Why do I keep getting email like this?

[Guest]

Re: To the troll calling itself Duh April

Your attitude is the kind that blames rape victims for being raped, and victims of domestic violence for the assault inflicted upon them by someone who has no impulse control.

NO I would NEVER blame the rape victim. I was one because he had been told NO by too many stupid bitches that thought a flash was fine and no means no. Well NO does mean No until you are the NEXT woman he finds after being pissed off by another clueless bimbo and finally decides he doesn't give a fuck how many times you scream NO or how hard you are fighting him off.

Too many bimbos have teased him and you get to pay for their stupidity

 

[Naked Hunny]

Back it the hell up DUH!! Any relation to GUH!!!

First word for you is ISSUES!! Ya got some babe!!

Second word for you is SHRINK!! Find one!!

 

[April]

Re: Re: To the troll calling itself Duh April

NO I would NEVER blame the rape victim. I was one because he had been told NO by too many stupid bitches that thought a flash was fine and no means no. Well NO does mean No until you are the NEXT woman he finds after being pissed off by another clueless bimbo and finally decides he doesn't give a fuck how many times you scream NO or how hard you are fighting him off.

Too many bimbos have teased him and you get to pay for their stupidity

I'm sorry that happened to you. I can't imagine the feelings you have. If you haven't seen a couselor, I really think you should. No one should have to go through that alone. Or even go through it at all.

Blame the scum who did this, not the "stupid bitches that thought a flash was fine and no means no". He's the one with problems, not them. If he can't control himself, he shouldn't be out in public. That's just an excuse for him to do what he wants, and to try to get away with it.

If that's a valid reason, then hey, I'm gonna go rape some man because Thumper posted a hot pic of himself, and I just can't stand the teasing anymore! C'mon, it sounds stupid when I say it! So why does the fact that a man said it make it any better?

No offense, Thumper. I like your pic.

 

[*Eve*]

Back to the original post, KM, I have had some wierdos write me too. Someone wrote to me about Satan which kind of freaked me out but sometimes you have to take the mail you get with a grain of salt.

 

[Thumper]

*Blushing* None taken April...and Thanks

Now that is one hell of an ego boosting thought....

That my picture would cause hordes of women to go out raping and pillaging...hey, if it happens...all you guys out there owe me big time!!! Send cash...small denominations preferably!

It's too easy to blame it on the "other women" who flashed the idiot before.

Rape is a crime of aggression not sex...how many rational people actually believe a guy reads porno or views a naked woman then stalks around for hours in a constant state of excitement until he finds a victim...me I last about five minutes when I pop an adult video into the VCR. Then suddenly I'm not interested anymore. Takes me a month to get through a whole tape...no wonder they have no plot

FYI April...took me three minutes

 

[Guest]

how many rational people actually believe a guy reads porno or views a naked woman then stalks around for hours in a constant state of excitement until he finds a victim..

I have no clue but he grabbed me right after I got off the bus at a stop 15 feet from her front door so I guess it wasn't that long.

 

[Rosebud]

Duh we have all apologized for your getting raped..just because women show their bodies does not give men the right to rape us. HE had a mental problem that we did not cause and needs to see someone about it or go spend some time in jail with Bubba raping him...I am sorry that you are hurt but don't attack the women who like to show their bodies...at a porn site...and men don't take for granted that the women who do have pics like to cyber...get to know them first and see what it leads to

 

[Never]

Pardon me while I interrupt the argument - Nice pic. You've got a really lovely, um, pair of hands.
Okay, I'm done. Carry on, carry on.

 

[April]

Did you like it, Never sweetie? I could take another one just for you.

Thumper, umm, 3 minutes? What were you doing in that 3 minutes? Or do I need to ask? LOL Have pity on me, as I'm such a clueless bitch! LOL

 

[Never]

Did I like it? Let me think ...gorgeous naked woman cupping breast.. I think that would be a YES.

And before you ask, that is my final answer.

 

[Svedish_Chef]

Did I like it? Let me think ...gorgeous naked woman cupping breast.. I think that would be a YES.

And before you ask, that is my final answer.

You mean we can get more if we beg? Oh yes!

 

[KillerMuffin]

I overreacted, as usual. What can I say, I was having a rather juvenile fit and revelling in it's childishness. *sigh* I am, naturally, ashamed of myself. I have replaced the pic and my ridiculous visage will once again fill the screen at my profile. The reason? So some of my friends can see what I look like. No, I probably don't match your preconceived image of me. Thankfully I did nothing more than send an email to the individual saying No, thank you. I can be a bit, shall we say, impolite at times. This wasn't one of them.

Duh, get over yourself.

[Edited by KillerMuffin on 01-01-2001 at 07:30 AM]

 

[Isabella Thorne]

oh I also want to comment on a couple of more things too please ...

about Duh ... i want to say that i am sorry too that you got raped ... i have been nearly raped a couple of times ... but i can only imagine the pain you must have to live with ...

but to blame other people's sexuality for the depravity of one rapist is aiming your anger in the wrong the direction ... i am certain that you can see that ...

why are you frequenting a sex site if you have such heavy issue problems with sex? are you seeking therapy? the anger does not go away by itself ... you have to work at it. Good luck dear ... and I never meant to say anything in my previous post to lessen the plight of your suffering.

also ...

i want to talk a bit about the original subject .. there are some people who push and push real hard when they email / im me about cybering / phone sex ... and again they assume that is what i am asking for when i post pics or write about sex ... then calling me a "tease" for taking them half the way there ....

well uh uh ... i like very much what Rose-buddy said ... try get to know the woman first ... as in r/l ... then see where that will take you ...

and ohhhh Eve ... yikes ... no one has ever mentioned Satan to me before ... knock on wood ... you are right ... there are all kinds out there ... but again the good letters far outweigh the bad ones, right? the ones written from the "angels" ... lol

seee Buffy ... your email didn't even mention Satan ... lol ...

<Hugs and Happy New Year!!>

 

[KillerMuffin]

No, that one didn't. I did get a lovely... erm, email from an individual who really like my audio work, felt as if I were speaking directly to him, how wonderful it was that we had so much in common, would I please send him something more personal and from my heart, for his person enjoyment. He promised not to share. He called me his love, his sweetheart, dear, lover, and darling. He enclosed a picture of his penis to inspire me. He was friendly and polite. He is also a perfect stranger. He has an aol email addy, so if he does start with the cyber stalking bit, which I doubt, haven't heard from him since, he's easy to deal with.

I keep the email to remind me that it's a dangerous cyberworld out here.

 

[Rosebud]

have you checked out his aol profile??? if you don't have aol send me his name and I will send you the info

 

[GuyJD]

Re: Re: CAN YOU SAY FAVORATISM?

KM just did the exact same post and he's praised for it.

1. Chill
2. KM is female (how on earth did you miss that?)

I STAND CORRECTED....... I should have remembered once replying to her post about StudMuffin.

But it still applies to the issue of grammatical errors.

 

[KillerMuffin]

Ellipis marks come in threes. I get away with it cause I'm bitching about a private email, not someone's post on a board where there is no spell checker or a grammar checker.

That and I am short.

 

[Thumper]

Isabella....I love that song!

Brings back memories... Thank You Luv! *MUAH*

April...well OK it took me about a minute to get the computer shut down and 30 seconds to get upstairs and in the right "frame" of mind...a little over a minute of actual...er...um...ah... Can I have another too? Just like Never?

 

[April]

ROFL Thumper! You're just so sweet. Actually, I'm planning another shot, but this one probably won't be posted. However, I might be persuaded to give out the pic in exchange for umm....let's just call it what it is. Haha. A bribe!

Or a very nice email asking politely for the pic. Only from people I already know, BTW. (but i would prefer a bribe)

 

[Cheyenne]

Re: Isabella....I love that song!

April...well OK it took me about a minute to get the computer shut down and 30 seconds to get upstairs and in the right "frame" of mind...a little over a minute of actual...er...um...ah...

What? You're slowing down now that you've hit the Big 4-0?

LOL

 

[Thumper]

Well Yeah...

as you get older you learn to slow down and enjoy the experience Cheyenne LOL

April....geez! Are you implying the Christmas unveiling wasn't enough? Parade around naked in public for 24 hours and still they want more!

 

[Guest]

There is no excuse for cretins who have found resourceful and frightening ways to pursue their carnal urges through the Internet. As many have mentioned, it's impossible to keep the technology out of the hands of those with less-than-honorable intentions.

But it's despicable to equate having the freedom to post erotic pictures with being the victim of abuse. In most circumstances, the victim of abuse has little or no control over the situation, while the poster has all of the control.

I don't blame you for being disgusted with the troglodytes you've heard from -- or frightened by some of the vehemence -- and I agree it's a legitimate issue. But to feign naivete and attemt to align yourselves with legitimate victims is to diminish their cause, and that is truly dishonorable.