Why do some women enjoy oral sex and not give back

[jcmb]

I love to lick my wifes pussy but she will not return the favor. Any hints or answers would helpI always make sure she is finished before I am.

 

[Sexy-man69]

I would like to know the same thing. anyone care to share why?

 

[Brozz]

You are involved with the wrong women. Simple enough.

 

[4_your_pleasure]

Why do some women enjoy oral sex and not give back

Selfish??? Just my guess.

 

[Guttergoddess]

Same reasons some guys "expect" a blow job but would never consider eating a girl out.

Some are selfish.

Some are prudish (don't ask me to explain why one is ok but the other is not)

Some are inexperienced, and don't want to admit it.

Some are too polite to tell you that you need a bath.

 

[FinnMacCool]

Perhaps a discussion with her,rather than a post here? Just a thought..

I love to lick my wifes pussy but she will not return the favor. Any hints or answers would helpI always make sure she is finished before I am.

 

[Stegral]

Same reasons some guys "expect" a blow job but would never consider eating a girl out..Some are inexperienced, and don't want to admit it.

Perhaps a discussion with her,rather than a post here? Just a thought..

I will agree with these two... has she EVER tried it?? did a past lover degrade her attempts??
Finn has a great point...

TALK IT OVER WITH HER !!!! communication is nessecary in a relationship...
each one of us are different... maybe she has fears of swallowing, the taste, that you will choke her... there are TONS of reasons... TALK TO HER !!!

(unless you can BOTH read minds skillfully with NO errors)

 

[Eilan]

I love to lick my wifes pussy but she will not return the favor.

You have a pussy?

 

[rydia57]

I have talked to three guys who love getting oral but prefer not to give. They told me they felt it wasn't sanitary for them to do it, but they didn't mind getting it if I wanted to do them. Hoooo boy! Excuses.

 

[4_your_pleasure]

I have talked to three guys who love getting oral but prefer not to give. They told me they felt it wasn't sanitary for them to do it, but they didn't mind getting it if I wanted to do them. Hoooo boy! Excuses.

Silly guys...... I would never ask for something I wasn't willing to do myself. The pleasure has to go both ways.

 

[Matadore]

Some women are cocksuckers, others are not.
Some men are pussy lickers, others are not.
Some women like strawberry ice cream, others do not.
Some men enjoy chocolate ice cream, others don't.

There is no accounting for taste (pun intended), but you can drive yourself crazy by asking why. There may not be an answer that the partner knows. It doesn't matter what others do or don't do...just your partner at the time.

 

[jcmb]

no bj why not

well as far as never before she has maybe 5 times i have been married 10 years us together 15. as far as being dirty or stinky no bath or shower twice a day. I even shave my balls and shaft on my dick. still only if i try to force then it was 2 or 3 mins tops. should i do situps so in a year or i might be able to pleasure myself no i dont think so

 

[sankasdreams]

I love to give my love a good blowjob, but he dislikes licking my pussy.
It's fine by me, he knows how to enjoy me many, many other ways

*oh, all the mysteries of a woman *

 

[spintye2]

It comes down to the person. My wife was attacked when she was younger so when she gives me a blowjob I can feel that she is doing it to make me happy, but hates it. Myself, I love licking and sucking pussy, even more then fucking. I wont fuck a girl until I have already got her off once by licking.

 

[Noor]

just not something she likes to do, like some people don't like chocolate, I can't imagine why not, but some don't, I just accept it.

maybe past bad experience

its uncomfortable, mouth too small, TMJ?

maybe when she has done it before someone has not let her have complete control, for example in giving oral to a woman its not like she can grab your head and force her clit down your throat.

maybe she is a mouth breather and really can't breath during it.

I would ask her. However, the main thing is there is lot more to sex than a particular act, its not a case of a complete trade off because oral on women is so much different then on men. Its kind of like saying I give him PIV so he should let me use a strap-on on him.

If it were me I would accept what my lover is willing to give.

 

[Jenny_Jackson]

One Word: SMEGMA

 

[misshum]

Don't ask me.....

I love to lick my wifes pussy but she will not return the favor. Any hints or answers would helpI always make sure she is finished before I am.

Doesn't make sense to me, sweetie. I mean...I LOVE to be eaten...but I also Love to go down on a big, thick, juicy piece of manmeat, too!

Believe me...if a man satisifies me...I WILL return the favor!

 

[Wolf of Mibu 69]

Haha. Because double standards go both ways.

 

[groverty]

You have a pussy?

Haha...that's funny!