Why do men like to fist and stretch out women

I've never had the desire to try fisting. However, I can see the eroticism in using a large dildo or penis sleeve. IMO, this is tied to the visual nature of men, natural fascination with the female genatalia, combined with repeated exposure to all of the jumbo sized cocks in porn. I realize there are some size queens and/or curious ladies on Lit, but in my experience most women think all of us guys and the size queen ladies are nuts to be so fascinated by size. :)
 
For me it’s seeing the pleasure my wife gets from being fisted or stretched. It’s seeing how turned on she is and how far she wants to go, how wet she gets and how much she cums. If she didn’t enjoy it then we wouldn’t do it, I know she likes it and she knows I enjoy anything that makes her happy.
 
For me it's control but also sort of a kid like fascination that the pussy is so cool! It's also different for most women ive been with. They all have been interested in my fascination with it, though not all have said yes.

Add one hint of sexy possessiveness + i'm going to ruin your pussy for anyone else = a hot psychological combo.
 
I enjoy being in total control and enjoy stretching her limits, seeing just how much she can take. I like the site of her as full and as stretched as she can possibly get.

After I'm finished, I enjoy climbing on top and slamming into her as hard as I can for some rough sex.

We don't do it often, but it is always fun.
 
I'very got a ginormous dildo ready for my girlfriend. If it works right it will satisfy her in ways I can't without aid.
 
Too complicated to get into all the details here.. but for me once it is a certain minimum length... thicker is better :)
 
An equally valid question would be, what do women get out of it?

For me, I would only do these things at a woman's request.
 
I get the impression that when they do this (men) they like to see how far we can take things.
Its like if I can handle a huge dildo then I have levelled up in my Slut status for them.
Means if I can do that I can then open to other more extreme things I think.

Times they focus on my facial expressions. If im struggling they encourage me to take it that little bit longer or deeper etc. They almost cheer me on "Thats it, Good girl, you can take. or Come on, a slut like you with a body like that is made for this. Then I get the Yeah thats it, nearly there, you can do it, come on take it, take it, show me how much you can take it. Good girl... Well done, Wow you are amazing.

That sort of thing. So I can only gather they are fascinated by a females sexuality. We also seem to show it during intense sexual times. Maybe thats why..
 
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