Why do first loves never work out?

[Fleshmachine]

Does anybody know?

Is the first love heartbreak mandatory?

Why didn't anyone warn me?

 

[Starfish]

Awww!

I don't think that it is manditory for them to fail.

I married my first love. And we are having our third anniversary this year.

I just think that most people fear the idea of missing out on life's options. I personally don't think that is always a good decision, though, to decide simply on that. But, some people don't think about important stuff like compatabilty (emotionally and sexually), common bond and intrest.....etc...

I am sorry if you are hurting.

*HUGS*

 

[Todd]

I performed the marriage cerimony for my first love this past September,

 

[Starfish]

Todd,
Boy, That sucks.

I may just get permission, from MR. G.R. and come up there to have some Christian Fellowship with you.

 

[Todd]

Todd,
Boy, That sucks.

I may just get permission, from MR. G.R. and come up there to have some Christian Fellowship with you.

Its good that you ask permission i wouldn't want you getting in trouble

 

[Starfish]

Well,

I am not sure that he'll even say okay. I just figured "I am going to Canada to go shopping for the weekend" wouldn't float.

 

[Todd]

Well,

I am not sure that he'll even say okay. I just figured "I am going to Canada to go shopping for the weekend" wouldn't float.

ROTFLOL

 

[Starfish]

 

[p_p_man]

But they do...

...I've always loved myself...

 

[Starfish]

Re: But they do...

...I've always loved myself...

And amazingly you're still together after all these years.

 

[p_p_man]

Yep and proud of it...

...thinking of taking myself out to dinner tonight to show my undying devotion...

 

[MidwestParadox]

First Love,,,,,

Second Love...........

Whatever Love.............

They're all doomed, I tell you. All doomed

There is no point to falling in love, It's tragedy.. Tragedy

Shakespeare has lasted all this time not by depiciting perfect love or becuase he writes of love so true

so good,

so perfect

Because it fails, it hurts, it sucks

and it never, ever gets easier to deal with no matter how many times you've had your heart ripped out and thrown on the ground in front of you..........


And there is nothing in the world to replace it.

 

[Guest]

hmm good question..

I ask myself that every day...

I think I have had two loves.... the first boyfriend...and the first deep love..

and both were destined for disaster....

Some people end up marrying their first loves..... and I have alot of admiration for them..... but for me... I think I needed to grow up and find something more comfortable and less dangerous...

 

[FantasyGoddess]

It has to do with maturity issues, too. I started dating in my teens and we were just to young. We also wanted different things. Some people are destined to be together and some not.