Why do older men become bi-curious?

This is a good thread. Nice to know so many men feel the same way.
 
Proximity being one of a few barriers that might prevent something from happening. Once one is overcome, something else can rapidly take its place.

I am a 67 y/o, divorced, no girl friend, don't want one, guy who would love to have a friend that I could suck.

What I have learned is no matter how close the match is on C-List (and the like), I cannot overcome the fear of actually meeting. I just don't trust the one or two emails, "let's meet, I'll suck you." They ignore the point I want to suck, no recip wanted. They ignore I am 67 and want someone in their 60's. Not 25 y/o.

I have traded PMs and emails on Lit and the back and forth sharing of information creates a friendship, albeit online. These guys I would meet and suck in a heart beat. But, they live in Florida, Ohio, Pennsylvania, even Australia. I live in Northern Illinois.

Yes, proximity is a barrier but I am optimistic I'll meet someone on one of my local golf courses.

The other fears I have can be overcome with just being patient. Many times I have read on C-List, "no email trading, I am serious, let's meet and suck."

Forgive me, I would rather trade emails without counting.
 
I am a 67 y/o, divorced, no girl friend, don't want one, guy who would love to have a friend that I could suck.

What I have learned is no matter how close the match is on C-List (and the like), I cannot overcome the fear of actually meeting. I just don't trust the one or two emails, "let's meet, I'll suck you." They ignore the point I want to suck, no recip wanted. They ignore I am 67 and want someone in their 60's. Not 25 y/o.

I have traded PMs and emails on Lit and the back and forth sharing of information creates a friendship, albeit online. These guys I would meet and suck in a heart beat. But, they live in Florida, Ohio, Pennsylvania, even Australia. I live in Northern Illinois.

Yes, proximity is a barrier but I am optimistic I'll meet someone on one of my local golf courses.

The other fears I have can be overcome with just being patient. Many times I have read on C-List, "no email trading, I am serious, let's meet and suck."

Forgive me, I would rather trade emails without counting.

I can relate to your thoughts and feel very much the same.
 
Old Guys

I was ashamed of my curiosity for a very long time. By reading these forums and privately sharing (PMs) my feelings and curiosities I have shed and continue to shed my inhibitions and barriers. Oh yes, we are not perverts either.

So even though we are far apart geographically we still help each other.
 
Isn't it just. Would love to have a local 'buddy'.

Same. But never really tried to find one...always looked from the sidelines. Today - actively searching for a guy like myself who just wants to stroke a cock once or twice a week.
 
Same. But never really tried to find one...always looked from the sidelines. Today - actively searching for a guy like myself who just wants to stroke a cock once or twice a week.

Shame we aren't neighbours!
 
I was ashamed of my curiosity for a very long time. By reading these forums and privately sharing (PMs) my feelings and curiosities I have shed and continue to shed my inhibitions and barriers. Oh yes, we are not perverts either.

So even though we are far apart geographically we still help each other.

Very fair comment.
 
I don't know why and a few years ago when these urges came on like a storm, I was confused and puzzled. I finally just accepted it and I have been thoroughly enjoying my online exchanges. I constantly crave it! There are a number of men I've cum with here on Lit and there is one guy on Lit who has become my online boyfriend although we do play with others. I have never been so hard so often nor have I cum so much in my entire life.
 
I don't know why and a few years ago when these urges came on like a storm, I was confused and puzzled. I finally just accepted it and I have been thoroughly enjoying my online exchanges. I constantly crave it! There are a number of men I've cum with here on Lit and there is one guy on Lit who has become my online boyfriend although we do play with others. I have never been so hard so often nor have I cum so much in my entire life.

That's awesome.

I'm NOT interested at all in anal with another guy - just the cock for me, and him, please & thanks.
 
It's crazy ever since I came here and started chatting with bi guys I never knew I had these urges . Now it's all I think about . Wish I could find some one discreet . Someone who we could have fun and not have to worry .
 
It's crazy ever since I came here and started chatting with bi guys I never knew I had these urges . Now it's all I think about . Wish I could find some one discreet . Someone who we could have fun and not have to worry .

Me too!
 
Older men bi curious.


I knew from a very early age that i was bi sexual. I had many, maybe a handful of experiences, over the years hooking up on occasion.

That being said, I have been more and more interested in having sex with men and have set out to do just that. I have made contact with people on silverdaddies.com and adultfriendfinder.com went and met them. I talked with them and if it felt right we had sex. Initially it was just sucking either in a 69 or not.

Then i decided that i wanted to get fucked and thats when it all changed. I love man to man sex. I like sucking cock and want to do it every day. In fact I went to a video arcade called Locomotion in Groton, Ct today and for the first time sucked a cock in an anonymous video booth. It was fantastic.

Yesterday I had anal sex for the second time in my life. The first was not great, this was way better. It felt incredibly good and aroused feelings that were amazing.

The whole point of this particular rant is that in the end its sex. We are engaged in having sex. With men, or women its still sex. And it feels good if you can find someone who can leave their inhibitions behind. If they can do that and if you can do that it can be fucking beautiful.

Now I just want to suck a nice uncut cock, and then have it in my ass. Thats what it comes down to.
 
I knew from a very early age that i was bi sexual. I had many, maybe a handful of experiences, over the years hooking up on occasion.

That being said, I have been more and more interested in having sex with men and have set out to do just that. I have made contact with people on silverdaddies.com and adultfriendfinder.com went and met them. I talked with them and if it felt right we had sex. Initially it was just sucking either in a 69 or not.

Then i decided that i wanted to get fucked and thats when it all changed. I love man to man sex. I like sucking cock and want to do it every day. In fact I went to a video arcade called Locomotion in Groton, Ct today and for the first time sucked a cock in an anonymous video booth. It was fantastic.

Yesterday I had anal sex for the second time in my life. The first was not great, this was way better. It felt incredibly good and aroused feelings that were amazing.

The whole point of this particular rant is that in the end its sex. We are engaged in having sex. With men, or women its still sex. And it feels good if you can find someone who can leave their inhibitions behind. If they can do that and if you can do that it can be fucking beautiful.

Now I just want to suck a nice uncut cock, and then have it in my ass. Thats what it comes down to.

I'm ready for ya! Older guys know what they want!
 
Back
Top