your first post you didn't offer any advice or words of encouragement to smoothbikini. And none in your second post either.

Since we all know your not a dumbfuck kajira, I would like to know what beef you got against me? Who's the one being rude to whom now? So since you felt the need to throw this out publicly, I think I would like to finish it publicly.

I am sure everyone one by now wants to know what your issue is with me. I know I sure the fuck would like to know.

And if you don't have an issue then I want an apology from you for making this into public issue when it really didn't have to be that way. Or is that too much to ask of a kajira?

Here is my issue with you darling. Unless this person who started the thread is your own...what makes it ok to to say quit fucking whining? Second you attitude to certain ppl sucks. Here is a clue...i dont like you, you have no respect and i see right through you, and THAT is why you have a problem with me. I didnt post a response to this thread when i read it because i didnt feel like posting, i wanted to see where it went, which...if you knew me, you would know i do often...but you dont so back off or you are gonna be one sorry dumbfuck master wanna be. (how does it feel when someone puts your own shit back in your face lil boy?) Have a good day

 

[SweetDommes]

and so much for going back to the topic ... geez ...