why do i like a large woman

[max_dylen]

well let me tell you
from my experience ive found that sex is better , a large voluptuous body is so much more fun to explore with you hands , tongue or what ever you like, ive noticed bigger girls are phreaks in bed , always horny , always wet , always ready for a nice hard cock , so yes I love a big fat slut , and I say that with nothing but love

ladies don’t get all hung up on weight, don’t let some tight ass magazine editor tell you that you should lose those pounds or u should look like this and so on

the only reason to loose weight is health reasons

but anyway I just wanna give a shout out to all the hot BBW out there

ill be dreaming about you tonight

 

[Rubyfruit]

Ok, I think I love this guy.

 

[Nora]

Ya know...

I was talking about this at work the other day. As a hefty chick myself, I'm not sure what attracts guys to the "larger set".

I don't find it a specific attraction to me, even though it fits me. If that makes sense. I'm happy with myself, but if *I* were a guy, would I choose me? No, probably not. I'd choose Hillary up in Sales. Damn she's hot. Wait, that's a different thread...

Do you feel it's equitable to preferring blondes over brunettes? By that I mean is it just a preference, or is it more fetishistic in nature? I'm really, sincerely curious.

 

[wildone28]

well let me tell you
from my experience ive found that sex is better , a large voluptuous body is so much more fun to explore with you hands , tongue or what ever you like, ive noticed bigger girls are phreaks in bed , always horny , always wet , always ready for a nice hard cock , so yes I love a big fat slut , and I say that with nothing but love

ladies don’t get all hung up on weight, don’t let some tight ass magazine editor tell you that you should lose those pounds or u should look like this and so on

the only reason to loose weight is health reasons

but anyway I just wanna give a shout out to all the hot BBW out there

ill be dreaming about you tonight

Thank you for saying that..It is always nice to see a man admit that he is attracted to a BBW as myself..You should check out the BBW Pics and Lovers thread on the Playground...You will find lots of beautiful women there that are not afraid to reveal ourselves to the men that like us!

 

[Cipher]

Ok, I think I love this guy.

LoL..me too Rubyfruit..LoL

We can share him..LoL

 

[Rubyfruit]

Re: Ya know...

Do you feel it's equitable to preferring blondes over brunettes? By that I mean is it just a preference, or is it more fetishistic in nature? I'm really, sincerely curious.

I don't think a preference for BBWs is fetishistic, personally, from my experience. Some men just prefer a more vuluptuous body. Many like big tits, which BBWs often have. I think most of my lovers have fallen for me despite my size, not because of it.

 

[max_dylen]

LoL..me too Rubyfruit..LoL

We can share him..LoL

theres enought of me to go around

 

[Weevil]

Re: Re: Ya know...

I don't think a preference for BBWs is fetishistic, personally, from my experience. Some men just prefer a more vuluptuous body. Many like big tits, which BBWs often have. I think most of my lovers have fallen for me despite my size, not because of it.

It's a superficial thing and, let's be fair, we're all a little superficial. But, beats me. People like what they like. Not all that interesting. I don't think liking BBW's is any weirder than say liking real skinny girls.

As they say, whatever floats your boats.

 

[Nora]

Re: Re: Ya know...

I think most of my lovers have fallen for me despite my size, not because of it.

That sentence addresses my personal confusion about it really well. I wouldn't want a guy who was only attracted to me *because* I'm squishy. I think that would make me feel worse in the long run, you know?

 

[Fly_On_Wall]

body size is body size
a person is a person
that's what I think

body size has never ever mattered to me. what I care about most is the face. and what gets me to like them?

personality.

i've had crushes on girls of all sizes before.... yes I was too stupid to act on those crushes. but size don't matter.

Max if that's what you like go for it.

 

[Rubyfruit]

Re: Re: Re: Ya know...

That sentence addresses my personal confusion about it really well. I wouldn't want a guy who was only attracted to me *because* I'm squishy. I think that would make me feel worse in the long run, you know?

I know what you mean. In all honestly, I've been a big girl my entire adult life and I've never encountered that. I've had lovers who've enjoyed my curves and my body, but I don't think any of them would have not wanted me to lose weight if I wanted.

 

[max_dylen]

Re: Ya know...

I was talking about this at work the other day. As a hefty chick myself, I'm not sure what attracts guys to the "larger set".

I don't find it a specific attraction to me, even though it fits me. If that makes sense. I'm happy with myself, but if *I* were a guy, would I choose me? No, probably not. I'd choose Hillary up in Sales. Damn she's hot. Wait, that's a different thread...

Do you feel it's equitable to preferring blondes over brunettes? By that I mean is it just a preference, or is it more fetishistic in nature? I'm really, sincerely curious.

well for me its not really a fetish , even thought i do have a fetish for large breasts, but you dont need to be a BBW to have those puppies

like i said before im just more turned on by a larger woman and all hour heavenly curves, or maybe its some deep psychological thing that attracts me to BBWs who knows, i dont give it too much thought i just stick with what i like, but what really attracts me to a woman is her brain , i know what your all thinking , BULLSHIT , well its true , id take a intelligent woman on a big tited skinny dumb binbo anyday

but im just rambling

 

[max_dylen]

it just occured to me that this thread is sort of like a confession for me

seems like all my buds seem to judge a girl by her looks , not even givin her a chance , seems like most of the ppl i know do that , even i do that sometimes but i try not to cuz its shallow

thats just how a feel
maybe that just my new age mentality or a chemical imbalance in the brain

who knows
doesnt matter either way

be who you are is what i say

 

[Nora]

Re: Ya know...

I know what you mean. In all honestly, I've been a big girl my entire adult life and I've never encountered that. I've had lovers who've enjoyed my curves and my body, but I don't think any of them would have not wanted me to lose weight if I wanted.

I've had the same experience. I've also never encountered anyone who was more attracted to the umm...big boned among us.

And let me state categorically that I'm not putting it down, either as a preference or as a fetish. I'm just curious which way it falls and why.

 

[Rubyfruit]

If I'm understanding correctly, Max is simply saying that he finds BBWs attractive. However, he is attracted to who the girl is before what she looks like.

All of us have preferences, but it doesn't mean that the person must meet that criterial to fall for them.

 

[max_dylen]

All of us have preferences, but it doesn't mean that the person must meet that criterial to fall for them.

good point , after all sometimes the best things come from spontenuity


no idea if i spelled that even remotly close to what its soppsoto be

 

[max_dylen]

oooo 2 more posts and im at 100


One

 

[max_dylen]

two



woohoo , now i gotta get my avatar creating brain lobe warmed up

 

[Nora]

I'm asking more generally, not just Max. And again, I don't mean to sound as if I'm deriding that choice. I just wanna understand it in a broader sense.

 

[Mellon Collie]

Obviously skinny people are just shit.

BBW, heh. That term is so arrogant - I wonder how they get away with it.

 

[seXieleXie]

Re: Re: Ya know...

I've had the same experience. I've also never encountered anyone who was more attracted to the umm...big boned among us.

obviously you haven't met out Marxist

 

[Rubyfruit]

Mellon Collie! Did somebody piss in your Wheaties this morning?

 

[seXieleXie]

Obviously skinny people are just shit.

BBW, heh. That term is so arrogant - I wonder how they get away with it.

come on MC, no one is saying anything mean about skinny girls. for the love of god, you're gorgeous. get a grip girlie and calm down.

 

[Nora]

Re: Re: Re: Ya know...

obviously you haven't met out Marxist

lol! I mean in real life. Not that i know of, anyway.

And although I'm almost postive Melon Collie is joking, I gotta say I don't really dig the term "BBW" myself. Just like all skinny women aren't beautiful, neither are all heavy women.

Personally, I refer to myself as squishy or extra-cuddly. Although there's nothing quite so priceless as seeing the look on the little 16 yr old shopgirl's face when you ask her where the Fat Girl Section is...

 

[Mellon Collie]

Nevermind, life is brill.