Why do men think that women are so confusing?

A friend of mine once said that women are all schizophrenics...that's why
 
I don't know. I don't think I'm confusing. Talk and I listen. Listen and I'll talk. Compliment me and I'll be more apt to act sexy. Pet me and I purr.

How hard is all that?
 
Nobody Special posted these keen insights about just this topic earlier today, but perhaps it was overlooked.

I'm sure women find men confusing too, so it's a game played on both sides. Perhaps the more open nature of females makes it all that much more mysterious, and thus more celebrated. All I know is that over time men develop a keen sense as to when 'something's up' with a woman, and rarely is the solution evident before it goes to poo.

:) Just my two cents.
 
i'll give you my reasons

beacause most woman dont say what the want, they hint at things and get pissed off when we guess wrong. if you gals would just tell us what your thinking and stop testing our ability to decipher your "code" maybe we wouldnt find you confusing..... thats what i would say on the inside if my wife asked that question, but on the outside i'd say....oh i dont find you confusing;)
 
Answer!!!

We are So Confusing Because Simple Reason.. We have to put up with All the shit Men give Us.. So let me just say We have reason to b Confusing.. Now u have to agree on that!!! Melissa
 
I have to agree seldomseen. Men and women want different things and use the same words to talk in diifferent languages.
 
Seldomseen - Nail/Head - hit the fucker!

Women do expect us guys to guess from the merest hints and as none of us is Einstein it makes it pretty difficult to get things right.

It's like that old question "Does this dress make my bum look fat?" Well you can never answer that right - she thinks it makes her bum look fat (which is why she asked) you know her bum looks fat and if you say so you're in the shit if you say otherwise you're lying:rolleyes:

Maybe the answer should be "No, the dress doesn't make your bum look fat; it's al the donuts you eat that makes it look fat!" Joking :D

No answers men and women just think differently and in that lies half the attraction!
 
confusing

Hey yummmy_baby...

Women seem to be attracted to guys that give them shit! So your reply doesn't count. Sorry...you may be a nice person who has had some bad relationships...but I bet you are consistant in your choice!

We are wired different! We use logic and reason...you are more like a short in the electrical system. And you woman aren't too sure of what you want! So, of course, you are confusing!

You equate love to security (money) and men (believe it or not) fall in love with the person...whether it is physical or the their personality.

Sorry baby...
 
I think we are so confusing, because every single one of us is totally different with different thoughts feelings, and attitudes. So, you have to take the time to get to know us rather then just trying to generalize.
 
okay sexy sammi

Yes sexy...you are right. I couldn't help but be a smart ass.

We are all different AND I like that we think different. I just get tired of women who choose the Bad Boy, then complain that all men are bad.

Look...men and women are different. I believe that we have to be...but we can at least hope to find a person that shares the same outlook or requires the same amount of affection. A relationship should be about a balance. One person's weakness is supported by anothers strength.
 
LOL yep you were fixin to have a very pissed of group of women come beating down your door hehe
 
well i think that, well know that men and women think differently. And in my experience i have only found one guy that can think the way we do. Women tend to spiral. so....
 
well here I was all ready to chime in on this but it seems to have been answered already.

Nic,:cool:
 
they think that because once we think we have a woman solved they change everything about themselves then we have to start all over trying to figure out what you women like or dislike.
 
Hey Neo...gay men don't count...

and Sexy... you gals couldn't kick my butt...I can run...

or maybe that wouldn't be so bad...
 
Re: confusing

Rambrat said:
Hey yummmy_baby...

Women seem to be attracted to guys that give them shit! So your reply doesn't count. Sorry...you may be a nice person who has had some bad relationships...but I bet you are consistant in your choice!

We are wired different! We use logic and reason...you are more like a short in the electrical system. And you woman aren't too sure of what you want! So, of course, you are confusing!

You equate love to security (money) and men (believe it or not) fall in love with the person...whether it is physical or the their personality.

Sorry baby...
*Knock*Knock*
So ok lets get into this by reading my little tiny thread u got all that from it?! i mean 4 u to give a good judgement o who and what my failures are... u must b 1 of those pigs i dated then right?!
And yes we are confusing everyone is u cant sit there and say men arent in one bit not confusing at all?! i mean get real what dream world are u in.....
And me myself doesnt need a man 4 his money or the things he can get my i stand on my own 2 feet....
and you said men fall in love with what"""and men (believe it or not) fall in love with the person...whether it is physical or the their personality.""""" I have date alot of men and my looks r let say better then average my personality is also great but i can tell u they werent there 4 my just 4 my personility.. and u will prolly say ur dating the wrong guys.. haha men are just as shallow as women.......
Sorry but u woke the Bitch up in me!!!! And just to b a smart ass wont cut it!!!Melissa
:rolleyes: :( :rolleyes: :rolleyes:
 
Hey...woken up!

I'm sorry Melissa... I detected some animosity in your first post.

Sometimes I say things just to get a rise out of people so that I can see where they stand. Of course I am not prejudging you...I am sure that you are a very nice person and very capable of standing on your own.

We have all crossed the wrong path at one time. You made your statement because you have experienced a bad relationship...and in making that comment...opened up a forum for others with similar experiences. And the plain truth is...for most of us...we will continue to make bad choices because we are unwilling to change our criteria.

It is easier for us to find fault in someone out of our reach than to admit to ourselves that we don't have what they want. But we seem to be attracted to the very thing that brings us down. Everyone is a little shallow. It takes an initial attraction in order to gain audience and show our most attractive side. Fair of face is nice...but it isn't everything. Money is nice...but it cannot give affection.

We need to look beyond the surface...

and so again dear saint, forgive me
 
Enough Said!!

Well hmm Your tune changed from the First Reply!! All good tho...
Everyone has Downfalls Even the greatest guy can be A royal ass @ times.. So its not like my statement was truly false!!
Everyone has there own reasons for doing and saying things... Bad realtionships or not. They all can have A breaking point to them.. Simple as that!!
Melissa...
 
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