Why do they bother? A question for the lounge's singletons.

[your_vice]

Isn't this supposed to be LITerotica? Here's the latest example of social Darwinism to clutter my inbox.

how sub are you? where in london?

To which I replied...

"Nice try but those questions are irrelevant. I have no interest in your interests. In addition, I'm utterly sick of lazy cunts like you who can't bring themselves to stop masturbating long enough to write more than 7 fucking words.

Congrats. You're the first to make my ignore list."

I should point out that this guy's profile invited me to read his threads in order to learn more about his kinks. He likes masturbating in front of people, male or female and eating his own cum. What in the name of all that's unholy does that even have to do with D/s or sadomasochism?

How many people have been completely put off of personals ads by pointless little fucktards like UsernameEdited above? What makes them think any female old enough to fuck is going to respond favourably to a message like that? But most importantly...

Where have all the real deviants gone?

 

[cgraven]

Ignorance knows no gender or age. Who ever wrote the PM you quoted is ignorant of the relationship between a sub and a Dom. They are want-to-bees who think a Dom is a brut that brutalizes women with their words and fists. This they think is a Dom, it is what they see on the net.

 

[Ahren1]

I have to wonder why you even bothered replying. If they put in no effort, why should you?

 

[Lobo_8]

I have to agree. I probably don't get that pointless shit cause I'm a guy, but still...I'm not enough of an asshat to send random PM's to different women hoping that one of them is ignorant enough to give a favorable response.

I'll at least try to get to know the woman first, THEN send random PM's .

-Burns

 

[your_vice]

I have to wonder why you even bothered replying. If they put in no effort, why should you?

Meh. Bile and PMT mostly.

 

[YoungLisa]

My Nan had a phrase to sum up the person who wrote to you. I've amended it to modern times:

"You may have gone through life knowing people think you have personality problems. Now you have written that post you have removed any possible doubt!"

 

[sensusaldesire]

I have had a few of these . Sad to say there are a few of them on ignore. I do not waste my time to even respond to their illiterate asses . I feel as if doing so invites them to Pm me again and god knows that I have no patients to tolerate it.

 

[androgEros]

Where have all the real deviants gone?

can I have that for a sig line?

We are hiding in our own languor. An incontrovertible deviant doesn't need to proclaim their deviance. Nor do we need to "advertise" our level of divergence. The whole allure of being disparate, is having your secrets, and keeping them that way.

The “perfunctory posters,” probably have low self-esteem; thereby, they seek out the approval of people, to whom, they feel interior. An accurately defined deviant would seek to elude extrovert self-advertisement, and would nurture and develop their sense of disassociation.

The vernacular bile, spewed by certain posters, is a futile attempt at pining for attention. The endangered avant-garde are lurking; waiting to be discovered. ((As I, just now, realized upon previewing post; the first line in my signature infers.

Call us the last few nymphs. We don't seek you; you find us.
Waste naught, your time on imbeciles; your siren is out there.

 

[Tio_Narratore]

Isn't this supposed to be LITerotica? Here's the latest example of social Darwinism to clutter my inbox.



Clearly far too illiterate to have read (or cared) what Literotica is. After all, any woman who'd be on a site like this is simply waiting for a man at a loss for words. It was cruel of you to reply with a text that was obviously beyond his ken (or even barbie, for that matter), and all along he thought you were a sub.


How sub? Deeper than he could ever fathom.

Where in London? Somewhere beyond his abilities.

Tio

 

[Alana_]

I'm not into the sub/dom relationship, nor do I care where the deviants are, but I completely empathize with you your_vice over the level of stupid, and I do mean stupid, pms that get circulated from individuals, who really need to learn to multitask (think, jerk, and type) or chose one to get right, before wasting peoples times with such harmless messages, with frankly reveal their level of lack of intelligence.

I personally don't bother replying to such pms..no matter how bad they are, because frankly my reply would simply be deleted and ignored, which is what I do with theirs.

Poor bastard, if he had a sub offer herself up to him on a dinner plate, he'd probably need a book of instructions detailing what has to be done..That is of course if he gets a hang of that multitasking which now has evolved to 'thinking, jerking, typing AND reading'.

Somehow, ladies of the world, I think we're safe for another day.

 

[Ryo242]

"Are we really going to debate on other people's attempts at gathering social lives on the internet? Alright then.." He pauses to collect himself and gather the necessary mindset.

"Seeing as how I am one of those single people who tries to post, yet I do it in a manner that has more grammar. A rhyme unintended. As weird as this may seem, I was one of those people growing up who watched other people make asses or fools of themselves for the opposite gender's..." Pauses again to one shot a goblin who was attacking him from behind and doing really nothing..it was actually kind of funny and annoying at the same time.

"--to attract the opposite gender's attention, and I would always wonder why in the hell they would do it. Now that I am single and filled with just about every hormone known to man and several known to monkeys screaming that I should mate and have safety and home and all those other things evolution has come to terms with making our species better procreate...I do understand where they are coming from."

"That said, some people (myself included) do not understand the relationship between Sub and Dom when they first get here. They flock to one of a few areas, the General board filled with many a haters and flamers, the lounge filled with people that want to Roleplay and chat lively, or even engage in active scenes, or the post-a-picture-of-thineself board where they can ogle and masturbate to their heart's content. Then we have the people that wish to find someone of similar mindsets and would love to meet them and chat which will lead to other things."

"Focusing on that group. We have older gents and normal gents, and younguns. The younguns are only interested in sex and will pay attention and ask questions and want rewards, they will go from person to person until they have the attention. Older guys don't really care too much. They are online because they are bored and will pass time in any which way. The middle ones are the most dangerous. They have passed their prime as younguns and are most likely still single and will seek company and hold onto it by any means necessary."

"If this offends anyone, let it be known I am not being specific, just generic."

"Thus, the person that dwells in London or whereabouts is most likely the youngun who doesn't have the right attention span to ask for more. As for why he would ask in such a manner, it's because he's new and he has this little idea in his mind that makes him want to point himself out that and that will net him some favors in whichever female's mind."

"I think I dropped the ball halfway through that...lost my train of thought and all, damn goblin."

 

[EzraPound]

I highly doubt that your the only one to receive that particular PM.
It feels like a shotgun approach to dating,send a bunch out(probably from a cell phone) and see who's dumb enough to reply.( I'm not implying your dumb, I mean with favorable replies like "very,Kings Cross ,C U there" sort of thing)

"Text speak" on forums has developed in to a big fat pet peeve of mine, part of the charm of Literotica for me, is almost no one dose it here.

I think it was kind of you "your_vice" to take the trouble to educate the poor bastard.
Maybe he learned something but I doubt it.

(must resist "androgEros" challenge..must resist...must resist, but it sounds like fun)

 

[Firmhanded_Daddy]

First off, I have to laugh at this. It's either laugh or cry because there are so many out there who think that the sort of tactic employed in the PM in question actually WORKS. They do not understand the submissive woman, or man for that matter, they just assume because you claim such tenancy that you will be a door mat for whatever they want.

This displays a complete ignorance to the life style that is rather frustrating. Similar to how people see my SN and freak out thinking I want to run about having sex with my daughter. Ignorance breeds stupidity and intolerance. (Hell I don't even have a daughter!)

On to the situation in question. Your_vice, I can appreciate your stance. I myself have no patience for stupidity. I enjoy exposing such things for what they truly are to the person who brought the situation about. Nothing like rubbing someone's nose in their own asinine babble to help encourage them not to make the mistake a second time. I consider it a public service. The human gene pool is far too tainted with stupidity. This is why I want to start a movement to have them remove obvious warning labels. "Warning this coffee may be hot" "Do not ingest bleach" If you are at the level of mental function that requires you to read these warnings to heed them, you deserve to be darwinized to make room for stronger, smarter individuals.

I have seen others mention that it's a female only situation, this is not true. I have been on the receiving end of such comments myself a handful of times and I have not even been on lit very long. The content of said IM's elude me at the moment as they have been long deleted, however the subject line of one stands out in my mind and still makes me shake my head in dismay. "Looking for white cock"

Last time I checked, I was not in the profession of dispensing albino poultry.

To draw this to a close, I think a large driving force behind all of this is a mixture of the "Shot gun dating" Theory that was mentioned, with a dash of "The internet is anonymous." You can be a complete fucktard without shame of retribution. All you need to do to save face is make a new screen name. It's not like a real social environment where you pull a line like "Nice shoes, wanna fuck" out and you get laughed out on your ass. (it's one of my favorites btw)

On the internet people suspend social grace, and say things, do things that would in the real world get them slapped, kicked in the teeth, thrown down flights of stairs and the like. The only way to really keep such things in check is to make very real consequence in the form of shame! Pain is the best of tutors, but shame is a close second. The price of becoming a social pariah is usually enough to stop someone from saying something so utterly without thought that just hearing the words kills brain cells.

Usually.

Anywho, just my take on it.

 

[monique_minx]

would like to chat with you i have an hour till my hubby gets home from work-----

I have to start blocking these people, why won't they take "Ummm no!" for an answer??

Tell me what you guys think of a female's pointless pm's?

And yes, edited their name!

 

[Firmhanded_Daddy]

To deal with this person? I would put a scratch and sniff sticker on the bottom of a pool and send them in to tell me what it smelled like.

 

[Last_Rider]

I suppose things like this will happen so long as ignorant, useless, short-sighted, moronic assholes (reps) exist. These people need to just, well, die. They refuse to learn from anything short of physical correction, think the world of themselves, and are absolutely in capable of thinking any differently.

As an aside, I hate people like this. It makes those of us who are genuienly curious and inquisitive look like idiots, guilty by association so to speak. Plus, they burn out good, intelligent, desirable women with their bull shit.

Why, dear God, can't we just kill them?

 

[Firmhanded_Daddy]

As appealing as that idea is Last_Ryder, I'm fairly certain that mass execution of any humans based upon a tangible common trait is considered genocide. While it seems to be a common practice in third world countries, the UN does frown upon it, and there is serious jail time to consider there.

However if we could say, get scientists to state that these unfortunate individuals were frowned upon in the grand scheme of evolution, that might work. Perhaps they are devolved to such a degree that they are no longer considered human. They are an animal that has a malignant defect which requires euthanasia. (Like CWD)

Though there lies the problem of animal rights activists and tree huggers of all sorts. So to be safe, we would have to take it a step further and classify them as just extremely complex, single celled organisms, distant cousins to the amoeba. No one ever complains when you kill mono-celled creatures. We do it every day.

This would all require a lot of scientific data, and some supreme court litigation. So it would be quite time consuming, but I do admire the passion, and it is quite possibly a goal to set for a future time.

 

[Last_Rider]

Hell, the human race is more tolerant of xenocide (much worse) than genocide.

Anyway, that's true, though one has to question the motivations of God. The Garden of Eden functioned perfectly without humans, then for some reason he plops us down there.

 

[Firmhanded_Daddy]

You have a point.

Maybe he decided "And it was good" was getting boring, so he opted for "And it was fucked"

 

[Last_Rider]

Rofl.

Seriously, great line, my hat's off to you.

 

[Firmhanded_Daddy]

-Bows-

Much appreciated but please, no applause. Just throw money. I'm broke as a joke!

Hehe.

Now enough distractions. I have posts to make! -vanishes to MS word-

 

[HowMayIPleaseU]

The content of said IM's elude me at the moment as they have been long deleted, however the subject line of one stands out in my mind and still makes me shake my head in dismay. "Looking for white cock"

Last time I checked, I was not in the profession of dispensing albino poultry.

LOL is it bad that I really want to try sending out like 10 PMs with the subject line "looking for white cock" just to see how many responses I would get???

bad girl... bad bad girl...

 

[Firmhanded_Daddy]

Sadly my dear... You would quite likely get flooded with overwhelming respones, and cock pictures you did not ask for. your average male is equal parts easy, and desperate.

Then again I have little doubt you get them already with the lovely picture you have next to your name. Though I am tempted to send you an erotic photo myself. Tell me... Do you prefer chicken or turkey?

-grin-

 

[yeishia]

LMAO

That is so so funny....albino poultry!

I turned my pm's off after the first month I was here.

I am only available to buddies and fellow writers now

In all fairness I did get some beautiful poetry and no one was overtly gross!

 

[Last_Rider]

ok, now I'm worried.

To date, I have never been solicited for anything on this site.

Is something wrong with me?